*~*TAZBU (SaiShi and RaghVi) AT 16*~* Bakhuda Tumhi Ho - Page 110

Originally posted by: fria319

Tbh I think that's more wise. At least then it's more satisfying instead of all this daily torture.

I stopped watching the day the bts for that seduction scene came out. I just didn't have the heart to watch that despite the fact that Shivangi/Pallavi was looking absolutely hot.

Uske baad se, I didn't watch a single episode and have been on a break from IF for the past 10 days. Even the Karwa Chauth bts didn't make me watch because I knew Raghav will make Esha drink water so, I didn't want to ruin my mood by seeing another important festival being ruined.

Now, I'll just be around here in the forum waiting for the day Pallavi will get to know everything.

I agree that Raghav's apologies are losing its sheen when he keeps shutting her off and being mean to her. How does it serve a purpose?

He feels bad but what conscious efforts is he taking to act upon his sorry? How will he ensure her happiness when he keeps inflicting hurt on her and keep projecting his guilt and be defensive in his stance.

I want Pallavi to emotionally distance herself from him and let him sort his priorities. I remember him telling her this during Mandar track. He reminded her how misplaced her priorities were and unfortunately his own priorities are all gone for a toss. If he loves her, he needs to value her... value her trust and be worthy of her faith in him. Nahi toh his love is not enough!

Originally posted by: fria319

IM BACK PEOPLE.

I'm about to go really hard on Raghav right now so if you guys can't take it - please keep scrolling past my post.

He's a horrible husband right now. I'm sorry. I'm just going to say it.

Not only does he know that he "slept" with his ex girlfriend. He hides this from his wife. Now that his wife has brought her into the house, he continues to hide this from his wife. Then the ex does x y z, and he's still in his ex's corner? Eating her kichdi? Catching her falling? Breaking her fast? What? Just throw some water on her face - isn't that how people wake up from fainting? Who wakes someone up by making them drink water?

And then, the solution to all of this is to take your wife on vacation? How short sighted is he? Why not just move out of HYD then?

None of this makes any sense. This is such a redux of all the old early late 90s/early 00s ITV dramas that none of this surprises me yet I'm still equally annoyed.

I called it yesterday - there was no way he was going to break P's fast first.

Now he's going to feed Esha and then get his panties twisted in a bunch because his wife is suspecting/curious about whats going on?

R stopped P from feeding M - why he can't remember that? Why is it ok for him to feed E but he got all freaked out when P was forced to feed M? Double standards much?

WHY is P his punching bag? Every emotional outburst he has is directed at her - it's so ridiculous. How much more can she take? Why should she take it? It's one thing if he was nice to her and loving towards her despite his "cheating". But he's not! He's being a complete jerk!

He has such a lack of foresight & lack of long term thinking, it's getting ridiculous now. I know he loves Pallavi, but I question on what basis that love was formed. He's all about me, me, me. I think he's incredibly selfish in his marriage. It's always about how P makes him feel, it's about P reassuring him, it's about P promising not to leave him, it's about his insecurities, his anger, his lack of emotional intelligence. What about being a husband and making his wife feel secure?

Why is R's only line to P "I'm really really really (x3) sorry" (but not for the important stuff) Can he not say anything else? She's his life? So then why is he being so careless with it?

You're so pissed Fria you even forgot to tag me in this gem of a rant😆

I will not provide any positivity today. I'm running short on it myself so rant away as much as you like because he clearly deserves it 😆

Originally posted by: euphoric

By the looks of it all... Raghav is going to fall flat on his face but before that Pallavi is in for a lot of heartbreak before that.

Esha I think didn't take Pallavi's design per say but the page below that, which may have the tracings of Pallavi's sketch. Because the page she was holding was blank and Pallavi had taken her design to show it to Raghav I guess... So she may allege that Pallavi stole her designs.

Besides I don't blame sunny for the debacle in Raghav Pallavi's life. He's an opportunist and is only capitalizing on Raghav's follies that Raghav keep serving it to him decorated on a fancy platter. Pehle smuggling and then now Esha... Raghav's biggest problem is the castle of lies that he keep building in front of Pallavi. And tbh when was the last time, Raghav told sunny off. During the smuggling kaand too, he knew sunny was trying to create issues between him and Pallavi by letting her in on his truth. Did he tell him off? No! The only time he took stand against sunny and warned him is when Pallavi was shot. Otherwise it's only Pallavi who keeps fighting sunny all alone.

Yes Sunny is a creep and his truth should be out for keerti to see and decide what she has to do with him. But as far as Raghav and Pallavi are concerned, he's only playing a catalyst to the reactions which would have eventually boomed into an explosion sooner or later.

After Mandar track, Raghav got too complacent with Pallavi. Keerti marriage blame he shove it on her. He never apologized for the false promises he made about his alleged business or even for blatantly lying on her face. He never answered her queries about Esha. He's lying to her about Esha's feelings and hiding the ONS. At this rate, no matter how true his love be and how pure his intent be, their relationship was doomed.

Since the initial days Raghvi was a relationship about equals. There was no one sided give or take but more secure he got into his relationship with Pallavi, she started getting the short side of the stick. He started taking her for granted.

I understand his insecurities but keeping her out, he build this highway between him and Pallavi that the trespassers are using to get a free access in driving this wedge between them.

The night when Pallavi was drugged by Mandar and nxt morning she realizes that misunderstandings are edging between her and Raghav, she was quick to tell Mandar that she can't help him anymore. But here, even though, he knows that her doubts are not baseless, he's telling her off. He's snapping his concerns for Esha.

I am not doubting his intent, I would still stand by that he loves Pallavi but that doesn't allow him to overstep all his boundaries which he's doing. He fell into the trap once but how many times does he wish to repeat the same blunders? I will cry for him some other day, I know. When he breaks, it will break my heart too... But for now... He's accountable for all that's coming his way.

And on the hindsight, this is Sicku's way at getting back at the fandom. Whatever MUs he wished during Mandar track when didn't get through, he's doing all his armaan poore with Esha ... He be like, Mandar ko nikalwaya na ab bhugto😆

I so agree with each and every point that you put forth... Have nothing more to add to it right now.

Originally posted by: PSharada

I actually want Keerti and Amma to move out with Pallavi. Then Sunny will realise that uska bhi pata kath gaya. That would be the best thing. Let Raghav - Esha stay in RR Mansion for all I care.

You know what the issue is - at least the issue that I have with all of this is- that his insecurities & guilt can't justify his actions anymore. Like there's a limit to how much we can excuse people. Eventually we have to realize that people make mistakes and do bad things. Raghav is currently doing bad things. He didn't need to pat E on the back in her room, alone, in the middle of the night. He doesn't need to eat her food. He doesn't need to feed her soup. He doesn't need to have her in his home as if he doesn't have ample wealth to cover the cost of a security guard for her. These actions cannot be explained away with insecurities and guilt. It's not even understandable at this point.

If they're going to show all of this, they may as well show him have feelings for E because people who don't have feelings for ex like this or people who don't have the level of insaaniyat of P (R does not), would not act like this with an ex.

Like I wish they would just pick so we'd know. If he's going to become like a 13 yr old kid who got caught by their mom every time then I'd want P to leave. She deserves a real man. Not this. She deserves R of HYD, not this shell of R.

I don't think he's butchered, but I don't like who he is right now and I don't like how he's treating P at all.

Originally posted by: rubys07

You're so pissed Fria you even forgot to tag me in this gem of a rant😆

I will not provide any positivity today. I'm running short on it myself so rant away as much as you like because he clearly deserves it 😆

I did tagggg - IF botched it 😭

Originally posted by: PSharada

Does SP have any Maha episodes ? I hear they started Maha episode for every show recently. Can someone confirm this please?

Also can someone give me a good show recommendation - so that I can move on from MHRW completely. Please PM me in case we can't chat here.

No idea about Maha episodes, not that I see any happening for MHRW any time soon.

You mean ITV shows? Can't think of anything good that's airing atm. I just go back to watching old ITV/Pak shows when I have nothing new to follow on ITV.

I spend so many hours over this show Sharada. IDK what I will do if I have to stop watching it. I mean, ideally it should make me super productive but lol.

If you get good recs though please let me know.

Originally posted by: euphoric

I agree that Raghav's apologies are losing its sheen when he keeps shutting her off and being mean to her. How does it serve a purpose?

He feels bad but what conscious efforts is he taking to act upon his sorry? How will he ensure her happiness when he keeps inflicting hurt on her and keep projecting his guilt and be defensive in his stance.

I want Pallavi to emotionally distance herself from him and let him sort his priorities. I remember him telling her this during Mandar track. He reminded her how misplaced her priorities were and unfortunately his own priorities are all gone for a toss. If he loves her, he needs to value her... value her trust and be worthy of her faith in him. Nahi toh his love is not enough!

Exactly!

Just because his wife is super forgiving doesn't mean he can take advantage of it. How many times will he apologize for his outbursts and his distancing? How is he really sorry if he keeps repeating the same mistakes over and over again? Where is his growth?

Love isn't enough to sustain a marriage. It's enough of a reason to try and make a marriage work during obstacles/hurdles, but it's not going to sustain it by itself.

He takes advantage of her so much. And let's not forget, this is ALL after she got shot! It hasn't even been a month!! What did he learn??? Where are his promises now? How can he go back on his word so easily? Where is his integrity?

Originally posted by: fria319

I did tagggg - IF botched it 😭

Lol loved all your rants. Ren is so lucky, she be chilling on her holiday while we bang our heads trying to make sense of this story😳🤣

This is definitely ss's way of getting back at us for not loving his epic Mandar track the way he wanted us to. He is legit going all "Thukra ke mera pyaar mera intiqaam dekhegi" with this track😆 With khkt, he took a while to ruin the story but because his flimsy ego is hurt this time around, he is going straight in for the kill.

Originally posted by: euphoric

I agree that Raghav's apologies are losing its sheen when he keeps shutting her off and being mean to her. How does it serve a purpose?

He feels bad but what conscious efforts is he taking to act upon his sorry? How will he ensure her happiness when he keeps inflicting hurt on her and keep projecting his guilt and be defensive in his stance.

I want Pallavi to emotionally distance herself from him and let him sort his priorities. I remember him telling her this during Mandar track. He reminded her how misplaced her priorities were and unfortunately his own priorities are all gone for a toss. If he loves her, he needs to value her... value her trust and be worthy of her faith in him. Nahi toh his love is not enough!

I agree here... I too want Pallavi to emotionally distance herself from Raghav.

Raghav had told Pallavi all this during Mandar track but now, his own priorities have gone for a toss. He definitely needs to value her and her trust on him if he actually loves her. He seems to be actually taking her for granted at the moment.

Raghav's apologies are definitely losing the sheen... He is actually doing the same things repeatedly. He just keeps shutting her off ever time and is mean with her... and this actually serves no purpose.