Well, any reasonable person would have first had an actual conversation with the person they are interested in to sort things out to make sure they are thinking the same thing.
Not half conversations where you are literally trying to compell the other one to answer in a certain way but just honest talk.
But neither Boy or Girl did this so here we are here in a series of unfortunate circumstances where neither side know the full story of what is going on in either household and making decisions that are making matters worse.
My honest advice to Abhimanyu would be talk to your mother and let her know you will get married but not now. Not when she is still sick. And that you need time to heal from the heartbreak. It is too soon for you. And she needs to work on getting better and not to stress about this. Things will be fine in time.
In regards to Arohi, advice would be stay away. There is no reason to get forced into a relationship in which you would never be happy because you would have to see her sister the girl you love at every family function and know you can never be with her. Why put your heart through that trauma?
In regards to Akshara, advice would be how much do you actually know about her? You say you feel this connection yet she keeps giving you verbal rejections. She is sending a lot of mixed signals. She could be playing with you or just really confused herself. She obviously does not know what she wants and you can't be in a relationship where one day she is fine with you and next day she could be like stay away from me. It may be best to stay away from her as well. But if fate keeps bringing her in front of you then maybe its a sign. Don't demand anything from her, don't tell her you love her, etc. Maybe just be there without expectations and maybe she will open up and you will find out what is really going on.
And in due time you will find a way and find your own answers to your happiness. Whether that is with Akshara or some other girl. (Not Arohi)
Edited by iheartChai - 4 years ago
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