Love and Trust!!

Hey guys!! I am back and watched the episodes . I am loving this track and all characters are playing true to their character. My thoughts and let’s start with

The Raghav Rao the hero 😃

R is feeling guilty towards E and P . He is feeling guilty towards E since he had assumed her to be somebody who is after money but when he came to know about the actual truth he should feel some emotions towards her since she had sacrificed her love for his life and accepted a life that is nothing but misery which no woman deserves. So him helping her out and protecting her is quite natural since a person’s first love always holds a special spot so they say. He might have moved on in his life but I don’t think Pallavi has the spot that Esha has and she will always hold that spot with out him trying and same for Raghav holding a spot in Esha heart. It is how first love works for both men and women . He is feeling guilty towards Pallavi since he broke his promise and had a ONS with Esha and he did muster up courage to talk to her but she had head phones on and so to muster up again is hard for anybody and by human nature our first instinct is to hide if there is a possibility for it. There are hard lessons to be learnt for R from this track . Trust is something you build on .

From Esha’s perspective she wants to let go but at the same time hold on to him as well. It’s difficult for somebody in her spot as she knows that R has moved on with P and loves her but somewhere something in her wants him to complete the life she had dreamt with him. I guess her coming to stay at RR mansion will be an eye opener to her as she will realize what P means to R and he has really moved on . She will move away from them making things clear for both and she will have some memories to latch on to in her life’s journey and to have that dream fulfilled of living a life with him though not fully but to have a part of it.

Pallavi trusts her husband as all wives do but she will feel shattered when she realizes that he has broken her trust. He is going to repent and work harder to build her trust on him again and it will take a long time to do that. But I didn’t like the fact that she wants to be intimate with her husband for a child . You should be intimate with your husband because of the love and passion and not to reproduce. I don’t think she will leave him but for sure will make him repent.

All in all this is a much better track than the Mandhar track as there was no back story to that one and also Pallavi leaving her responsibilities towards her husband and her home to go and help her ex husband made it unrealistic and unrelatable. But this track we have 2 people who truly loved each other and wanted to be together but got separated by date and one has moved on from the bitter past . Repenting for his deeds is definitely needed and also him learning to be truthful and honest to his wife is a much needed lesson that he needs to learn . Just my thoughts and welcome all your thoughts.

Hmm... Breaking my head from last few days and came to a conclusion that show whatever it may take and make RR innocent and guilt free.. when the doctor injection promo came out, i was wishing that RR should be sane and in 3 piece suit with his pride and richness intact but going by this track, i feel like let him lose his stability than sending on a guilt trip for the nth time😆

Btw my name too is Priya 😊

Originally posted by: subbuappu

Hmm... Breaking my head from last few days and came to a conclusion that show whatever it may take and make RR innocent and guilt free.. when the doctor injection promo came out, i was wishing that RR should be sane and in 3 piece suit with his pride and richness intact but going by this track, i feel like let him lose his stability than sending on a guilt trip for the nth time😆

Btw my name too is Priya 😊

Hi Priya 😁

Nice to meet you virtually! Repenting is needed for his actions because he indeed broke his promise to her and in regards to sleeping with E in my opinion I think he committed the act only thinking that he is with Pallavi and so the emotional connection is what I would be looking for . Because sex between a couple makes it intimate only when you have the emotional connect and it’s not just physical. But we will have to wait and watch how it all plays out and how Pallavi is going to make him accountable for his actions. Just my thoughts ..

Hey , thanks for the tag. Well I’m not as frequent as I used to be on the forum for obvious reasons, but I agree that this track is needed for Raghav to finally let go of his past and be free of the burdens he’s been carrying regarding it. But execution wise I’m not satisfied as I feel making Raghav guilty even if he sneezes seems to be what the writers want. He’s already drowning in guilt regarding his family tragedy even though Jaya absolved him for it, I’m not sure he’s forgiven himself. Like wise in this track, he had not forgiven himself for the way things ended with Isha and the trust that he placed implicitly on her but now that he knows why she did it, he feels guilty about how the way her life turned out and is now compensating by trying to protect her as a friend. Guilt , guilt and more guilt now.… Just like atlas carrying the world on his shoulders it’s like he’s only carrying guilt nowadays. And the impossible standards of Pallavi makes it difficult for him to come clean about what exactly happened in the hotel room. I’m still unsure about what happened too. What I saw was different from the way what Raghav says happened and even isha is conveniently forgetting that it was her who took advantage. Don’t get me wrong , he was wrong to have indulged himself in that drinking competition and good sense should’ve prevailed but Raghav and challenges are a match made in heaven. Leaving that aside, he should’ve come clean immediately to Pallavi, but the fear of losing his love is again making him to hide things essentially breaking her trust. It shows us that Raghav’s core has never changed and sometimes it might not too. It’s up to Pallavi to decide what she wants out of this marriage and if she’s willing to come to terms with Ragahv’s core maybe never changing. She might forgive him or she might leave him too, either way she should be the one to decide. Personally I don’t mind her leaving him too. Maybe will make everyone move back and look at things differently. Whatever the outcome, I just don’t want to see an always guilty Raghav always on the back foot. In that way the relationship as it stands is very imbalanced . Couples do have a loving relationship despite the imbalance but what’s good for one need not be the same for another. I’m still scratching my head as to how he’s surviving with all this guilt. In normal circumstances a person in this much of guilt would’ve had a medical emergency or lost his mind. 😭. I agree human tendency is to hide and he did try once but after that his courage is gone for a toss too. But this will result in deeper guilt as we know how Raghav is and Isha is right in his home and I really can’t fathom how this can end well. Pallavi for sure will be broken.

P.S : I didn’t care for Pallavi’s reason for getting intimate just because Aai, Amma and even she herself decided they want a baby.. Primary reason to get intimate is not procreation . The reason you want to be intimate is because you love your partner so much and it’s an expression of that which results in pleasure for both. That’s it.

Hey Priya !!!

Welcome back !! Glad you are liking the track.

I hvnt watched the show since months now. Left in the middle of mandar track I think. Den gave a few episodes a try beech mein but honestly it didnt get me excited like before , so hvnt been watching the show at all. I just read updates and see precaps .....dt also very infrequently these days .

Whatver I know of the track , I personally do not like it. It has kind of spoiled my love for RR. I dont admire him like I used to do before anymore. I know everyone has a past but I dont agree wid the whole concept of your first love will always be more special. When you are married, marriage should be kept above every other relationship. And honestly cant get past the ONS thing . Even if it didnt happen .....it could hv and I find Raghav highly irresponsible and careless .

And believe me , Esha wont be dt positive like you are expecting. This will be another Mandar track with Esha being the evil vamp. Regular tv drama ban gya hai yeh show. Not my cup of tea anymore.

I think even if P does decide to forgive and hold on to her marriage which is totally her decision a mini separation or some space might not be a bad idea it puts into perspective what is priority for both spouses. Maybe then her feelings will not be taken for granted or dismissed. She spends all her time reassuring him of her love, it's time for her to receive that same reassurance. Also after all the crap she has had to take she deserves to be wooed serenaded flattered etc

Originally posted by: subbuappu

Btw my name too is Priya 😊

Priya is a lovely name.

Coincidentally, Sai Ketan Rao once played a web series character who betrayed his girlfriend by having a one-night stand with a woman named Priya. When Priya told him that she loved him, he pushed her away, accidentally calling her by his girlfriend's name.

Originally posted by: sp1977

I think even if P does decide to forgive and hold on to her marriage which is totally her decision a mini separation or some space might not be a bad idea it puts into perspective what is priority for both spouses. Maybe then her feelings will not be taken for granted or dismissed. She spends all her time reassuring him of her love, it's time for her to receive that same reassurance. Also after all the crap she has had to take she deserves to be wooed serenaded flattered etc

Agreed a small separation might be needed to get things in perspective and being away from each other might give them time and space needed to come out of this but R is going to be repenting for his actions that he has taken.

Originally posted by: Looneygirl

Hey , thanks for the tag. Well I’m not as frequent as I used to be on the forum for obvious reasons, but I agree that this track is needed for Raghav to finally let go of his past and be free of the burdens he’s been carrying regarding it. But execution wise I’m not satisfied as I feel making Raghav guilty even if he sneezes seems to be what the writers want. He’s already drowning in guilt regarding his family tragedy even though Jaya absolved him for it, I’m not sure he’s forgiven himself. Like wise in this track, he had not forgiven himself for the way things ended with Isha and the trust that he placed implicitly on her but now that he knows why she did it, he feels guilty about how the way her life turned out and is now compensating by trying to protect her as a friend. Guilt , guilt and more guilt now.… Just like atlas carrying the world on his shoulders it’s like he’s only carrying guilt nowadays. And the impossible standards of Pallavi makes it difficult for him to come clean about what exactly happened in the hotel room. I’m still unsure about what happened too. What I saw was different from the way what Raghav says happened and even isha is conveniently forgetting that it was her who took advantage. Don’t get me wrong , he was wrong to have indulged himself in that drinking competition and good sense should’ve prevailed but Raghav and challenges are a match made in heaven. Leaving that aside, he should’ve come clean immediately to Pallavi, but the fear of losing his love is again making him to hide things essentially breaking her trust. It shows us that Raghav’s core has never changed and sometimes it might not too. It’s up to Pallavi to decide what she wants out of this marriage and if she’s willing to come to terms with Ragahv’s core maybe never changing. She might forgive him or she might leave him too, either way she should be the one to decide. Personally I don’t mind her leaving him too. Maybe will make everyone move back and look at things differently. Whatever the outcome, I just don’t want to see an always guilty Raghav always on the back foot. In that way the relationship as it stands is very imbalanced . Couples do have a loving relationship despite the imbalance but what’s good for one need not be the same for another. I’m still scratching my head as to how he’s surviving with all this guilt. In normal circumstances a person in this much of guilt would’ve had a medical emergency or lost his mind. 😭. I agree human tendency is to hide and he did try once but after that his courage is gone for a toss too. But this will result in deeper guilt as we know how Raghav is and Isha is right in his home and I really can’t fathom how this can end well. Pallavi for sure will be broken.

P.S : I didn’t care for Pallavi’s reason for getting intimate just because Aai, Amma and even she herself decided they want a baby.. Primary reason to get intimate is not procreation . The reason you want to be intimate is because you love your partner so much and it’s an expression of that which results in pleasure for both. That’s it.

I am not sure if the makers will separate them but might just show a little separation and R repenting for his actions. I agree with you that they always show R guilty and in redeeming himself in every track and it’s kind of the end game of every track and hopefully with this track R comes out of all the guilt and they start fresh and he starts believing that he too like every one else deserves happiness and togetherness with his family.

Originally posted by: DaffodilsNew

Hey Priya !!!

Welcome back !! Glad you are liking the track.

I hvnt watched the show since months now. Left in the middle of mandar track I think. Den gave a few episodes a try beech mein but honestly it didnt get me excited like before , so hvnt been watching the show at all. I just read updates and see precaps .....dt also very infrequently these days .

Whatver I know of the track , I personally do not like it. It has kind of spoiled my love for RR. I dont admire him like I used to do before anymore. I know everyone has a past but I dont agree wid the whole concept of your first love will always be more special. When you are married, marriage should be kept above every other relationship. And honestly cant get past the ONS thing . Even if it didnt happen .....it could hv and I find Raghav highly irresponsible and careless .

And believe me , Esha wont be dt positive like you are expecting. This will be another Mandar track with Esha being the evil vamp. Regular tv drama ban gya hai yeh show. Not my cup of tea anymore.