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I was seeing the starting episodes when raghav visited pallavi for the first time in DSE.The scene where he continuously stares at pallavi waist while she was taking out sarees standing on ladder. I mean what was it 🤣

pallavi ne khud apni nazren neechi kar li but is insaan ne nahi 🤣kitna besharam tha yeh

I am sure if this raghav would have continued in future episodes , pallavi would have been pregnant by the time mandar came back 😂😂😂

Originally posted by: joliefemme

See if you ask me I don't see any issue in him having a drink with his ex or being in the same room even if the ex had feelings. There was no other room, she was injured and the situation was such. You cant hold Raghav responsible for Esha having feelings for him. If nothing had happened, Raghav may have come clean to P that both were in the same room due to circumstances but nothing happened.

He has made mistakes and was utterly irresponsibly but here the main issue happened because Esha had I'll intentions. If she was a positive ex despite her feelings, she would have slept on the sofa aur kuch nai hota, iykwim. R will have to walk on burning coal literally to gain forgiveness from P.

@bold I agree it's practically not possible but tadka.

I think the issue for drinking is that it wasn’t just one drink with an ex. That’s not a big deal.

I guess I should only speak about myself bc I still have an issue with that. For me it wasn’t so much having one drink with an ex. It was that he let himself get drunk and that was the problem. No matter what people think about their own self control while drinking, fact is that excessive drinking does lower your inhibitions and it’s immature and irresponsible to get ish-faced drunk with an ex in a hotel room that you know has feelings for you.

Morally, no married man should be willingly getting drunk with an ex in a hotel room. It’s not emotional cheating or physical cheating but it is a red flag. IMO, to any wife, I’m sure that would feel like some kind of betrayal.

It’s also just weird LOL. NONE of the married people I know would do that. They would never put themselves in that situation - and I know very reckless people 🤣

We all make choices that lead us down different paths and put us in different situations. He made several bad, not smart, choices that night. It was a bad, foolish, judgment. And while it was a mistake, it’s not irredeemable. R I think will certainly work hard to win back P and her trust.

Sometimes I wish the ons scene never happened. What they’re showing now was more than enough. Too much tadka is not good for the health 🤣

Originally posted by: Sunaina7

I was seeing the starting episodes when raghav visited pallavi for the first time in DSE.The scene where he continuously stares at pallavi waist while she was taking out sarees standing on ladder. I mean what was it 🤣

pallavi ne khud apni nazren neechi kar li but is insaan ne nahi 🤣kitna besharam tha yeh

I am sure if this raghav would have continued in future episodes , pallavi would have been pregnant by the time mandar came back 😂😂😂

Originally posted by: fria319

I think the issue for drinking is that it wasn’t just one drink with an ex. That’s not a big deal.

I guess I should only speak about myself bc I still have an issue with that. For me it wasn’t so much having one drink with an ex. It was that he let himself get drunk and that was the problem. No matter what people think about their own self control while drinking, fact is that excessive drinking does lower your inhibitions and it’s immature and irresponsible to get ish-faced drunk with an ex in a hotel room that you know has feelings for you.

Morally, no married man should be willingly getting drunk with an ex in a hotel room. It’s not emotional cheating or physical cheating but it is a red flag. IMO, to any wife, I’m sure that would feel like some kind of betrayal.

It’s also just weird LOL. NONE of the married people I know would do that. They would never put themselves in that situation - and I know very reckless people 🤣

We all make choices that lead us down different paths and put us in different situations. He made several bad, not smart, choices that night. It was a bad, foolish, judgment. And while it was a mistake, it’s not irredeemable. R I think will certainly work hard to win back P and her trust.

Sometimes I wish the ons scene never happened. What they’re showing now was more than enough. Too much tadka is not good for the health 🤣

Originally posted by: Trina2021

Burning coal scene is upcoming I know but why ?? Matlab sita gave the fire test to prove her chastity according to Ramayan but here Raghav is walking on hot coal with the presence of others including the same ex with whom he supposedly cheated on his wife and that’s really odd if you ask me .Sita was asked to give the fire test but here who would ask him to do such a thing ? Not Pallavi for sure . Unless he’s doing all these to emotionally blackmail Pals to come back to him I

Don’t see any reason for him to go through this . Really weird if you ask me 🤔

Emotional blackmail to get Pallavi back? Wow. That man will literally kill himself in guilt. Haven't you see how he has repented to get his mother n sister back. We should wait to see what made him do that walk. Also if you notice Pallavi isn't there to see so what blackmail? Esha being there is important so she is out of her delusions. She needs to realise Raghav loves Pallavi ab bolne se nai samaj rahi iss se hi samaj le.

Originally posted by: Trina2021

You mean b4 confession even ??🤣🤣🤣

pre marriage when they were enemies

he visited DSE for the first time

that look of raghav was something else

It was like mixture of lust , flirty nature and playboy attitude

Originally posted by: PSharada

I think you misunderstood my post. Pallavi was bashed for giving importance to Mandar. Here Raghav is being bashed. I admit that Raghav did do wrong of hiding things from Pallavi. But he has repeatedly told Esha that she is his past. Yeah Esha tried to get him to be with her but he told her that nothing will ever happen with them because he now loves Pallavi. Esha is emotionally manipulating Raghav just like Mandar manipulated Pallavi with his fake memory track. Yes Pallavi did not hide anything from Raghav but she allowed herself to be manipulated by D family repeatedly even when Raghav voiced his concerns. Here Esha is manipulating Raghav - first by her sob story of abusive ex, then the kidnapping stunt and now telling half truths to Raghav.

I never said what Raghav is doing is correct but I understand his reasons for doing so and his characterization so far. That is why he will walk the path of redemption again once the truth is out because Pallavi will move out and not be in RR Mansion.

I know Sharada I understand Raghav too. I hate it when people keep saying Raghav slept with his ex when that's clearly not the case. It was shown explicitly that he was sloshed and Esha closed in on the distance. He was a victim. I also blame Raghav for hiding the truth, I understand his reasons but don't condone them. I feel badly for him because he's being emotionally manipulated the same way Pallavi was. I'm waiting to see Pallavi slap him and walk out and Raghav do a hefty penance to gain back her trust.

Unfortunately being a man, he's not considered as a victim whereas in the same situation Pallavi would be sympathised with. I was one of those but hapc made a post about Raghav being a victim and I actually realised how wrong I was. These gender biases unfortunately do cloud our judgement and hence I've refrained from seeing this from the lens of genders.

Originally posted by: joliefemme

I know Sharada I understand Raghav too. I hate it when people keep saying Raghav slept with his ex when that's clearly not the case. It was shown explicitly that he was sloshed and Esha closed in on the distance. He was a victim. I also blame Raghav for hiding the truth, I understand his reasons but don't condone them. I feel badly for him because he's being emotionally manipulated the same way Pallavi was. I'm waiting to see Pallavi slap him and walk out and Raghav do a hefty penance to gain back her trust.

Unfortunately being a man, he's not considered as a victim whereas in the same situation Pallavi would be sympathised with. I was one of those but hapc made a post about Raghav being a victim and I actually realised how wrong I was. These gender biases unfortunately do cloud our judgement and hence I've refrained from seeing this from the lens of genders.

This is happening bc the show is not acknowledging and will not acknowledge into the story (yet?) that he was a victim of assault (if anything did happen that night).

We know he was assaulted but he doesn’t know or doesn’t agree that he was assaulted. He used the word slept himself.

Really we’re all just debating over what is clearly problematic writing of a script 🤣. These people constantly be writing off abuse and assault as if it’s not an issue at all. SMH.

Originally posted by: fria319

I think the issue for drinking is that it wasn’t just one drink with an ex. That’s not a big deal.

I guess I should only speak about myself bc I still have an issue with that. For me it wasn’t so much having one drink with an ex. It was that he let himself get drunk and that was the problem. No matter what people think about their own self control while drinking, fact is that excessive drinking does lower your inhibitions and it’s immature and irresponsible to get ish-faced drunk with an ex in a hotel room that you know has feelings for you.

Morally, no married man should be willingly getting drunk with an ex in a hotel room. It’s not emotional cheating or physical cheating but it is a red flag. IMO, to any wife, I’m sure that would feel like some kind of betrayal.

It’s also just weird LOL. NONE of the married people I know would do that. They would never put themselves in that situation - and I know very reckless people 🤣

We all make choices that lead us down different paths and put us in different situations. He made several bad, not smart, choices that night. It was a bad, foolish, judgment. And while it was a mistake, it’s not irredeemable. R I think will certainly work hard to win back P and her trust.

Sometimes I wish the ons scene never happened. What they’re showing now was more than enough. Too much tadka is not good for the health 🤣

Fria I understand and respect your opinions and they are right to an extent. Here it all falls down to your own tolerance levels.

I am someone who drinks casually a lot and know from past experiences what being drunk out of senses can do to you (been there done that several times). But when you are surrounded by people who are good, nothing untoward will happen (I'm not saying you should be irresponsible).

So he made mistakes but I don't feel it was over the top or super wrong to drink with an ex. She was his friend and he trusted her. Again, my tolerance levels are high and I would probably trust my spouse to stay within limits even if he had to share a room with an ex during riots. I agree there were lots of red flags which born smart Raghav blatantly ignored but despite that I don't hold him fully accountable. I know it's unfair to Pallavi and for that I want him to naak ragdo till he gets to realise his mistakes.

Again, like I told earlier, I was discussing with Soni and probably I would have forgiven my partner for a ONS in similar circumstances (drunk out of senses and hallucinates,, super guilty who came clean to me). It would take time to forget but I think I would just because I can see the guilt and the genuine repentance. Yes I don't have any self-respect and no I don't care being judged.

Originally posted by: joliefemme

I know Sharada I understand Raghav too. I hate it when people keep saying Raghav slept with his ex when that's clearly not the case. It was shown explicitly that he was sloshed and Esha closed in on the distance. He was a victim. I also blame Raghav for hiding the truth, I understand his reasons but don't condone them. I feel badly for him because he's being emotionally manipulated the same way Pallavi was. I'm waiting to see Pallavi slap him and walk out and Raghav do a hefty penance to gain back her trust.

Unfortunately being a man, he's not considered as a victim whereas in the same situation Pallavi would be sympathised with. I was one of those but hapc made a post about Raghav being a victim and I actually realised how wrong I was. These gender biases unfortunately do cloud our judgement and hence I've refrained from seeing this from the lens of genders.

Raghav did lot of mistakes that night and the biggest one was drinking too much. But he did not willingly sleep with Esha. The fandom saying that he slept with Esha is wrong because he did not consent to that - he was taken advantage of by Esha who was in her senses.