::Bade Achhe Lagte Hai S2:: EDT #7 - Page 49

More than anything I really want Priya to confront Ram about that dance and his behaviour at the party. The reason being , it was not fair on him to jump into conclusions based on what other's say about his wife and then insulting her. The other reason is appreciating his ex in front of his wife for the party is not good. I know people will say Priya doesnt know abt it but I feel any lady in her place would become insecure.

Vedika and gang are able to hurt Priya is because they know Ram will trust them blindly and hence can be manipulated. If Ram was a lil smarter, then these people will fear Ram's reaction . For them Ram is like a goose that lays golden egg. They also know when Ram is angry then there is no way he can be controlled. We have understood that from Shubu and Nandini's conversation. The only person who can calm him or reach him during anger is Vedika . I feel that is why Nandini likes Vedika , so that Ram can be controlled by Vedika.

No matter how much ever difference of opinion we have with our spouse , we should never insult them in public. We can have arguments in our personal space but not in front of others. What he fail to understand is if he doesnt respect his wife , his family also wont respect her. They will only make use of their differences for their benefit.

I am not sure if you all think the same.

No no I agree although I have never been married but this is something that I felt too wrong on Ram's part. Infact in the last thread I strongly criticised ram when the promos got out for the first time.

Mein to already 7-8 din se bolri hu ki puri party me mujhe sabse zada bura ram ka vedika ke sath dance karna laga. Party kisne organise ki iski misunderstanding hona is still understandable but to leave your wife in the corner and dance with another woman who is your ex and when everyone knows about that at the party except your wife is very disrespectful no matter how much of a fight you have with your wife.

This is the only thing I don't appreciate in ram that he gets manipulated very easily by vedika and neeraj. He just stops using his brain at all when too much emotional. Instead of going to your wife and talking to her he was keeping his distance. Jo sab isne neeraj ko Kapoor mansion ke bahar bola vahi kitchen mein Gus ke bolta to kya jata, atleast misunderstandings nahi badhty. Communication is very important in every relationship.

But Aaj ke episode me jab vedika ram ko cake cut karne ko bolty hai idk why but mujhe aesi feel aai jese Ram wanted to sunao her for making priya mad at him, vo itne questioning and unbelievable sa look deta hai vedika ko, like asking himself kya aurat hai ye meri biwi gussa hoke chali gyi or ise apni padi hai agr maitrey na aaty to kya pata kuch suna deta. But I really liked how after that he cut vedika's rant to ram lekin ram lekin and chala gya.

Same.... everything else maybe to a some extent be blamed on misunderstandings, lack of communication, past traumas and wounds , insecurities, manipulation by villains etc etc .....but keeping ex in same house without knowledge of wife and dancing with ex part is completely undigestible....🤔

Ram is not seeing how hypocritical this is of him....

Everything is going wrong right from Priya fighting with Ram to hide b’day planning to Ram ignoring his wife and chipkaoing with Vedika at the party to dancing with Vedika to Ram’s monologues about Priya today. Everything is wrong! I want Priya to do a band Bajao of Ram after she comes back to his senses.🤣

I loved Priya’s dialogues to Neeraj today🤣

What were the writers trying to project with this plot. If they want to show Ram as a weak, hypocrite, brainless loser, they are on point. I didn’t see anyone feeling jealous or love in this plot other than ignorance and hurt because of Ram’s behavior. Also some useless plans.

I think Ram is being judged by the way we would react if we were in his place. If you start looking at his behaviour then it is inline with his character ( except the last point I mentioned)

I don’t think Ram questioned Priya’s integrity in the entire birthday party. He was not happy with the fact that Priya was with Neeraj during the day, despite of them agreeing earlier that she would not ask Neeraj for help and would come to him instead.

I think this was the his whole peeve point. As he has mentioned earlier too that he cannot imagine a sensible girl like Priya choosing someone like Neeraj. ( Although he himself is no good at it 😀).

The other issue he has is he still cannot understand her, and thinks that she does not treat her as important as he does.

I also attribute this to his person reading ability which is very poor or shall I say somewhere on the boundary - as he definitely has some very good friends while he cannot read his ex or family. So, I do not blame him for still not comprehending Priya. Although he has read Neeraj well 😀.

I do not advocate his behaviour with Priya when she walks away with Vedika or even dances with her. In a strong and mature relationship dancing with one’s ex would be very trivial. In this case, even if Priya does not know he does, and he may deny it vehemently that vedika is his ex but until recently he was the one who claimed that he can never move on and he professed his undying love for her at the drop of the hat and somehow took pride in it. So he cannot bend the rules as per his convenience and this is the point where his integrity is questionable. Being in line with his character he may not have declined the dance but definitely did not have to walk away with Vedika insulting Priya.

GM ladies, we are so attached to these characters, we are still trying to find some achayi and feel good about it. Hum bhi kya paagal log hai 🤪

Tbh i feel it is not easy to maintain standards of a show for 100 episodes. to make more episodes they will drag the story, show more drama, villains will get more screen space. which is why finite series is always a great idea! idk why itv makers have to make shows with infinite episodes, they do have potential storyline but cause of too many episodes they spoil the entire show. damn sure balh2 would have been one of the best if it was a finite series. has a pretty interesting storyline and also good scenes, most importantly both leads are doing fab job be it in terms of acting or chemistry. both nakuul n disha have good show selections, didnt do much shows but the shows they did all were interesting at the start.

however currently issue of balh2 is not mainly the dragging, but the fact there are too many villains n they r getting too much screen space. when the show started vedu was a positive character, nandu n shubhu were grey characters, and now these three r turned negative(though for shubhu n nandu i will say dark grey, means more of negative than positive) so there werent many villains and neeraj was just an idiot(he still is). also ram and priya misunderstandings gets really frustrating for fans(fans this era lose interest very fast makers have to understand this!)

when ram n priya had more screen space n storyline focused mostly on them show was automatically getting trps but as soon as they overdose negative scenes it got a drop in all kind of ratings. i think this week they added 3 extra episodes(seems like rain sequence wasnt part of bday track initially) to give more scenes to Ram n priya so that they can get their trp, but they should cut down negative characters scenes also. if vedu track was ending soon i was okay with them showing more of vedu but not than more than a week.

hope makers really understand what fans really want. i appreciate them for adding more ram and priya scenes, and bringing brinda back. and i really hope they dont add more misunderstandings between the leads, at least for now, back to back misunderstandings track is a bad idea!

was watching balh2 yesterday, and my aunt joined(she doesnt watch itv shows at all)

when i asked her what she liked the most, she said it was vedu’s necklace 😆

wow vedu’s necklace getting limelight now 🤣few days ago i also saw someone saying sandy’s laptop cover was the best thing of the episode 🤣 first sandy’s laptop cover and now vedu’s necklace🤣

At least she found something positive in the episode. Main tho logic doond rahi thi

Originally posted by: tirchinazar

At least she found something positive in the episode. Main tho logic doond rahi thi