Virat behavior towards sai today

Want to talk about two things about today episode.

1) Virat saying I'll leave again & again despite sai making it obvious through her actions that she wants him there.

2) Virat asking sai 'does the choti he made is same as her aaba's'.

When first time virat said I will leave it is understandable since he has many insecurities & might have thought sai don't want him.

But when she got emotional he again said I will leave. For what? After being stopped by sai he immediately said that do u get reminded of ur aaba? So he knows she got emotional for her aaba still played I will leave card.

Third time he could have easily stayed in the room on sofa knowing she wanted him around her. Stil he said I will leave.

I mean how many times he needs assurance from her. If it was other time then it's okay. But look at her condition. She don't even have the strength to hold his hand to stop him.

People say sai always compares virat to her aaba. But what virat is doing? He does the things which her aaba used to do for her. Like candy floss, pendant, making modak. Today he asked does his hand made choti is same as her aaba's. Sai didn't answer anything. What is the need for that question? How sai supposed to not compare virat with her father when he himself does such things.

I always found virat reaction towards sai loving other people(though they are his family members) as abnormal. Whenever he says sai loves aai,devi tai, other family member. It's like he is complaining that she loves them but not him.

No problem if virat is being selfish. Being selfish is one of human emotion. But what pisses me off is virat acts as a victim everytime after doing self absorbed things. That is being manipulative.

I have a different opinion here about him saying I will leave the 2nd time when Sai was crying. I felt he truly was concerned for her and didn't want her to get effected if she didn't want him there. So his dialogue, if you don't want to see my Gandi shakl I will leave.

1st time, I agree he could have been a little more patient with her but felt he was too exhausted himself and wanted her to take her medicine quickly. This also was ok for me.

The last time I really didn't understand, why he wanted to leave. Like you said he could have sat/slept on the sofa and let her rest. One family member is allowed inside the room at night, so not sure what was the intention behind that dialogue of leaving and you take rest. She wanted him so badly there, my heart broke for her😭. Hoping he doesn't leave her to go back to the paagal khaana to change his clothes where a vulture is waiting for him 🤡.

As for Virat we have seen how dense his brain is , so he might still be thinking Sai hates him , Didi doesn't have any bad intentions towards Sai and Didi considers him only as her friend even if she confesses to him 100 times 🤣.

Sai cries.....

Virat(after being held back by Sai 10 times) :

Patient who just had brain surgery

First two credit : ME

The last one : Lakshmi

Originally posted by: Rdigest

I have a different opinion here about him saying I will leave the 2nd time when Sai was crying. I felt he truly was concerned for her and didn't want her to get effected if she didn't want him there. So his dialogue, if you don't want to see my Gandi shakl I will leave.

1st time, I agree he could have been a little more patient with her but felt he was too exhausted himself and wanted her to take her medicine quickly. This also was ok for me.

The last time I really didn't understand, why he wanted to leave. Like you said he could have sat/slept on the sofa and let her rest. One family member is allowed inside the room at night, so not sure what was the intention behind that dialogue of leaving and you take rest. She wanted him so badly there, my heart broke for her😭. Hoping he doesn't leave her to go back to the paagal khaana to change his clothes where a vulture is waiting for him 🤡.

As for Virat we have seen how dense his brain is , so he might still be thinking Sai hates him , Didi doesn't have any bad intentions towards Sai and Didi considers him only as her friend even if she confesses to him 100 times 🤣.

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

Sai cries.....

Virat(after being held back by Sai 10 times) :

Patient who just had brain surgery

First two credit : ME

The last one : Lakshmi

I dont think hes doing it with the intention of being manipulative but he seeks assurance from her. And asking about choti being like aabaa was to make light conversation. But just like he seeks assurance that Sai wants him therehe should understand that Sai seeks assurance that he wants her in his life as more than just a forced zimnedari. His current gestures reassures her that he has not really become fully indifferent or hateful towards her but it still doesn't guarantee her of a place in his life/heart as his wife. So if he seeks so much assurance from her, he should realize she does too. Today her gesture of letting go of his hand as soon as pp came conveyed a lot about her insecurities and virat DID notice it. So if he goes back to square on in 1 week , theres really no point of this track n Sai ending up in mental breakdown thanks to him/pp antics....

Originally posted by: Nja91

I dont think hes doing it with the intention of being manipulative but he seeks assurance from her. And asking about choti being like aabaa was to make light conversation. But just like he seeks assurance that Sai wants him therehe should understand that Sai seeks assurance that he wants her in his life as more than just a forced zimnedari. His current gestures reassures her that he has not really become fully indifferent or hateful towards her but it still doesn't guarantee her of a place in his life/heart as his wife. So if he seeks so much assurance from her, he should realize she does too. Today her gesture of letting go of his hand as soon as pp came conveyed a lot about her insecurities and virat DID notice it. So if he goes back to square on in 1 week , theres really no point of this track n Sai ending up in mental breakdown thanks to him/pp antics....

Originally posted by: Nja91

I dont think hes doing it with the intention of being manipulative but he seeks assurance from her. And asking about choti being like aabaa was to make light conversation. But just like he seeks assurance that Sai wants him therehe should understand that Sai seeks assurance that he wants her in his life as more than just a forced zimnedari. His current gestures reassures her that he has not really become fully indifferent or hateful towards her but it still doesn't guarantee her of a place in his life/heart as his wife. So if he seeks so much assurance from her, he should realize she does too. Today her gesture of letting go of his hand as soon as pp came conveyed a lot about her insecurities and virat DID notice it. So if he goes back to square on in 1 week , theres really no point of this track n Sai ending up in mental breakdown thanks to him/pp antics....

@bold Sai needs much more especially after his pavithra dosti with his ex and also because he himself said using “SAAF SPASHT” words during their marriage that he cannot give place to anyone in his life/heart, and that she will only be his responsibility and not wife and also has always been calling her his responsibility. Even if he has said that he is not fulfilling his waada/commitment, does his actions convey that? Does it mean that he accepts her as his wife? His action conveys that he has soft corner for Pakhi and she has a special place in his life/heart. So, when he needs assurance from her to just stay with him in the hospital room for a day, will Sai not need one to stay in his house, in his life? In just a few minutes of time, his doubts, his lack of confidence in their relationship, his insecurity has made him utter that he will leave the room, will Sai not have the same issues and keep repeating that she will leave the house after she becomes a doctor, she anyway have to leave the house one day?

Will Virat ever realise it? No. He told Samrat that Sai keeps saying it since day one, then what he did do in the hospital room? One has to try to be in other’s shoes before judging them.

Originally posted by: Nja91

I dont think hes doing it with the intention of being manipulative but he seeks assurance from her. And asking about choti being like aabaa was to make light conversation. But just like he seeks assurance that Sai wants him therehe should understand that Sai seeks assurance that he wants her in his life as more than just a forced zimnedari. His current gestures reassures her that he has not really become fully indifferent or hateful towards her but it still doesn't guarantee her of a place in his life/heart as his wife. So if he seeks so much assurance from her, he should realize she does too. Today her gesture of letting go of his hand as soon as pp came conveyed a lot about her insecurities and virat DID notice it. So if he goes back to square on in 1 week , theres really no point of this track n Sai ending up in mental breakdown thanks to him/pp antics....

@bold word , I felt the same too and even him saying leaving was more because he wasn't still sure what Sai wants . I am hoping he now understands her insecurities else what purpose does this track serve and how will they move forward🤔

Agree. Its shocking that he refuses to introspect n see Sai's blatant insecurities which she has not really hidden from him when he has all this past baggage if he gets jealous of her college buddies and she literally has no one in her life except him. He is jealous of people in his own family who are on good terms with her coz he feels like she understands then better than him but he hasnt pondered to realize that she has accepted them all only because she is his wife.she has one problem- PP and he cant fix that. He just finds excuses to not address his wifes one major problem.