ARUNITA KANJILAL AT #10 (strictly for only Arunita fans) - Page 12

Originally posted by: Moonandstars

It's OK- girls/women will always face this more - 'misogyny' - some men derive pleasure from such things - and you just have to ignore it. Alright - say, they tell the world they are in love , will that be a 'cheap' thing or deserve a cheap remark - but then some people are cheap everywhere. (They won't say anything like that for PD - because it won't give such cheap thrills)

Sad part is , an woman was shouting it and in the fanpages , people are celebrating it .

That will encourage more people to try the same trick in future shows . So , how much we try to ignore , it will keep on repeating .

Originally posted by: Realityshow

I mean it is fine if you choose a life partner. It is your life! She chooses and we move on.

It is trouble when others choose for you and insist that you should behave in manner that fits their dreams or wishes.

That's the sort of problem that makes these things happen. It is like insisting that your choices in life is secondary to our wishes because we love you both and any perceived crack breaks our heart.

These dual lovers will keep creating situations like this.And because they are active that is the only news that gets precedence. Best to ignore such distractions. They will be there and serve a purpose.

Arunita is aware that she has a legion of faithful fans who adore her as a person and singer. Whatever decision she takes in life she will take these fans with her. Trust me, she knows how much they mean to her and will do nothing to throw them away. Inside the tubelight is an educated brain that ticks, albeit slowly.

Originally posted by: forever_freind2

Sad part is , an woman was shouting it and in the fanpages , people are celebrating it .

That will encourage more people to try the same trick in future shows . So , how much we try to ignore , it will keep on repeating .

Originally posted by: forever_freind2

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0.17 , Now open audiences are shouting at her by calling “biwi no.1” on stage. Really embarrassing .

We are used to people chanting singer’s name before appearing on stage. But these things like designating a respected singer as someone’s wife , really hamper the appreciation for the singer and her individual talent.

Unfortunately in every collection of people there will be a few who go overboard. If you go through fan pages there are enough people who have been linking her with Danish too, right from the Idol days.

The only thing Arunita can do is accept that in the career she has chosen there will be always be all kinds of people. It is for her to recognize that sustainable long term success can only come from individual career. I am sure that either she already understands that or she will soon. In the last 2 1/2 months since Idol ended we have witnessed that she is a very quick learner. She will learn this too.

Also we have to remember that she is at the age where children cease to be children and venture out to college / University that may be in a different city or even a different country and learn to live on their own, look out for themselves and managing their own lives. She will do the same for herself.

I really believe we are underestimating her and doing her a disservice by being so worried about her. I believe she has shown herself to be capabale of far more than we are crediting her. She is destined to rule the air waves for the next 2 decades at least and she will not let such things come in the way.

I totally agree. I am a huge fan of Arunita but sometimes get turned away from here as I see some very one sided comments.
She is a brilliant singer and she is smart too. She may be slow in her reactions but she is not dumb. She has clearly gained confidence throughout her Indian idol journey and now working with different people. She will be worldly wise. Don’t underestimate her.
18 maybe young but still old enough to take up responsibilities as she already has done. At that age, here kids leave home and stay in college on their own. Work 2 jobs and study!

She has a close knit family who I am sure keep a watchful eye on her and she probably doesn’t need others to tell her what is right or wrong for her.
she seems motivated and also has a dream of becoming a playback singer which she will achieve. It’s not going to happen overnight. She may already have offers in her kitty which are not public. Give her the time to flourish and she surely will.

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Originally posted by: Starttofinish

I totally agree. I am a huge fan of Arunita but sometimes get turned away from here as I see some very one sided comments.
She is a brilliant singer and she is smart too. She may be slow in her reactions but she is not dumb. She has clearly gained confidence throughout her Indian idol journey and now working with different people. She will be worldly wise. Don’t underestimate her.
18 maybe young but still old enough to take up responsibilities as she already has done. At that age, here kids leave home and stay in college on their own. Work 2 jobs and study!

She has a close knit family who I am sure keep a watchful eye on her and she probably doesn’t need others to tell her what is right or wrong for her.
she seems motivated and also has a dream of becoming a playback singer which she will achieve. It’s not going to happen overnight. She may already have offers in her kitty which are not public. Give her the time to flourish and she surely will.

Bold: The one sided comments are actually result of few immatured posts by so called Arudeep fans in IF. I understand the love and affection for both Aru and PD in the mind of 'Arudeep' fans but there is no meaning of keep on posting different photos, videos hinting affair between Aru and PD. The Arudeep fans are contributing in creating this unhealthy perception unconsciously.

I get irritated watching all those efforts by Arudeep fans to establish that they are in relationship. Even if they are in a relationship, what's the point to post those photos/videos/comments in IF? The Arudeep fans are mad to convince everyone that they are the dream couples. Why can't we focus on their singing only? Why do we look for spices between their relationship? If anyone says they are celebrities and there will be gossip involving them and this is natural - I will beg pardon. IF seems to be a forum of very educated and civilized members!! I find those posts very childish. I don't find any difference between such act and shouting as biwi of some one at the concert. Both attempts are equally shameful.

Regarding one sided comments - watching all these, as an Aru fan I only find poor PD to bash, all my angers fall on PD. Feel he is the main culprit and he is encouraging this BS for his career as he will struggle to survive as a solo singer, he uses Aru as the stair for his success. I know this is a very irrational assessment but you can not control the emotion of an angry fan for such unnecessary cheap tickling posts by the Arudeep fans. At the same time I remember how Aru was deprived from the II12 crown in spite of the fact that she was the most deserving candidate.

The so called Arudeep fans are actually diluting PD's image.

Sorry if I hurt anyone, I didn't want to write but could not control expressing my disappointment 🙏

I don’t think there are any crazy Arudeep fans on IF..

some may just post whatever they can find on social media.

Are u following these fanclubs on social media and deriving all that angst on another singer?No one is forcing Aru to sign contracts with PD. It’s her choice.

As far as fan clubs go they will exist as long as social media is there. There is no stopping them. If u don’t agree to their comments then don’t read them.
there are fanclubs of many other so called celebrity ‘pairs/ships’. Most are not in any personal relationships. It’s a time pass for these fan clubs. I should say waste of time.

Both are young. Especially Aru. Long way to go for them individually to establish themselves as known faces as singers in Bwood. Not easy as there are many good singers and composers out there. It’s a very diluted market. If u don’t stay in the public eye, u get forgotten quickly.
I like them both individually. They compliment each other well in their singing duets too. Some like Octopus is using their popularity but I really liked the Manzoor Dil song. Raj Surani handled them well and said their pair is like SRK and Kajol!
Their personal life is their very own and no outsider should have a say in it.
I hope to hear Aru and Nihal in a duet some day. Can’t believe II lasted for 10 months and these two never sang a duet!

Sorry, I have not been a regular on any of the threads since it moved to this section. Haven’t really read thru all the comments. Just here and there I read a few, skip a few. I am probably better of staying away.
it’s good to be a fan of any singer without putting down another one especially when they both willingly are working together. Keep personal lives aside.