Them and their emotions - Page 7

Awww... You were waiting for my input "Priya" am really touched.

So on the lighter note, that upside down thing reminded me of something "amru" said when we were discussing aditya Hooda that, he would hanged ak upside down until she confessed😂😂😂

Ok so am glad I didn't got chance to react earlier, would have overreacted.

So, yes I am ok with it now, to be honest something extreme is needed to bring ak out of her shell and like I said it's not at all out of character for Abhi. Actually, not many things are. This guy's absolutely crazy and I love him.

So, what I think we haven't gotten any pics of hug in that dress, so maybe I think ak would run off again after finding out Abhimanyu is alright. Saying you're getting married and can't back off now. Or Abhimanyu might actually be angry that he had to be on the verge of dying to make her confess. But I vouch for ak leaving.

And thing about doing what we fear is, it get easier the second time. So maybe something happens and ak confess on her own accord. For some reason I can't let that hope go. Because really if confession already happened then why would he dream of it. And it just can't be promo because their are lot more scenes. So ya, am just going with the flow.

But I still hate that monstrosity of a dress.

Someone on twitter said that she's wearing that cause she's depressed. I mean I didn't knew people went to the nearest curtain shop, bought the ugliest curtains and get an equally ugly dress made out of it, when they are depressed.😡😡😡

Beautifully said all words for Akshara. She can't leave Abhi for Arohi this time. That's why her inner turmoil is pushing her towards him not to be cheated by Arohi. If Arohi loved him like her she could not have thought this much. and Abhi will get used to Arohi slowly and she can make her place. But when her intentions are wrong what should she did do now. That's what she is going through how to come out of this mess same way like Abhi..

Originally posted by: Nyxigniflex

Yes, ak can't wake up one day decide I am going to call on Aarohi's bluff and confess my love for Abhi, to hell with aarohi. Ofcourse she had to struggle. My problem is she not telling Abhimanyu about MD thing.

And ofcourse ak have no one, her singing to herself to ward of a panic attack after the accident broke my heart.so ya let's see......

Yes, I agree Akshara should at least tell Abhimanyu about the MD issue. He has a right to know.

Someone on twitter said that she's wearing that cause she's depressed. I mean I didn't knew people went to the nearest curtain shop, bought the ugliest curtains and get an equally ugly dress made out of it, when they are depressed.😡😡😡

🤣 this comment made me laugh so much

I actually think its the CV/stylist way of depicting Akshara's emotional state. She is depressed and unhappy.

I sometimes watch or keep tabs on the no. 1 slot leader show and the FL use to wear some really plain looking outfits. But now that she has left her house and started her life and is starting to fall for the ML her clothing has changed drastically.

So I am hopeful this will change too for Akshara if not then all I can say is the stylish must dislike Pranali 🤓 otherwise no reason to give her some really bad outfits. The only saving grace is that Pranali is pretty so somehow she still manages to look okay.

Ya, it's a miracle how she still manage to look really pretty.😂

So I just read all the comments over these kids emotions from you all and these are some really great points.

@iheartchai, meher and ridhi - the comments I read about akshu are really amazing. That are some great put points over their life style.

Here are my thoughts adding to yours.

One thing I realised from watching all these characters are.

Akshu - she thinks through her mind does the right thing only for others. When it comes to her nothing exists for this girl in her world. That's why abhi asked her to listen to her heart time and again.

Aarohi - this girl had lost her heart the day her mother died and her brain had gone to a long sleeping mode. I honestly doesn't know without these two how her life runs.

Abhi - this guy listens to his heart for his akshu. But their is still a place where we need to see where he uses his brain.

Neil - time and again this guy becomes a gem only because of this. He listens to his heart and thinks through his brain. That's why he wins all our hearts every now and then.

One thing if I put Birla siblings and Goenka siblings in a comparison chart. The first thing I would write is.

The birla siblings think through their heart. The Goenka's think only on the surface level. Haan we have an exceptional case here Kairav bhaiya doesn't do the thinking work at all.

One simple and best example is their notation for marriage.

The Goenka siblings had seen two marriages work in their family. Manish got married to swara as 2nd wife later fell in love. Karthik fell in love twice and got married twice. These kids so thought it would be ok after wedding. This is what aarohi too told at the beginning. Akshu had a notation that two people of same level should get married and we can't blame her nowadays this is a normal thing.

If mimi had given her gyaan about Naira how "karthik and Naira are two different people yet United by love " earlier maybe akshu would have thought this before hand. That shows how much these kids knew very less about their own parents.

This is where these kids are so lost. Indeed abhi and Neil are the perfect combo for them to hold these girls.

Now let me talk about Kairav. I can already imagine a future story brewing. Kairav being elder brother who knew his one sister love and who doesn't know why his other sister really took money would be looked down by others. So going by Yrkkh popular match making skills if they introduce a girl in Birla's for Kairav. Haan abhi will do all honors to fry him that day. 🤣🤣🤣

Yes i feel Abhimanyu will not be ok with alliance with kairav and akshu will convince

That happened in Kaira's time too, kartik was against naksh getting married to keerti

And Abhimanyu kairav have been shown in clash in first tilak where kairav called abhimanyu a two timer, now abhimanyu will do the honours when his time comes

Originally posted by: hari15

So I just read all the comments over these kids emotions from you all and these are some really great points.

@iheartchai, meher and ridhi - the comments I read about akshu are really amazing. That are some great put points over their life style.

Here are my thoughts adding to yours.

One thing I realised from watching all these characters are.

Akshu - she thinks through her mind does the right thing only for others. When it comes to her nothing exists for this girl in her world. That's why abhi asked her to listen to her heart time and again.

Aarohi - this girl had lost her heart the day her mother died and her brain had gone to a long sleeping mode. I honestly doesn't know without these two how her life runs.

Abhi - this guy listens to his heart for his akshu. But their is still a place where we need to see where he uses his brain.

Neil - time and again this guy becomes a gem only because of this. He listens to his heart and thinks through his brain. That's why he wins all our hearts every now and then.

One thing if I put Birla siblings and Goenka siblings in a comparison chart. The first thing I would write is.

The birla siblings think through their heart. The Goenka's think only on the surface level. Haan we have an exceptional case here Kairav bhaiya doesn't do the thinking work at all.

One simple and best example is their notation for marriage.

The Goenka siblings had seen two marriages work in their family. Manish got married to swara as 2nd wife later fell in love. Karthik fell in love twice and got married twice. These kids so thought it would be ok after wedding. This is what aarohi too told at the beginning. Akshu had a notation that two people of same level should get married and we can't blame her nowadays this is a normal thing.

If mimi had given her gyaan about Naira how "karthik and Naira are two different people yet United by love " earlier maybe akshu would have thought this before hand. That shows how much these kids knew very less about their own parents.

This is where these kids are so lost. Indeed abhi and Neil are the perfect combo for them to hold these girls.

Now let me talk about Kairav. I can already imagine a future story brewing. Kairav being elder brother who knew his one sister love and who doesn't know why his other sister really took money would be looked down by others. So going by Yrkkh popular match making skills if they introduce a girl in Birla's for Kairav. Haan abhi will do all honors to fry him that day. 🤣🤣🤣

Originally posted by: Mehersudha

Season2 is set with singhus as best family and dysfunctional Goenkas through kartik. They used to mend them.in right way through Naira and set them.in tracks. But after Nairas death it's total messing of Goenkas with lack of parenting guidance. If Naira was there kids were gems and shown thinking through heart. But they retained the characters that way as nikammas and kept them alive. Goenkas never bothered to what their kids wanted amd demanded money. During luvkush time it's clearly shown Goenkas parvarish made them molestors. Naira used to go against family as her roots from Ak Naitik were strong and Naksh bhayyaih was always a strong support system to her. Season3 Birlas are more likable than Goenkas..they have proper bonding and love as all parents are alive and caring kids naturally.goenkas kids are suffering due to parenting , lack of trust or understanding in them. Arohi is a specimen no doubt. And she is made that way by Goenkas. Akshara is suppressed not knowing her needs amd taking suffering happily. Kv is waste to take stand for anyone just goes in flow..need to wait for him till track ends. Birla boys need to set these girls amd their short comings .

The first hand knowledge of love, understanding, respect, trust and most important marriage for any kid comes from their parents and here all the 3 Goenka siblings have lost their parents. Especially kv and Ak lost their mothers twice that too in front of their eyes. Its not easy for any child to absorb or handle that tragedy.

So all the 3 goenka children are lost as parents are missing from their lives who always play a crucial role in moulding a child, their thought process and consequently the actions. Senior Goenkas have just nurtured their needs but moulding part couldnt handle properly. Like before marriage if I ask money from my parents, I had to produce the complete list of expenditure and its just not because they dont trust me but it was much required so that they have a tap on my whereabouts and my actions and I dont fall into any mishap.

Here Arohi is asking 40L and the Senior Goenkas gave that without any cross checking.. I mean which parent does that?? This is one reason when I say anybody else however much they love could never replace a parent. If it was Naira in their place or Karthik, they would have checked where this bulk amount is disappearing.. No wonder Arohi got scammed. So the basics of right or wrong over their actions and their thought process all the 3goenka children are lacking. Kv remaining mute when he knows the feelings of Ak, Ak covering up for all the misdeeds of Arohi and arohi just live in illusions and even chase those at the expense of others emotions. Here parenting was more of pampering and lesser with strict guidance.

Whereas in Birlas all the parents are present and almost all the Birla kids were nourished and nurtured by Manjeri and Mahima though working mother guided them equally. They have learnt to respect and trust and stand for each other, which goenka siblings lack.

Beautiful description deepthi. ❤❤❤

Originally posted by: hari15

Beautiful description deepthi. ❤❤❤

Hari, we were discussing the symbolic impact of colour and while watching just found when Abhi is close to Shiv procession with all the five elements of the universe. The five elements make Mother Nature or prakriti or the goddess of shakti which is parvathi /durga who is the embodiment of justice and victory adorned in red!!

If you observe Abhi, he was smearing his forehead with vibhooti or bhasmam in the background with thandav music. That is showing resemblance to shiv. He got clarity, he got the purpose of his existence, and he can see his destination right in front of his eyes, just need to reach it and hold it and never let it go.. He is flagged off with red flags all around towards success for his new journey though its filled with hurdles, new beginning with his own capability to complete his purpose of existence, to meet his other half ardhnarishwar that is his parvathy who is adorned in red.. and when they meet, she trips and falls because still her energy is not strong enough to match shiv or Abhi.. and abhi holds her, supports and gets her to stand straight to match his energy, to match him the Shiv.. She still has to reach his level in love by accepting it and once she accepts, he will protect her from all until she is strong enough to stand on her own and handle people the way it should be. Really interesting how Cvs come up with minute symbolic details.

Even at the beginning when Abhi was holding photo and trying to grasp the totality of it, his hand was shivering with the photo. Like his whole self, his existence was shaken with the gravity of the truth right in front of his eyes. It takes time for him to realize. You can see shock, surprise, happiness, disappointment, grief, agony, frustration, and finally anger in his eyes.

Its really beautiful and commendable the way by which our HC literally lives Dr. Abhimanyu Birla. Im in awe of him.