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The other wise sweet girl showed her frustration,her anger on all the nonsense that is making her life miserable.

Originally posted by: mamta22

True but you can't stay quite everytime. Yesterday Deba's outburst was okay. She was absolutely right in her place but some fans feels she should not generalised it. According to them she should be careful with the words. Somewhere they are also right in their place. Even later she clarified it through dm that it was not for her loyal fans. These things are sad but maximum all the celebrities face this.

Originally posted by: Dumpling

Yes she had to clarify her stand thats what made me feel being a celebrity is like walking on a 2 way knife .Whichever way you choose ,if you choose to stay quite you will behurt if you vent out your anger still some people will comeback at you n hurt you again.Only thing i felt may be a post with an open letter to fans would have been more effective than putting out in live this way where fans misunderstood her.Never eeasy anyways.

Sad but true facts. Being a celebrity or in entertainment industry is not easy. True fans will never thought of hurting their favourites. Those who are doing this type of stupid things I will not call them fans. I will say they are haters or over obsessed people. And I know they will do this again. It's not first time I am watching this kind of people harassing celebrity or their family or friends. If social media has some positive effects it has negative effects also. Same with popularity if you will earn love then you will earn hate also.

Originally posted by: sush37

You know the showbiz is like this. Deba is very new to these things. She will learn I know. The best possible way is to ignore. Deba has to learn that. Bcas if you ignore these BS they will just loose their credibility. It's very tough to do. But as she is in this limelight she as to learn this. Kv has learned it with time, so he handles them inefficiently. Hope she doesn't loose her innocence or freshness to such stuff. Bcas that is one quality of hers that drew me to be a fan.

What I feel is she did right by speaking out... But she should have done it when she was in a better state of mind without her anger at the tip of her nose..

She could have put out all the points in a better no nonsense way...

Without even actually supposedly hurting certain fans.. which she did not.. but any ways...

She should have taken some time...

I feel the anger kinda gave a wrong impression...

Cause maybe many were expecting some nice stuff in her live ... And they were kinda taken aback..

But what she did was needed.. but her approach could have been different.. she will learn.. that IGNORE is the word in Showbizz.. and tactfully approaching certain things With a calm composure and demaneour... Would help her achieve a lot and place her at ahead in this showbizz world...

Without her being questioned at all... By certain so called fans...

Originally posted by: divine_16

Yup...people do learn with time....I agree but how would you react when your parents are dragged in such disgusting things.Her mom was called....how can someone remain cool with it.The lady has made her A/c private...can u imagine at what level they stooped to make her mother take such step??She said that she is tolerating this shit for long....how much can someone ignore ....when family is dragged???

True. Every people has different approach and reaction towards situation. She decided to speak some decided to stay silent and ignore. I remember same kind of incident happened few years back. That actor remained silent and his father and gf made their respective accounts private. I will not say what actor did was wrong it was his approach and what deba did it was her.

Originally posted by: Dumpling

I would like to say ,not hiding but deciding how much you would like to reveal about your personal family on SM .I think its personal ri8 to keep things private and if someone chooses to keep it that way it should be respected and not brought it time n time again.

This is 2nd time deba had to explain it to fans to stop doing this to her .so that tells that being in celebrity shoes is not easy unless you follow Ignorance is Bliss and keep your near n dear ones away no matter what people gossip about you.

Originally posted by: mamta22

True. Every people has different approach and reaction towards situation. She decided to speak some decided to stay silent and ignore. I remember same kind of incident happened few years back. That actor remained silent and his father and gf made their respective accounts private. I will not say what actor did was wrong it was his approach and what deba did it was her.

Originally posted by: divine_16

Soumya...I agree ignorance is bliss...but how long and how far and to what extent???Can't anyone share pics. with her friends or family???She posts a pic.wearing a white hoodie and ppl comment about her wearing Vatsal dress and spending night there....seriously???She shares a reel walking the ramp on award night and Vatsal comments being a queen and he gets bashed....seriously??But they are very happy if they assume that she is wearing KV's cap....how ridiculous is that!!!

Originally posted by: Smiley3262017

That’s what I was saying Ipkk days which was 10 yrs ago SM is not this much and so not that much toxic ,but 5 years ago during ZKM days because of toxic stuff ml and fL stopped following on insta and they never used to click pics together and never used to attend parties together , even if it is team related

I don’t know how Braun and Sanaya would have handled at this time so comparison is out dated according to me ..

They don't interact with fans so closely...Sanaya has more than 2M followers on insta....I don't think they even read fans comments or dm's...better keep some distance from those things for your own sanity