I love how they are showing that Anuj's behavior hasn't changed at all since he was introduced on the show. He's still the same practical, caring, and sensitive person, especially where Anu is concerned.
Rather, it's Anupama who's actually paying attention and remembering his past actions, noticing his current behavior etc. As Bapuji advised her, she's letting him in. While she may or may not be in love with him, but she's actually creating a place for him in her life. The precap is the first sign of her proactively thinking about Anuj and wanting to care for him, whereas so far she's just been reacting to him or defending him in front of her crazy family.
This time, I think she's going to start realizing his importance for herself.
Anuj is oblivious now which gives me hope that Anu will be the one to break all bonds and go to him when she's ready. I am still hoping for a filmy scene where she runs into his arms and shocks him.
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