Behaviour acceptable or not in real life - Page 2

I wont be comfortable and i am not.This is not acceptable.

Originally posted by: loveandhope9204

NOBODY can be okay with something like this, so it's stupid to try and defend Pratik with a statement like 'It didn't bother her much na?' Seriously? 🤢 How pathetic.

Vidhi was being smart about this. She recognized that this guy wanted to use this situation that happened with her, in his favor. She knew he's desperate to make the 'I am cornered, I am a victim, I am shouted at by all HMs' - so she did not want to give him that glory.

I infact loved how maturely she handled it in the LF, where she told him - if anyone was showering, Boy or Girl, it would shock them. She was being very reasonable with Pratik and didn't ask for an apology, but tried to make him understand.

That made Pratik look worse, as Vidhi did not capitalize on the 'woman card' or make this a 'woman thing'. She did not allow Kundra or anyone to make this a woman thing, as she told Kundra that she clearly knows how Pratik is trying to flip this sensitive issue, into a game strategy for himself.

So her handling this so well, exposed Pratik even more. He's looking very negative.

Pratik is negative. Even I'm glad how Vidhi made his strategy of main bechara fall flat...

On topic: I'd have blasted him left right and center

Originally posted by: Naaju

I want to ask from girls in the forum.

How would you have felt if you would have in vidhi's place?

I as a girl would have been really uncomfortable if I'm taking a bath n someone messing up with the door. And I after coming out would have surely blasted him in out for entering my personal space. And if that person would not be from family than obviously I would have judged his intention.

Even if the door was locked from inside but still highly scary to feel someone doing something with door.

In a country like India where there are so many issues on girls safety such behaviour is completely unacceptable where Pratik says he doesn't mind anyone walking inside when his sister is having a shower. He is so pathetic.

Such misogynistic behaviour should not be accepted. And better Salman or BB take some action

Had it been me in Vidhi's place i would have brought hell on Pratik. At that point I wouldn't have cared what that his intentions were good, doing something like that is unacceptable.

Originally posted by: Aarzoo47

Why didn't she blast pratik immediately? Why the late reaction ? She only opened this topic once they realised that kaadi is gone, uske pehele she was fine, matlab it didn't bother her much na ?

Really!? Victim blaming. You want a naked Vidhi in the middle of her shower to start shouting at him???? i too would have worn my clothes before confronting him.

Your love for pratik is blinding you sense and judgement.

Originally posted by: SushantForever

I wont be comfortable and i am not.This is not acceptable.

Absolutely unacceptable. This kind of behaviour is actually problematic. I have seen Pratik in ace of space and OTT and his attitude is the same. sometimes he gets so involved that he cannot distinguish between right and wrong.

Originally posted by: soni595

Yea. It was pretty disturbing to see the clip. I would not feel comfortable and would freak out. It's not okay to justify every wrong action for the game. You have to have some decency and respect for people. How does someone have absolute zero humility and grace to accept their wrong actions on this show? Plus, then trying to portray himself as the victim. Like, you're going to go and do something to freak out someone but then you should be the one feeling bad?🤔

PS: I don't think my outrage over Pratik would have differed even if it was a guy in the bathroom. It's still not okay to do that.

Anybody, guy or girl has a right to privacy while showering. My outrage is slightly more because it was a girl, maybe because I can relate how scary the feeling would be. But my anger literally went through the roof when I came to the forum this morning. Like why are people defending this behaviour???

It's so unacceptable, I get scared for few moments even if it's my Husband when he suddenly starts knocking . And this was to with strangers and national television with all camera, even a slight mishap could cause her lifelong trauma.

Glad somebody is talking about this. I saw many people on insta supporting pratik saying he just broke the lock, did not opened the door and all that shit. That housemates are just making issue. He told viddhi before he was going to do it. I just can’t believe people wpuld even support him.

Originally posted by: lovereading14

Anybody, guy or girl has a right to privacy while showering. My outrage is slightly more because it was a girl, maybe because I can relate how scary the feeling would be. But my anger literally went through the roof when I came to the forum this morning. Like why are people defending this behaviour???

I can relate to that. It’s almost happened to me and I even startle when someone tries to turn the knob thinking nobody is in there.

I’m so flabbergasted as to how his behavior is getting defended. That’s just plain blind support if you nitpick everything somebody does to your favorite and ignore every wrong action of your favorite. Like Jay should be bashed because his gaali hurt Pratik but Pratik shouldn’t be bashed that his actions hurt Vidhi. Kya logic hai, only Pratik gets to feel hurt and react on things. 🤔

Originally posted by: soni595

I can relate to that. It’s almost happened to me and I even startle when someone tries to turn the knob thinking nobody is in there.

I’m so flabbergasted as to how his behavior is getting defended. That’s just plain blind support if you nitpick everything somebody does to your favorite and ignore every wrong action of your favorite. Like Jay should be bashed because his gaali hurt Pratik but Pratik shouldn’t be bashed that his actions hurt Vidhi. Kya logic hai, only Pratik gets to feel hurt and react on things. 🤔

Exactly! and I am so sorry it almost happened to you. It is not a good feeling at all. I too have favourites nut if they do something wrong, something like this I will not have any of it. I am a woman too and this is plain scary.