Who is responsible for the accident?

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Accident is quite a concept and a favorite one for ITV besides kidnapping, of course.
When normal human beings fight they try to solve whatever issues and misunderstandings they have through discussion or they’d involve a 3rd person from family or take professional help.

In ITV, The concept of love is I am ready to tolerate everything you do as long as you stay alive. Primary issues and communication gap which need importance are buried under he stayed up all night for me, he must care about me who cares that you will end up in same place in next one month. Welcome to the cycle of misunderstandings and accidents



Who is responsible for an accident?
I believe it is called an accident because none is fully responsible for it, its just result of individual’s negligence

Sai’s car accident -

Last time, When Sai had an accident she was running on the road, I am sorry to say but driver was not at fault because Sai came in front of his car. We have been taught from childhood to look out for vehicles on the road

Here, I don’t understand the legality of it but Sai was responsible for that accident, her emotions were high and it was her negligence, do I blame her, I don’t know because she was the one who had to face the repercussions of it

Virat was chasing her, it was his negligence too, you don’t run on roads


Sai falling in the pit -


It was an act of kindness, don’t think anyone is responsible for it, she went to save a child and fell


Family has their own version of someone being responsible for the accident, they think some kind of magic protects Virat and Sai when they are together, I guess then the one responsible for all accidents is the dude who is forcing Sai and Virat to stay together by putting Sai in danger all the time, Is it Nagesh Chavhan? I never liked him TBH

In all this, what I don’t understand is Devi because she keeps saying she knew Sai will have to face something bad then why did she help Sai? She was the only one who was aware of Sai’s plan, she is the only one who is understanding what her father wants for his family then why help Sai run away? I guess she could have stopped Sai by yelling while Sai was trying to leave


Effects of her words and anger is lost on me because she is saying things like Sai and Virat have accident when they are apart and she is the one who helped Sai, someone else should have been given dialogues that she got today IMO


Pakhi acts so immature, dude you can’t start fighting in the hospital but I feel they have toned her down because last time she didn’t care about Sai, this time she is not completely devoid of empathy. I just want to see how these constant taunts will affect her because everyone is holding her responsible for the accident

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Posted: 4 years ago
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I was actually laughing with Devi dialogues.likr there is no head or tail.she is saying stuff so randomly.

One day she is like it's good Sai has gone.other moment I knew kuch hurt hoga Agar Sai virat alag huye.

One moment I m responsible for this accident next moment pakhi is responsible for this accident next moment virat is responsible for this accident.

I was like bro first decide whom u want to blame actually.

By looking at this present context I will say as shivani said today it was an accident where nobody to be blamed.It was Sai decision to leave for her good. But in her act of kindness this happened.so blaming anyone apart from destiny for this accident is stupid.

I was literally cracked up when Sai friends form human chain to stop virat.like bro u don't know anything just like that.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Jrf2021

I was actually laughing with Devi dialogues.likr there is no head or tail.she is saying stuff so randomly.

One day she is like it's good Sai has gone.other moment I knew kuch hurt hoga Agar Sai virat alag huye.

One moment I m responsible for this accident next moment pakhi is responsible for this accident next moment virat is responsible for this accident.

I was like bro first decide whom u want to blame actually.

By looking at this present context I will say as shivani said today it was an accident where nobody to be blamed.It was Sai decision to leave for her good. But in her act of kindness this happened.so blaming anyone apart from destiny for this accident is stupid.

I was literally cracked up when Sai friends form human chain to stop virat.like bro u don't know anything just like that.


It was an act of kindness from Sai, I don’t think anyone is responsible but she saved a child that’s very good.

It is difficult to take Devi seriously because she is the one who wanted to fight for seat in the car instead of worrying about Sai then showed her tongue to Pakhi, I mean dude, focus, how do I take her concern for Sai seriously when she keeps shifting goals?


It wasn’t a human chain, Sai’s friends were talking like background noise, zero impact

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Logically speaking No one was responsible for the last accident or this one..

Emotionally last time Virat was responsible, only Virat not Patralekha.... Because if you see the episodes, when he runs after her, he stops her and she stops, but when he wanted to know what she was doing with Ajinkya in the room , far across, she runs away...Then again he reaches to her and tells her I want to know the answer, you cannot run away without giving me the answers....on a 'very busy' road, when it was raining badly, instead of asking her to get back home....He had already got the answers by then by both Sai and Ajinkya and yet he wanted answers......

She left and he again shouted at her that she should answer or he will not spare her... And thats where she turned to respond, on the road and lost track of the car running... She was not on the main road, or unaware of where she is till he came in to question her with the same questions that was answered so many times...

Second accident again was her fate, but she leaving that house was because the two friends could not stop each other from taunting her , harassing her, when she was interested or not interested. Her leaving the house was manifested by Virat to a greater extent and Pakhi contributing her part of it..However I dont hold Virat responsible at all for this accident...He should be definitely held responsible for the harassment and abuse that can make the mental semblance collapse, for anybody who has no family to rely upon...

Coming to the allegations part of it, you see when closed ones reach on their death bed and speaking from experience, everyone directly/indirectly connected to that untoward accident/situation is held responsible..Infact it takes days/ages to let that go...

Say if someone called someone for a party and other one did not want to come, yet the friend forced and the person, while leaving ends up in the hospital, the family blames the friend, the friend blames himself/herself.. Its a very irrational and emotional aspect of such situations... People have stepped out of the house in anger, because of an argument with a loved one and met accidents, not just the other loved ones, but the one who was into that argument holds himself/herslf responsible... At least for some time, till things are not fine...And in case you lose the person, the guilt never, never dies...Some even need therapy to come out of it...Even when death is natural and something bitter happened a day before, the guilt of hurting that person in his/her last days consumes you..

But yeah logically all this can be termed hogwash for sure..

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Patralekha's satin gown is responsible. The one that was shown in last week's episode. 🤞🏻

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: NoraSM


It was an act of kindness from Sai, I don’t think anyone is responsible but she saved a child that’s very good.

It is difficult to take Devi seriously because she is the one who wanted to fight for seat in the car instead of worrying about Sai then showed her tongue to Pakhi, I mean dude, focus, how do I take her concern for Sai seriously when she keeps shifting goals?


It wasn’t a human chain, Sai’s friends were talking like background noise, zero impact

Every dialogue has zero impact today emotionally. It looks like dialogues were just given just for the sake of uttering dialogues .whether Sai frnds or Devi or ashwini or virat or pakhi or samrat.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: asmi_joya

Logically speaking No one was responsible for the last accident or this one..

Emotionally last time Virat was responsible, only Virat not Patralekha.... Because if you see the episodes, when he runs after her, he stops her and she stops, but when he wanted to know what she was doing with Ajinkya in the room , far across, she runs away...Then again he reaches to her and tells her I want to know the answer, you cannot run away without giving me the answers....on a 'very busy' road, when it was raining badly, instead of asking her to get back home....He had already got the answers by then by both Sai and Ajinkya and yet he wanted answers......

She left and he again shouted at her that she should answer or he will not spare her... And thats where she turned to respond, on the road and lost track of the car running... She was not on the main road, or unaware of where she is till he came in to question her with the same questions that was answered so many times...

Second accident again was her fate, but she leaving that house was because the two friends could not stop each other from taunting her , harassing her, when she was interested or not interested. Her leaving the house was manifested by Virat to a greater extent and Pakhi contributing her part of it..However I dont hold Virat responsible at all for this accident...He should be definitely held responsible for the harassment and abuse that can make the mental semblance collapse, for anybody who has no family to rely upon...

Coming to the allegations part of it, you see when closed ones reach on their death bed and speaking from experience, everyone directly/indirectly connected to that untoward accident/situation is held responsible..Infact it takes days/ages to let that go...

Say if someone called someone for a party and other one did not want to come, yet the friend forced and the person, while leaving ends up in the hospital, the family blames the friend, the friend blames himself/herself.. Its a very irrational and emotional aspect of such situations... People have stepped out of the house in anger, because of an argument with a loved one and met accidents, not just the other loved ones, but the one who was into that argument holds himself/herslf responsible... At least for some time, till things are not fine...And in case you lose the person, the guilt never, never dies...Some even need therapy to come out of it...Even when death is natural and something bitter happened a day before, the guilt of hurting that person in his/her last days consumes you..

But yeah logically all this can be termed hogwash for sure..


Thanks for the observation on last accident and I agree about the emotional aspects of family members, we need answers and we tried to find them. We lost our dear one due to kidney failure and I remember everyone wondering if doctor did it, is there a name for this feeling when you have to find the one responsible for it all? Is it because the grief can come out in form of anger towards the person responsible?

I liked reading your view. thanks

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: Jrf2021

Every dialogue has zero impact today emotionally. It looks like dialogues were just given just for the sake of uttering dialogues .whether Sai frnds or Devi or ashwini or virat or pakhi or samrat.

That’s maybe because we know Sai will be safe so we don’t have the same fear the characters are experiencing

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Posted: 4 years ago
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So Mitali was giving an explanation on this. She said her character doesn't understand that it is not Virat's fault. She only knows that Virat let her go and then this accident happened. She doesn't have that understanding that accident can happen anytime to anyone.

No one is responding for this accident according to me. It was destiny.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: NoraSM


Thanks for the observation on last accident and I agree about the emotional aspects of family members, we need answers and we tried to find them. We lost our dear one due to kidney failure and I remember everyone wondering if doctor did it, is there a name for this feeling when you have to find the one responsible for it all? Is it because the grief can come out in form of anger towards the person responsible?

I liked reading your view. thanks

Yes it does, I have seen a family member blaming the friend , for her husband's death and next instant was worried for him, because he was very close to him...I have seen her blaming herself for giving into his demands of letting him go out... She still is stuck at that Kaash... You sometimes dont even come out of that Kaash..

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