Originally posted by: TheRowdiest
Toh Bigg Boss mein aa jao 😆
yahan janam janam ka pyaar milta hai in less than 6 weeks ….. 2-3 weeks are enough actually …. Neha Kakkar ke music videos toh kahin nahin gaye
Shamita found Raqesh in 6 weeks …. Even though she dominated him , controlled him , snapped at him , I never saw them talking normally pyaar se in OTT …. So when exactly he fell in love with her is a mystery but it happened 🤣
KK found Teja overnight …. Suddenly one day he was in love with her in third week …. He tripped while looking at her …… Arre BB ne hawa nahin chalayi, duppatta nahin udaya, yeh wala scene nahin dikhaya ? So unfair
that’s why Teja is so worried ke inki chemistry TV pe kaise create hogi
I strongly believe that there is no definitive amount of time...for males or females or anything other and in between to fall in love.
It's not as if it takes exactly x months or exactly x days or x hours.
And upon this; I believe some people can take less than a day--and some can take years. There's immature love, mature love, selfish love, unconditional love, puppy love, and so on and so forth and they are not tied to how long it takes or the age or gender of the person falling.
Of course your age or how young you are mentally plays a role in it too, because very young people usually have an ill-conceived misinterpretation of what real and true love is. They are usually more prone to puppy love or to immature and purely physical infatuation.
But I do believe that when you ARE in love, when you realise that you're falling and falling deeper and deeper; there's no denying it. You just know.
So really, it doesn't matter how long it takes; as long as the feeling is real and irrefutable, and that you have gotten to know and love the person, rather than their money, looks, persona, status, connections, etc.
Let's use some math to make sense of it;
If you met up with a person twice for a let's say 4 hours each month, for a year and you realised you fell in love, it took "a year" to fall in love. (even though really it took about 24 meetings x 4 hours = 96 hours total with them and the time in between to fantasise and miss them)
Whereas if you spent 24 hours a day with someone each day of the week for a lets say two weeks; it "only took you two weeks" (when in reality, it took you 24 hours ×7 days a week x 2 weeks = 336 hours in total with them and the time in between to fantasise and miss them).
A year = really 96 hours
VS
Two weeks = really 336 hours
Do you see what I mean?
It's more about the quality rather than the quantity of the time. And it's also about the kind of love.
When you're in love; you KNOW. For the type of love that is strong and pure enough, that is.
Adding to this, I think for certain people and types of love, it can take less than a really great 20 minute conversation to learn about and adore someone's personality. Then later to keep thinking about them and turn this into being in love.
Whereas for other people, depending on the person and the conversations, it can take months/years!
There are many differnet types and ways of falling in love; and there are differnet depths and growths and developing stages of it!
We cannot hold every love story to the same standard.
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