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Originally posted by: ltelidevara

Sadhika

I agree with everything you said. I never judge them based on off screen issues. It is not right.

I don’t agree with this pseudo feminism. A strong woman doesn’t need to fit herself in the rules formed by these people.

https://twitter.com/Lakshmi21471073/status/1476022509979852806?s=20

Exactly!

And Today was good too!

I repeat and always said in my OSs. Virat will not confess his love. It has to come out from sai. He thinks he didn’t give her choice when he married her. And he doesn’t think she loves him as a Husband. He is too complicated and thinks a lot. But that’s precisely why he will not confess. Not after anniversary track. Today he told the same thing, that he can allow her to walk away if she thinks she has better life outside but not because she is angry with him. He still thinks he is just providing safety net for her. That’s how he thinks after anniversary track. In dosti track he compromised on being her friend whole life. That’s where he is. Just like sai can’t come out and say she loves him and hence it hurts her, virat can’t say he loves her because once he says that he will take away her choice of choosing him. He knows she will stay with him because of their marriage but not because she loves him. Both are thinking the same. It is complicated.

But yes virat could have said he doesn’t have physical affair with sruthi and that she is not his wife as he is already married to her.

Originally posted by: fatssrilanka

Your post is awesome. I have completely stopped going to the forum. But , yesterday the TRPs wasn't posted in the thread , so I was compelled to go there though I knew what I will have to bear.

Coming to your post I simply loved it. In making Sai a saint people are downtrodding Virat's love and sacrifice. Is this right? And, in their blind hatred they have forgotten the basic etiquettes and are making him fall even more.

I too am done with these people.

I read some post where they sympathize with FL and expect Virat to assure her when he is character assassinated.

For discussion sake I am asking this ..is Sai ready to be a wife ? She has helped Devi etc but is that enough to be a wife ? She lacks trust on her husband from day one . Earlier his past was used to justify her suspicion . We saw even before Mohit revealed the truth Sai had decided he was having affair . She is not patient enough to listen to what he has to say . He did reveal his job is in danger , Shruthi’s life is in danger which made him call her his wife . She is unable to understand her feelings , unable to trust her husband , lacks patience and questions his character at the drop of the hat . Virat said what I had said before . Believing when everything is right is not the real test of trust .

I don’t support Virat in hiding Shruthi putting his job and his personal life on stake . I feel he is being foolish in giving importance to Vaada over his job .

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

For discussion sake I am asking this ..is Sai ready to be a wife ? She has helped Devi etc but is that enough to be a wife ? She lacks trust on her husband from day one . Earlier his past was used to justify her suspicion . We saw even before Mohit revealed the truth Sai had decided he was having affair . She is not patient enough to listen to what he has to say . He did reveal his job is in danger , Shruthi’s life is in danger which made him call her his wife . She is unable to understand her feelings , unable to trust her husband , lacks patience and questions his character at the drop of the hat . Virat said what I had said before . Believing when everything is right is not the real test of trust .

I don’t support Virat in hiding Shruthi putting his job and his personal life on stake . I feel he is being foolish in giving importance to Vaada over his job .

that’s precisely we need to understand that she is 19 year old who sees world in black and white. And now she has experienced these wave of emotions for this person. She is possessive and jealous and heartbroken and his attitude is not helping her. Her thinking that she can break their bond easily shows her lack of understanding. That’s why I don’t see anything wrong about her behavior. She is learning still to be a wife. Virat being so matured cannot handle ajinkya! It happens due to your own inner fears.

Originally posted by: sadiltl

that’s precisely we need to understand that she is 19 year old who sees world in black and white. And now she has experienced these wave of emotions for this person. She is possessive and jealous and heartbroken and his attitude is not helping her. Her thinking that she can break their bond easily shows her lack of understanding. That’s why I don’t see anything wrong about her behavior. She is learning still to be a wife. Virat being so matured cannot handle ajinkya! It happens due to your own inner fears.

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

For discussion sake I am asking this ..is Sai ready to be a wife ? She has helped Devi etc but is that enough to be a wife ? She lacks trust on her husband from day one . Earlier his past was used to justify her suspicion . We saw even before Mohit revealed the truth Sai had decided he was having affair . She is not patient enough to listen to what he has to say . He did reveal his job is in danger , Shruthi’s life is in danger which made him call her his wife . She is unable to understand her feelings , unable to trust her husband , lacks patience and questions his character at the drop of the hat . Virat said what I had said before . Believing when everything is right is not the real test of trust .

I don’t support Virat in hiding Shruthi putting his job and his personal life on stake . I feel he is being foolish in giving importance to Vaada over his job .

I agree with you. Sai was never a wife material. I guess she never wanted to marry and get tied down. She loves her freedom and hence doesn't like if someone dictate terms. But, she loves to dictate terms to others specially Virat. Marriage is not a joke. It's between two people who stand by each other through thick and thin. But, Sai doesn't want to understand this concept. When things are right she'll trust Virat but when things go wrong she flips.

I too don't appreciate Virat hiding about Shruthi but has Sai ever pondered over his actions and given him the benefit of doubt? In an instant she decided that Virat is having an affair. How will she react when she realises she was wrong in judging Virat once again? Will she accept her mistake and apologise?

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

The difference between Virat and Sai is … Virat lost his cool for a moment seeing Ajinkya and Sai so close on the bed but he didnt need any proof and explanation to trust Sai . He immediately realized his outburst was unjustified but on other hand Sai despite his explanation is unable to trust him . Another difference was when Virat accused Sai she was the victim and Sai questioned Virat Sai became the victim .

Sai loves playing the victim card according to her convenience. And, the worst thing is whenever she's the victim her supporters too stand by her without giving a chance to Virat to justify his actions. And, this is her biggest victory. She knows whatever she says or does her supporters will always stand by her.

Originally posted by: fatssrilanka

I agree with you. Sai was never a wife material. I guess she never wanted to marry and get tied down. She loves her freedom and hence doesn't like if someone dictate terms. But, she loves to dictate terms to others specially Virat. Marriage is not a joke. It's between two people who stand by each other through thick and thin. But, Sai doesn't want to understand this concept. When things are right she'll trust Virat but when things go wrong she flips.

I too don't appreciate Virat hiding about Shruthi but has Sai ever pondered over his actions and given him the benefit of doubt? In an instant she decided that Virat is having an affair. How will she react when she realises she was wrong in judging Virat once again? Will she accept her mistake and apologise?

Originally posted by: fatssrilanka

Sai loves playing the victim card according to her convenience. And, the worst thing is whenever she's the victim her supporters too stand by her without giving a chance to Virat to justify his actions. And, this is her biggest victory. She knows whatever she says or does her supporters will always stand by her.

Samrat supports her because he still has grudge against Virat for obvious reasons

Devi is mentally ill to think logically .

Pulkit is manipulated by Sai and Virat doesn’t bother to convince him with his share of story .

Mohit is powerless whose support means nothing and he got support from Sai so he blindly supports her .

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