Raghav and Pallavi - And a chance at love! - Page 3

Originally posted by: masin

Hello! 🤗

Ren directed me to this post and I instantly fell in love. Penned my thoughts in purple.

I keep saying "apparent" because my theory is that Raghav did not sleep with Esha - he was framed by her or by her ex in some way or the other and therefore he is innocent. I don't excuse him from drinking with his ex though because I have a pretty hard stance on mingling with exes, whether they're good or bad. Similarly, I fault Pallavi for bringing said ex to her home.

I also keep referring to this show and this pair for the same reason as the rest of us. They're so damn unique and relatable that it's hard not to draw parallels in our own lives. This track is making me question my stance on "cheating" and hell, even my stance on indulging your ex. Raghav never got closure from Esha whereas Pallavi did get closure from Mandaar. She found out that he was a stalker and so she had no reason to ponder how different her life would've been had he been a part of it. Raghav on the other hand, irrespective of how immensely and uncontrollably he loves Pallavi, has reason to wonder how his life would've/could've been had Esha stuck around. Lack of closure from past relationships does a number on people and more often than not, we don't even know we're still looking for closure until our past pops up right in front of us. I'd like to believe I'm well past the point of seeking closure, but hey, if I ran into that person tomorrow, would I punch him in the face? Possibly (read: most definitely).

Hi Masin... Relationship are complex and a fixed formula certainly doesn't work. Seldom we see such beautifully etched characters like Raghav and Pallavi who seem real with their imperfections and get to think what if! I completely agree with you.

The moment, he sat down for this drinking session, Raghav was threading a thin line. He overstepped his boundaries and got the whole fiasco onto himself. His drinking session was not in the good taste for two reasons... his promise to Pallavi and he was at a place he was not suppose to be, that too with his ex. It was about a drink... he should have denied! Warangal wouldn't have burned down if he did... once Esha was secure and safe in the room, he should have moved to the corridor. The rest even I believe, nothing happened. This drunkard danced his way into the trap merrily! Ab Bhugto!!!

Everyone's way of dealing with break up is different. Some people can't settle without answers while some just let go. Apparently Raghav sought answers to shut the chapter once and for all. This show has questioned my stance on cheating too. What defined cheating... to what extent can you bend... is it right to bend... multiple questions.

But what you said is right... when you look at him your heart goes out to him but at the same time, when one sees Pallavi's your wounded heart entirely shatters.

Originally posted by: moon.child

Thank you for tag Ren🤗🤗

You both have written it just so poetically beautiful❤️❤️ All quotes and detailed description is just so perfect and heart warming to read..

Kudos to you girls🤗🤗

Thanks I am glad you enjoyed it. The credit for me posting this goes to Ren completely. I was in two minds and wanted to delete it completely 😆

Originally posted by: sumsukor

Firstly. thats a absolutely beautiful writeup. every word spells its meaning as meant to be.

👏

I have been completely off the show, WU due to work/festive and only today came to see whats happening! and LO am awed at the choice of those words.

Right enough excellent.

Thank you for your humble words ❤️

I am glad that this appealed to you 😳

Originally posted by: sai2311

This is for both of you 🤗

You give hope

Thats really so sweet of you to say... Thank you 🤗

Originally posted by: ...EhSaas...

What is love?

Love is beautiful feeling but it also comes up thrones

Rainbow doesn't shine on a clear day... it adorns the horizon in the grey skies after the storm passes.

Either you leave it or remove those thrones from your path to make a beautiful journey further.

Leaving and turning away is the easiest.. But if one do, will they ever realises the beauty that awaited them just at the next turn?

Love is not for weak hearted person who just leave partners drop of hat with one storm

Ishq ki raahen hain... aasan kahan hogi?

Your partner never perfect. Perfect partner either in book or in movie in reality you always have flaw partner. Who make a mistakes and do blunder and who never shower flower on you but each and everyone have their own way of showing love.

We aren't carved out of the same mould. Thus, there is going to be imperfections. Whats important is how two people come together, ride over the imperfections to make it perfect. Perfection in itself is subjective and perspective btw.

Now come to RaghVi they both love each other and can do anything for eachother but they both also did taken for granted each other specially when it comes to their ex and family but this is part of their journey and this is the way they will learn to value each other more.

One thing is clear I do never doubt their love for eachother neither pallavi love for raghav not raghav loves for pallavi. They both did many things for eachother by keeping their self respect aside. Both are giver when it comes to love.

They were ready to give up on their lives for each other. Shun their egos, self respect and principles to just be by the other. So there's no doubt that their love is deep but they are inexperienced when it comes to cruising through these feelings and balance other relations. I am hoping this path will teach them that.

What third party think about couple that doesn't matter. What matter is what couple think about eachother Ofcourse not.

But their ex's are just out of the world... Ek obsessive psycho tha and dusri delusional. I judge them for their choices... but wait... they are both mad people... Veda manus and Pichayi Ammai and now that they are together... hope there's less destruction in the world.

No comments about track and what will pallavi do because being an ITV RaghVi are end game. This is just one more thrones to their love journey and drama for TRP 😆

Lolz I don't have too much complains from the tracks since they want masala for TRPs. I hope their efforts pays. Humara kya hai... thoda aur khan jalayenge

Beautifully written by your and jolliefeme 👍🏼

Thank you for the response 🤗

both have worst choice when it comes to life partner

Pallavi choose mandar

Raghav choose Esha

They never choose each other but it was all destiny they end up together

Exactly Love journey with rose petal but not without thrones.

In social media we saw so many happy couple and people gush about them but after few months we get headlines they broke up or divorce and all are shock OMG I can't believe it they were so much in love etc etc

This is not love. All happy couple don't post on SM.

Same with RaghVi journey. They are happy but in twisted way.

If show will continue after this track RaghVi will move on and behave like Esha never existed just like they are behaving like Mandar never existed

To apna khoon jalakar koi fayda nahi hain 😆

I just hope Sandip will again show his intrest in this show and give us OG Raghav and RaghVi back. I am not happy the way he handled both ex track and ruin essence of both leads

Originally posted by: PSharada

Love - the path of it is and never was easy. Ishq ki raahein itni aasaan kaha hain - so goes the title track for this show. When I look back at the journey of 200+ episodes I see the marvelous growth of 2 scarred individuals who did not have in their heart to hope for love because each was scarred by their past.

I am sure they had stopped thinking of love and life. Both were so engrossed in their miseries ki time hi kahan tha?

Raghav - had circumstances not been that bad he would have had his family with him. He is a giver, he loves taking care of people who are his family and he would die a thousand deaths if he could protect them. The same Raghav unintentionally became the instrument of death for his beloved father and younger brother. I can't fathom the guilt this guy carried in his heart for the past 10 years. Yet he rose like a warrior from the fires of Hell to be The RAGHAV RAO, one who has a tough exterior yet his heart beats for love and family. Like Raghav repeatedly says - he hates loneliness and he wants people around him. Pallavi sees his vulnerable side when he cries his heart out saying he doesn't want to be alone. Yet this person was condemned to stay alone for 10 long years. Yes he got his own loyal people who love to take care of him like Farhad, Rama, Harish and others but is it sufficient? He always wanted his mother to be there with him, wanted to dote on his loving sister. Take away everything from Raghav, he will survive and he will bounce back higher than before but take away love from Raghav and he will wither and die. That is what love is for Raghav.

10 yrs of abandonment scarred his soul. A child stuck in a closed room for hours carries the trauma through his/her life. The incident is forgotten but the psychological trauma stays. This is why he holds on to his family, his love tight. He can't bear to loose them. Farhad, Rama and Harish can only provide for him... be there for a purpose but not love him... can't pull him out of his darkness. Can't see his tears... can't reach his vulnerable self. So he fiercely guards his territories to protect those he loves.

Pallavi - one who was condemned a widow and a manhoos for no fault of hers struggled to make her family happy and bent backwards to help them get through the society. She became the daughter of the house working hard to keep her parents-in-law happy. When you see Pallavi in the first episode trying so hard to erase the red sindoor from the saree - you can see the pain in the young widow's eyes. She might have had a million dreams but everything got squashed because her husband went out in the night never to return. Yet Pallavi has the strength of Phoenix - She rises from ashes and becomes the light for the people around her.

In a house filled with people, Pallavi was alone in her struggles. No one knew the battles she was fighting. No one saw the pain behind her smiles. I sometimes feel, she was accepted as a daughter because she took the place of their son. Had it not been the case, had she been dependent on them... she would have been ousted long back.

And when these two get together you can see the happiness they bought for each other. Pallavi was the light in Raghav's life - He is happy and is slowly becoming the old Raghav only because of the love from Pallavi. When Pallavi was shot Raghav says - Please don't leave me, Without you by my side I will again keep on making mistakes. That is what Pallavi is to Raghav - one who guides him and supports him. Raghav is finally becoming the person he could have been only due to constant support and encouragement from Pallavi. Take away Pallavi from Raghav's life and Raghav will crumble like anything - a fact that everyone from Amma to Sunny know.

There was a paradigm shift in their personalities. The don mellowed down and to the tunes of his saree ka dukaan. He may survive without air, but he can't function without her. thats the fact of his life.

Pallavi - she can't breathe without Raghav. She will live but it would be a life devoid of happiness. Sure she is having blind faith on her husband which will lead to heart breaks but her heart beats for Raghav. When Raghav gives her the pain only Raghav has the power to soothe it and assure her and Raghav will walk the fires of hell to get his Pallavi to forgive him.

The extent to which Pallavi trusts Raghav is beyond one's level of comprehension. She will break for him and only he holds this power on her. If he breaks her, she's gonna nurture the pain too. Its only him, who could heal her.

This track is not for faint hearted because there is going to be lot of heart break and angst and especially for Raghav since he is stuck in a big problem. But he has to walk the path - to get his love to make her his forever, to soothe her and to assure her of her rightful place next to him for all his life. I can't abandon them during the heart break because I truly believe after this hurdle their love will be stronger than ever. It will help Raghav shed his fear and insecurities and it will make Pallavi realize why she needs Raghav in her life.

Yes, this time, Raghav will have to make the effort to rise above the darkness because if he drowns, she goes down with him. She will be vulnerable, he'll have to walk this path of fire to her.

Love is a strange feeling - It empowers you yet weakens you, It liberates you yet keeps you chained, It makes you happy yet makes you feeling scared. Like Raghav says Jo pyaar ko jaan le, yeh pyaar uski jaan le. Yup time to pay back your pound of flesh Raghav and win your love. Same for Pallavi - Time to pay back the tears to finally get the rainbow you deserve in your life dear.

Loved this ❤️

Thanks for the beautiful reply Sharada 🤗... Ren is right... you write so beautifully... its like you are reading them ⭐️

Unresd on page 1. Thanks for sharing this Soni🤗

I don't visit this forum like earlier but your post made me to visit this forum

You both understand relationship very well

It is not related to only RaghVi but generally

Relationship is not like where you leave your partner but understand them

I am not talking about abusive relationship here where there is no use of staying there

I would love to read more about Raghvi perception from your side