Originally posted by: friends1234
i was really conflicted in the matt elena drowning scene i personally would save the person i love but then at the same time matt's life mattered too just because he's not elena gilbert doesnt mean his life doesnt hold value
infact i was conflicted in s2,s3 between stefan and damon i loved that stefan respected elena's choices but sometimes i thought he should say no
and at the same time i loved damon's protective nature about elena but i didnt like that he didnt care about her loved ones and would have sacrificed them easily without trying to find an alternative
in the end,i ended up shipping delena as i liked their chemistry better but i love stefan more than damon and no one can change my mind about him being a better man...he has flaws,he has done bad things,he can be a dick but he's one of the most selfless characters and a good person and i am pretty sure if he didnt have the ripper problem he would have been the best vampire alongwith caroline who has hardly killed a soul and if i was elena i would have chosen stefan
I would have chosen Stefan with his ripper side, just I wanted a tinge of Damon's protectiveness in him.
I don't ship Delena because of many reasons but my primary reason is how they made it all sexual and less about understanding in season 5.
In first few seasons I like Damon and Elena's friendship because there is an understanding between them, Elena sees that he is hurting and his reasons. Even when he said that he will take Elena in the tomb, she understood that he needed assurance that they won't lock him in and she was okay going in.
