Originally posted by: HahaHeheHuhu9
Added note to my post above:
Even if the parivaar is good and not shitty like Goenkas, there's still absolutely 0 sense and 0 requirement for any individual to trash their own happiness and feelings just for the so called parivaar ki izzat.
And izzat can't be more than someone's mental peace and happiness. There's no point of izzat and putting up a facade in front of the world if it has to come at the cost of people's emotions and happiness. That's fake and just hypocrisy.
If it was really a parivaar, they'll support the individual and understand where they're coming from.
@bold : yes. This this this.
How is choosing your own happiness such a crime? How can izzat be more important than your own peace?
I just hope this doesn't adversely affect those two. Abhi's stance is correct, they're angry, we have to convince them together, we can't just give up. Because, based on how these people are, they expect that only.
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