*~*TAZBU (SaiShi and RaghVi) AT 18*~* Ghar More Pardesiya - Page 35

Originally posted by: inlieu

I think this might be when he's sitting outside/sleeping out there and Pallavi asking him to get out and stop his drama because she won't forgive him.

One thing I'm sure of now. Sandip deliberately ruined RR and the story and the shattering of RaghVi text on screen (cringe) was like the ultimate trolling. You audience wanted RaghVi, well see what I do now!

bold : I am 10000% sure about this thing. He took the ultimate revenge of mandar track failure in E track combined with sadistic trolling of viewers.

I think he himself started hating the raghav pallavi characters to the level that he wanted the audience itself to demand the stopping of show and I guess he is successful in his endeavour

I'm still reeling from the episode, it was vintage MHRW writing, which we've been missing for a while.

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This is why I am still around. They had to dumb him down to create this contrived track, otherwise the bold and honest side of RR that we'd seen in the past would have come out sooner.

I loved how LWR basically told Raghav all that we've been saying and I'm happy that our assessment of the years-old burden of guilt and pain was highlighted. This track was to get Raghav to address the problem once and for all, not just the symptoms and by facing his fear of abandonment head on, he will not be ruled by fear anymore. I'm still cheering the fact that they brought that up, because we've talked about it so many times on the forum but I'd been wondering if they would ever have a scene about it. The dialogue between RR and LWR was just brilliant, and of course Sai was spectacular throughout the episode.

That confrontation scene was wonderful to watch and he made it clear to Esha that she didn't mean anything to him and that there was no 'us', nor will there ever be. That night was the biggest mistake of his life. You clearly don't say that to someone if you have feelings for them. He never had feelings for Esha 2.0 and he looked at her as though she were delusional. There was no pretense on his part in that entire confrontation. Also, him finding the designs just made it clear that for all his help in her difficult situation with Sumit, he was starting to see that she was out to cause trouble for the them and especially Pallavi. She crossed the line and he himself expected Pallavi to throw her out of the house.

As for the emotion mein beh gaya dialogue, it was pretty clear that was in reference to him imagining it to be Pallavi that night in his drunken state but people will assume what they want. I also loved the contrast they showed in the writing in terms of Raghav giving Pallavi here rights. What Esha's referred to might have seemed to be the physical aspect but I think it was also about the right a wife has to know everything about her husband. I think part of it was also a dig at the fact that it was a forced marriage on both sides. As for LWR, he was largely referring to the sharing aspect of a relationship. Raghav struggles to discuss and share things with people but he has to learn to share with his wife, not just his bed but his life in its entirety (past, present, future). He should have definitely shared the details of that night and everything Esha has been doing since she returned, but he didn't, even though it's Pallavi's right to know it.

The LWR scene also made me think how different Raghav might have turned out to be had he not been abandoned by Amma when their family members had died. That's where it all started. I don't know if I'm expecting too much but I really hope they address this with Amma, even if it's just a short scene. Their reconciliation didn't touch upon this at all, and I had always felt this lacking. Sure, they have bonded over time now but somethings need to be discussed and sorted out once and for all. I am glad Amma is around as I guess she will be the one to support and guide him before he falls part all over again.

I'm so going to miss Sai's fabulous performances in this role but I hope his next role is equally dhamakedar, spy or otherwise. I knew the show would go off air at some point and was bracing myself for it, but can't deny it hurts thinking I won't see any more of Raghav Rao on screen.

Originally posted by: joliefemme

Fria who is perfect in this world, no one is!

I'm so glad to see them show R was being selfish, to show him make an error of judgement, lie his way through - all of this. He has insecurities, needs more assurances than a person would normally need because of his painful past (not counting Esha coz I don't think it was as painful as the makers tried to portray). So what if Pallavi has to work more to make this marriage work. No relationship can be equal in all aspects. There are some things that Raghav does more than Pallavi and that is all right too. It's a marriage and not a contract as Ru points out. Yes but love means thinking of the other as much if not more than yourself. I'm glad he will come to this realisation soon.

I hope they do address a few points in this track - how Raghav has always kept her away from his inner circle by saying my family, my sister, my business. How it is so easy for him to take her for granted, lash out at her and insult her at the drop of a hat. I never NEVER want him to disrespect her anymore. Pallavi slides a lot of things because of her nature but I want Raghav to realise (if makers are listening), she's an equal in the relationship and deserves the equal footing.

All his flaws make Raghav human. The guilt he feels and the love he has for Pallavi make him redeemable in my eyes. So pls bring it on. I've made myself strong and kept a roll of tissues at bay.

Well, said. It's time for Raghav to see all this and as I keep saying, the real change, sudharna, will only happen if it comes from within him, not because of Pallavi, Amma, Farhad, or Keerti. It's the moment of truth when he finally faces his past, his fears and insecurities, and his capacity to truly love (which we know is all-consuming). He needs to take stock of it all and assess how he wants to deal with it and then what he wants for his future. Sure, fate has dealt its hand many times, but he too has a hand in shaping his future to an extent. He has some core traits that are lovable and make him so dear to many of us, but the flip side is also the pattern of misery and guilt that sucks him into the darkness that can overshadow his goodness in his dealings with others. (We saw it in the way he treated Keerti too).

No one can fix this but him, and I will be cheering him on because he deserves this chance. RaghVi deserve to have a happy life. They got married under less-than-ideal circumstances and for completely wrong reasons, so let that union burn down. They next phase of their lives can either be together or apart, but at least that would involve them having a choice. Raghav's first step towards choosing his future already happened today: that he was willing to come clean and let Pallavi decide how to live her life, at the risk of losing her. It's also his choice to beg and ask for forgiveness. Frankly, I'd find it weird if he'd told her the truth and walked away without trying to win her back. Now we need to see what Pallavi chooses to do and I will respect whatever she opts for. I do hope her decision to forgive him isn't dependent on finding out the truth behind Esha's plotting but even if if that's the case, then it's fine. Sometimes you do need a deus ex machina and if used well, it can do wonders. It might also help them both understand what's been missing in their relationship: open communication. We as the audience see it, but they don't (yet).

Raghav's emotions are all-consuming, so I don't want his repentance and asking for forgiveness to be anything less either. I hope it plays out as we're imagining, we are owed this much at least after enduring this track. 😉

Originally posted by: inlieu

I think this might be when he's sitting outside/sleeping out there and Pallavi asking him to get out and stop his drama because she won't forgive him.

One thing I'm sure of now. Sandip deliberately ruined RR and the story and the shattering of RaghVi text on screen (cringe) was like the ultimate trolling. You audience wanted RaghVi, well see what I do now!

I hope it doesnt play out tomorrow in the episode. The two lead characters are literally in the throes of a catastrophic situation of a broken marriage and the editor decides to use the raghvi font and highlight it.. it was too childish of the editor!

Originally posted by: Lonelythots

I hope it doesnt play out tomorrow in the episode. The two lead characters are literally in the throes of a catastrophic situation of a broken marriage and the editor decides to use the raghvi font and highlight it.. it was too childish of the editor!

Indeed, it was trolling to the nth level. They still hold a grudge because of audience reaction after the Mandaar track. I am not expecting romance all the time but for a love story, there was very little of it and now it will end at light speed.

Nahin chahiye RaghVi. Give us Raghav Rao and Pallavi Sawant and their stories (either as individuals or as a pair making a fresh start).

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Originally posted by: joliefemme

Yes it's all about experiences. I can understand your lower threshold due to some bad experiences. For me, I've had bad experiences as well but that doesn't stop me from being a forgiving person. See Shalini, imo, you can't control what the other person does, yes, what you can control is what you chose to do and how you live your life.

I've always been a more forgiving person by nature and I believe in giving second chances to people.

If you've watched the show from the start and have understood Raghav you'll realise how sorry he is and how big of a mistake he knows he committed. He waited a decade to get his mother and sister back. Do you think if Pallavi forgives him this time, he will stray (not using again coz he didn't stray with Esha)?

People are all differently wired and while you may believe in once a cheater always a cheater (if we were to assume he actively cheated on Pallavi, which we all know he didn't), I feel it is a generalization. It's not fair to see everyone with the same yardstick coz people and circumstances are different.

I know we both don't see eye to eye on this matter and I will gracefully bow out of the discussion now. I've discussed this topic multiple times (with you as well as others) and now while the show is ending, I want to indulge in discussions of how good Raghvi are together than justifying why I feel Raghav deserves a chance. Need to prioritise my time, hope you understand, it's nothing against you.

No issues dear, I respect your POV.

I myself am active quite less on the forum nowadays...other priorities. Can totally get it.

Am just waiting to see what kind of wrap up we get on the show and performances.

Originally posted by: PSharada

Maybe but I would feel cheated if the love story that I was invested in for so long ends up being a tragedy. And so would common audience too. Plus there is No point if Pallavi had to remain a widow at the end. So hoping it is a happy ending and not a tragic ending since the title OST says about happiness the lovers get when they come into each other's lives as their better halves.

Yes , Pallavi becoming widow again makes no sense, and if Pallavi dies, RR will really end up in mental asylum.

RR and Pallavi's story( I shudder to say Raghvi now!l ) is a story of healing and completion of two broken souls . Thier connect was apparent from day 1. Its a story of hope and soulmate kind of love. Hooe they keep that essence intact .

I do think RR will repent and win her back and it will eventually turn out that he was trapped by Esha and he didt cheat. But I do hope for a proper wedding atleast last 2 episodes.

Given that starplus aired thier diwali wishes, and the gang are regrouping in bombay instead of SS being there for wrap up in kolhapur, I do feel a small hope for season 2. Nothing wrong with some hope :)😃

Whatever show I watched till date only MJHT mayank Nupur never had 3rd angle love story

I don't know when will I get love story without 3rd angle 🤔

Guys , please suggest me few romantic shows that are really classy.