Dr Abhimanyu Birla- A case study of a Biwi Bhakt - Page 9

Originally posted by: Eternized_Blues

I got one newbie to reply and now I am considering this post a success! 🤗

I adore Dr. Biwi Bhakt Abhimanyu Birla. There is nothing that this man will not do for Akshara, all he wants in return is her love and acceptance. He will fight their families, world and even god for her! Anyone who can put their pain aside to soothe the person who has caused them pain deserves all your devotion.

@ bold- Always here to hear your thoughts. Never hesitate.

Plus I think the credit for this post goes more to Noor, Zenu and Guglu than me. They forced me to write one. Thank them!

Love,

Blue Blue

Heyy!! This is such a beautiful post. Your love for Abhimanyu is intricately woven into each word you've written. And I whole-heartedly agree with your statement regarding characters having flaws. On a personal level, I feel like as viewers we've generally started to demand ideal versions of our lives in stories. I mean to be human is to be ridiculous and flawed and problematic. We all live in bubbles and do ridiculous things without wanting to.

Wrote this in another thread but want to reiterate that storytelling really is about good people doing bad things without wanting to. I'm glad at least in that regard yrkkh is nothing like an ekta show with caricaturish villains and motivations. I like my characters problematic because that's literally how people are. Obviously, context is king and the criterion is always whether I can empathize with the character, stand in his shoes and walk his miles. As long as I can do that I enjoy the arcs and actions.

What's interesting is that when Abhimanyu asked Akshara what love was she had a stable idea, a vague definition if not a complete picture. But Abhimanyu had no clue, no example or analogy to draw from. When he fell in love it was a freefall. A melting pot of intense, conflicting emotions erupted like a whirlpool beneath his feet and he dove in head-first, both exhilarated and petrified. Akshara is now the center of his gravity and I think he's still struggling with what that truly means and how deep this need for her runs in his blood.

He's still scared, he's still evolving in love, and it's not going to be an easy ride for either of them. But the more they know about each other, the more they progress together the more comfortable he'll grow with these intense, batshit crazy feelings she ignites in him.

Originally posted by: FleetingWishes.

Heyy!! This is such a beautiful post. Your love for Abhimanyu is intricately woven into each word you've written. And I whole-heartedly agree with your statement regarding characters having flaws. On a personal level, I feel like as viewers we've generally started to demand ideal versions of our lives in stories. I mean to be human is to be ridiculous and flawed and problematic. We all live in bubbles and do ridiculous things without wanting to.

Wrote this in another thread but want to reiterate that storytelling really is about good people doing bad things without wanting to. I'm glad at least in that regard yrkkh is nothing like an ekta show with caricaturish villains and motivations. I like my characters problematic because that's literally how people are. Obviously, context is king and the criterion is always whether I can empathize with the character, stand in his shoes and walk his miles. As long as I can do that I enjoy the arcs and actions.

What's interesting is that when Abhimanyu asked Akshara what love was she had a stable idea, a vague definition if not a complete picture. But Abhimanyu had no clue, no example or analogy to draw from. When he fell in love it was a freefall. A melting pot of intense, conflicting emotions erupted like a whirlpool beneath his feet and he dove in head-first, both exhilarated and petrified. Akshara is now the center of his gravity and I think he's still struggling with what that truly means and how deep this need for her runs in his blood.

He's still scared, he's still evolving in love, and it's not going to be an easy ride for either of them. But the more they know about each other, the more they progress together the more comfortable he'll grow with these intense, batshit crazy feelings she ignites in him.

Hey! Thanks for the wonderful reply!

I love every bit of this flawed character. The fact that he is not perfect and neither does he pretend to be is very appealing. He is a human, who makes mistakes and then learns from them. I am not really a fan of ideal characters.

@ bold -This is so true. These are the characters that make good stories. I like my characters problematic because if they were perfect it would make for a boring story.

The characters that have issues will evoke emotion and reaction out of you. Abhimanyu as flawed as he is makes me want to hate him at times and then love him in another moment. Abhimanyu frustrates me and then makes me want to baby him at the same time,

His love truly is a freefall. He does not put social boundaries on his love. Akshara can set his boundaries, he will happily let her, but he would not cater to boundaries that society puts on his love. He just loves, there is no pretense. I always say that he can not control his love for Akshara if he could control it he would not have fallen in love with her in the first place.

He is going to make a lot of mistakes in the future in this journey of love with Akshara. But they will both grow together. He will teach her to fight for herself and she will slow him down for better.

Love

Blue Blue

What a beautiful post…makes one fall in love with him all over again❤️

Love was never meant to be easy… and perfect human there was none.

HC and by extension Abhi epitomises it all and oh so well!

U’ve really said it all so I have nothing to add.. just 2 observations…

1. When u love someone so bad, and the other person loves u but doesn’t prioritise u or really accept u, it’s gonna sting.

it’s only with time, after multiple conversations, does one start accepting this fact… then too it is sometimes not ok. So if Abhi reacted aggressively, it is understandable. Ok or not.. forum has had plenty of debates.. keeping out. Could he have skipped marrying Arohi? This is where we go into hindsight… which is easy to get into when situations unfold but not when they are happening especially when u are already vulnerable! So Abhi is perfectly flawed in that sense!

2. Name of the show- yeh rishta kya kehlata hai

Premise of the show - to surface events which lead characters to question- yeh rishta kiya kehlata hai?! Haven’t they just done that?

Originally posted by: Eternized_Blues

Simran🤗

I don't write many posts, this one was coerced 🤣

I will remember to tag you!

A proper apology is a must, Abhimanyu wants it or not, we want it. When that man cries it hurts in our hearts.

I can not wait for Abhimanyu to give Aarohi a reality check. I mean the way this man says "Meri Akshu" with such haq, people write poems about that!

Ulta pulta pyaar is going to set our screens on fire soon!!!!

Love,

Blue Blue

Seriously i was laughing at that time when he said Meri Akshu and mimi was like Meri akshu🤣🤣 ye kab hua😆

loved that shocking expressions of them 🤣 inhe arohi ke siwa kuch pata h nai hota

Bus arohi arohi mala jhapte Raho😡 seriously they don't deserve akshu and her love😡