Dhadkan Zindaggi Kii official EDT#2 - Page 30

Originally posted by: hapc

Thanks for enunciating this point neatly👍🏼

Pseudo Feminism to the point of bringing Gender & Age related issues - this point hasn't been made in the serial under any circumstances yet.

This is the exact same thing I wrote in one of the points yesterday.

Originally posted by: ShinyMishka

However, that doesn't mean if a girl rejects you it's because she likes someone else, or due to anything else other than she simply doesn't want to be with you! That in itself is a complete response and it's not right to continue to push someone for answers.

Whether or not Deepika actually has feelings isn't relevant. She gave her answer, and that's something both Vikrant and Abhay should respect.

Exactly.. why couldn't this Boy take a No for a No and was literally running at the speed of a truck. Thank God, he atleast maintained the physical boundaries & didn't come close to her to try to explain more👎🏼

I love how they showed Deepika as mature & didn't let it affect the surgery like Sia botched up her case last week. Shows how much experience helps.

Originally posted by: ShinyMishka

He is my jigar ka tukda and all, but boy really needs to learn patience. Character growth on this show is like one step forward, two steps back.

- Gosh, this is so true. You like 1 character & they push them the next literally down a Flight of stairs

I'm still gonna be so sad during the bike scene I know it. Bacchu ka dil toot nahi dekh sakti.

- I couldn't even enjoy that most awaited scene cos I hated Abhay so much yesterday for his dialogues

Originally posted by: music_girl

me waiting for her to get suspended cos she hid the Vikrant thing.

I think this sounds like the most feasible solution at this point. Since both'll get suspended, noone can blame person and finally introspection will come to the Protagonist's brain😳

Solves all problems in 1 go.

Originally posted by: ShinyMishka

I just wanted to comment on the nature of male-female friendship and giving hints as the topic was brought up. In this show we have examples of completely platonic male-female relationships like Deepika-PC and Sia-Peroz. However, when it comes to Deepika-Abhay it's more complicated. Abhay being so expressive, it was obvious he had feelings for Deepika, but as Deepika keeps herself more reserved it's difficult to gauge her emotions. Even with Vikrant it's confusing because she reacts one way, but says something else. Certainly, Abhay-Deepika's relationship is less clearly defined, which leaves room for something else. If we as shippers picked up on it, then I think the makers wanted to show that there is something there.

In my opinion, Abhay is not wrong to think that Deepika may also like him. I mean, this is how many relationships start, someone picks up on the hints and proposes the next step, and a lot of the time that role falls upon the guy as that's just how society is... Only in Sia-Abhay's case the reverse happened and Abhay just went along with it. So he's inexperienced and clueless. However, that doesn't mean if a girl rejects you it's because she likes someone else, or due to anything else other than she simply doesn't want to be with you! That in itself is a complete response and it's not right to continue to push someone for answers. I'm not placing the blame squarely upon guys, I've seen cases where if a guy rejects a girl it's concluded he must be gay. Whether or not Deepika actually has feelings isn't relevant. She gave her answer, and that's something both Vikrant and Abhay should respect.

Thanks man..for clearly stating facts about this "giving hints" topic nd how Deepika does give clear hints..Like u said, we as viewers r picking it up, then kya hi blame kare inn do ladko ko! 😆 This is what I've been trying to say since yesterday but some seems to misunderstand it..it's not an issue though, everybody has their opinions..Nd yeah both the men should've taken the woman's "no" as a "no"..Nd I'm glad Abhay didn't go on with forcing her after she rudely rejected him..He did it 2-3 times, that too politely..nd that wasn't fully wrong..it happens..But yeah if he keeps forcing her for the next 2-3 epis, to believe that she too loves him back, then I'll hit him on his head!😡 I don't think he'll force her anymore, as he has accepted the reality nd hence that outburst by the road was shown!

I think from today, he'll be in his blunt mode where he just can't tolerate any nonsense nd will start questioning Deepika on her ethics, self respect nd character for having an affair with a married man..He did that politely in yesterday's episode, but aaj se, he'll be in full mode! Nd trust me, I want that..I want someone to show Deepika clearly where she's going wrong..nd if it's through Abhay, I won't mind! My only worry is..though Abhay will be representing us viewers while he questions her morality, the makers might show his questioning to be wrong nd whitewash Vikrant nd ViPika's affair..nd few fans will feed on that as heroine toh kabhi galat ho hi nhi sakti..😒 Once Abhay gets to know their past, I know he'll be shown to be regretting for questioning Deepika's character to glorify her EMA activities..but I really want him not to regret, just get the fact nd leave them..He does deserve better than Deepika!

I couldn't tag u in my reply to ShinyMishka, so tagging u here..Do check that post just above this, as I wanted to tag u there!🤗

I absolutely agree with what u said! My only problem..why r people finding it so hard to label ViPika's activities as EMA? Isn't it clear yet? Even Vikrant fumbled yesterday when he was saying that Aditi will think they're having an affair, which they r not..While saying this, he fumbled..he too knows it! Makers r hell bent on glorifying EMA..isn't it clear yet? Nalini-Vinit, Vinayak-Naina..all these have been glorified just to shove ViPika's EMA down our throats! Still people r finding ways to defend Deepika's activities..like seriously?!?! U can blame Vikrant, u can even blame Abhay, but u can't blame Deepika? Why? People r reasoning her logic behind keeping Vikrant at her home..i mean how?!?! Even Vikrant questioned her that day why she didn't keep him at his own home or left him in the rehab itself? Nd as usual she couldn't answer..Deepika is actually not a flawed character, she's actually a dumb character honestly..First 2 weeks, she was bang on..but after that her graph going down n down to the point now where I doubt she'll be able to rise up! Abhay is trying to lift her up but that will be done to whitewash Vikrant..PC tried but failed..I think only Aditi can help now may be by giving her a tight slap! 😆

Originally posted by: ShinyMishka

Agreed. Can't believe I'm at a point in the show where I'm rooting for Jamshed to roast Deepi. Thank goodness Dr. Ali is around to actually be a mentor. He's my new favorite senior. Please just let Abhay focus on his career. Why are they throwing his character to the wolves to make Vipika look better? It really is out of character for him to go into denial mode. Bas woh gaana yaad aagaya "sochte the ki woh kitne masoom the, kya se kya hogaya dekhte dekhte" 😭

ooh yeah... I can't wait for the roasting to begin. Funny thing I was hoping for PC to roast my Taklu CEO but turns out both will be in the same boat. 😆 I want Abhay to focus on his career too now. And yes, Dr Ali is my current favourite senior too

Originally posted by: hapc

I doubt it is pseudo feminism. It is okay to feel like someone is giving hints but once they say no you just back off; regardless of whether it is a boy or girl because you don’t really know what is happening in the other person’s head and what they consider normal behavior. Some dudes consider a polite smile by a girl to be a hint toh kya hi bole. Here abhay had a reason to consider hints but should have left it at no imo.

And we also had a problem with Sia pushing the relationship onto Abhay because she thought he was giving hints so not a gender thing.

@pink..this is why I used pseudo feminism! 😊 I too was saying the exact same thing..But people tend to symphathize with women more if she takes hints which r not actually hints by a guy..Whereas if a guy takes hints which r not actually hints by a girl, then the guy is blasted..like few people r blasting Abhay..or even Vikrant for a moment! Abhay's thoughts nd forcing Deepika to accept that she too loves him, though said politely, was wrong I agree..but he didn't keep running behind her after she called him out rudely, rather he stopped nd got hit by the reality..hence that breakdown by the road! Yes, if he keeps forcing her again, then I'll say he's been finally butchered!

Originally posted by: DEBOLINA96

I couldn't tag u in my reply to ShinyMishka, so tagging u here..Do check that post just above this, as I wanted to tag u there!🤗

I absolutely agree with what u said! My only problem..why r people finding it so hard to label ViPika's activities as EMA? Isn't it clear yet? Even Vikrant fumbled yesterday when he was saying that Aditi will think they're having an affair, which they r not..While saying this, he fumbled..he too knows it! Makers r he'll bent on glorifying EMA..isn't it clear yet? Nalini-Vinit, Vinayak-Naina..all these have been glorified just to shove ViPika's EMA down our throats! Still people r finding ways to defend Deepika's activities..like seriously?!?! U can blame Vikrant, u can even blame Abhay, but u can't blame Deepika? Why? People r reasoning her logic behind keeping Vikrant at her home..i mean how?!?! Even Vikrant questioned her that day why she didn't keep him at his own home or left him in the rehab itself? Nd as usual she couldn't answer..Deepika is actually not a flawed character, she's actually a dumb character honestly..First 2 weeks, she was bang on..but after that her graph going down n down to the point now where I doubt she'll be able to rise up! Abhay is trying to lift her up but that will be done to whitewash Vikrant..PC tried but failed..I think only Aditi can help now may be by giving her a tight slap! 😆

I really hope to see the Abhay you have described. I want to see him at loggerheads with Deepika not to take out any personal grudge but for the sake of pure professionalism and ethics. Abhay went out of his way to help Deepika in the construction of the emergency department because he understood Deepika's purpose and now he also knows that what Deepika is doing is wrong and as a doctor who is seeing the wrong happening in front of him, he has every right to question her and demand for answers. I have been saying for a while now that Deepika is acting like a smitten yet moody maiden now. She is definitely enjoying the attention she is getting from Vikrant. Once in a while, her conscious wakes up seeing Aditi's calls but in the next 2 minutes, it goes back into a deep slumber. My hopes are on PC at the moment to show her the mirror of the bitter truth that she has started living and hoping that Aditi's character will enter soon. I really want Deepika and Vikrant to be punished for unethical work ethos and for hiding such a piece of big information. Deepika should be taken to task for intentionally tampering with Vikrant's medical reports so that he could be saved.

As per precap, Abhay has got to know Vikrant is the drug addict Doctor nd that's why he's charging Deepika for it..so yes Abhay is being the fearless Abhay he is..He's sunaoing Deepika left-right for hiding such a big thing from PC going against her ethics! Nd he's back to being professional too I guess as he was taking orders from Deepika in the precap..Ab episode mein kya dikhayega let's see!

Much needed! 😆 Two rotten people! 🤢

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