A few questions on Sai - Page 2

Originally posted by: NoraSM

I am talking about a character not creatives. The forum is for discussion and there are many threads discussing various characters. I wonder why none blames all that on writers and creatives

i do...can't comment on others...i solely blame the creatives for this butchering of a jodi and characters...

i don't know what else to tell...

If you ask why can't she do all this...what's the answer....i don't find any depth in the writing or to analyze as the plot and characteristics are lame...

That one question we all ask after watching or reading every episodes but we don’t get answer,,

Sai is really going through hell in that CN house and people around her also not so interested in her,, they don’t give damn about sai or sai’s goodness they live in their own world then what is the need of living there now even virat is showing attitude so there is no point of living under one roof she shuold move out,, divorce or no as i cant say much coz the marriage was deal nd still sai has not shown that love feelings towards virat yes she is affected nd jealous sometimes but clueless about love so going away from virat is not a issue,,, but in ITV even one is going through lot of problems then also they have to live together as this is more sanskari,, on ITV FL is given long long lines on self respect but they have to bear all kind of nonsense from their in-laws as questioning their wrong doing is so not sanskari,, they will talk about concerned person’s wellbeing but will fail to tell them truth that can actually save them from evil person but nahh they will not talk directly,,, they will help and solve every other’s problems of house members but they will fail to solve their own misunderstanding/fights between husband nd wife,,, and sai is also falling into that same category of sanskari FL

Originally posted by: Athiraachu

i do...can't comment on others...i solely blame the creatives for this butchering of a jodi and characters...

i don't know what else to tell...

If you ask why can't she do all this...what's the answer....i don't find any depth in the writing or to analyze as the plot and characteristics are lame...

True that..... If u pick even one thing, then ten connecting things do not add up.... Any analysis seems like not utilising your time wisely!!

Originally posted by: NoraSM

This is about Sai

1 She said her father wouldn’t have allowed her to stay with a man who doesn’t love her or respects her then why didn’t she file for divorce? I always felt her efforts to leave have been halfhearted to give herself the assurance that she has taken a step like people do in diet, they’ll eat everything then add veggies saying vegetables means diet food. She said she wants to cut all ties with them then why not cut ties instead of same old her trying to leave then hoping Virat will stop her

2 Why didn’t she tell Samrat the truth? She didn’t attend the ritual because she knows Pakhi is lying to Samrat, She told this to Pulkit, Shivani and Virat but she never made an attempt to tell Samrat the truth, why? This truth affects him the most and she does claim that she cares about him in front of Virat but if she truly cared, wouldn’t she at least warn him Instead of lying to him repeatedly?

3 She can’t attend a ritual where the marriage is not real then when she is leaving Virat knows that Virat doesn’t respect her and abuses her, why did she perform rituals of a wife with Virat?

Why will she tell Samrat? First of all she is not Sonali or karishma Jo chugli kare. And she is not pakhi who instigates and creates drama and do character assassination. She convinced Samrat to come back and take the right decisions for himself . She told him her view of Virat s intentions and his behaviour towards Pakhi. How will she tell about Pakhi because she is not pakhi( in what sense you assume it yourself). As she herself says main dusron ki personal life mein interfere nahi karti and neither want any body intrude in her personal life .And if you view it properly you would see that she never did but it was always other way round and she never takes it on her and fights back. Moreover it is Virat and pakhi who are questionable or answerable to Samrat.

When in our childhood when we know a boy or a girl is bad in the sense they are dirty or tell lies or dullest knowingly or unknowingly we keep distance when we know we are not like them or not want to be like them. Mich michi hoti hai. She said that when Virat wanted to be friends with her. Also from the initial days of marriage she never wanted to be in between Virat and pakhi because their relationship according to her is immoral in the facade of friendship. So she never wanted pakhi to intrude her bedroom untimely and asked Virat to go out and talk. But gradually she was made to realize that the room is not hers and her marriage to Virat is a deal and she sticks to it. Pakhi in front of god she had the guts to play dirty but how would Sai see all that dirty. She could clearly see how pakhi was playing her tricks in dahi hand I and also after that. So from then she became more Mich michi towards Virat too. She did not agree to sit beside Virat during puja but she was forced by devi tai and again here she was forced by aai to perform the ritual. Her self respect is very dear to Sai but her relatioships are far more important so she told pulkit that she cannot say no if her loved ones asked her to comeback and so she wanted to take transfer to GC.

Originally posted by: jyothijssager

1. Not only hers any father who is in right frame of mind and who love their daughters , at any circumstance will not allow their dignity,their piece of heart i.e daughter to lead a life with a man who doesn't love her, disrespects her , intimidates her and also has a past for which he is lifelong committed. No way. Why divorce when she knows her marriage is not real but deal and she has to leave after her studies .Moreover as for now they have not shown but also may be to safeguard herself from Jagtap. She had nobody other than her father and usha mausi as her family so though she never said but there would definitely be craving for larger family. That we could see in initial episodes of marriage and so she could connect very early with Aai and shivani when SHE SAW AN OUNCE OF LOVE AND CARE FOR HER IN THEIR EYES . The outer personality did not matter to Sai but a person did so she cared for devi tai and mohit. Out of context of your question but first it was Virat who told pakhi that his marriage is a deal. Sai only started saying her marriage is a deal and she will leave oneday in front of everyone from PD lunch kaand. But out of courtesy too she was not granted to live her life peacefully. She never hoped Virat to stop her but she was shown happy when he did. She was always forgiving.

Why will she tell Samrat? First of all she is not Sonali or karishma Jo chugli kare. And she is not pakhi who instigates and creates drama and do character assassination. She convinced Samrat to come back and take the right decisions for himself . She told him her view of Virat s intentions and his behaviour towards Pakhi. How will she tell about Pakhi because she is not pakhi( in what sense you assume it yourself). As she herself says main dusron ki personal life mein interfere nahi karti and neither want any body intrude in her personal life .And if you view it properly you would see that she never did but it was always other way round and she never takes it on her and fights back. Moreover it is Virat and pakhi who are questionable or answerable to Samrat.

When in our childhood when we know a boy or a girl is bad in the sense they are dirty or tell lies or dullest knowingly or unknowingly we keep distance when we know we are not like them or not want to be like them. Mich michi hoti hai. She said that when Virat wanted to be friends with her. Also from the initial days of marriage she never wanted to be in between Virat and pakhi because their relationship according to her is immoral in the facade of friendship. So she never wanted pakhi to intrude her bedroom untimely and asked Virat to go out and talk. But gradually she was made to realize that the room is not hers and her marriage to Virat is a deal and she sticks to it. Pakhi in front of god she had the guts to play dirty but how would Sai see all that dirty. She could clearly see how pakhi was playing her tricks in dahi hand I and also after that. So from then she became more Mich michi towards Virat too. She did not agree to sit beside Virat during puja but she was forced by devi tai and again here she was forced by aai to perform the ritual. Her self respect is very dear to Sai but her relatioships are far more important so she told pulkit that she cannot say no if her loved ones asked her to comeback and so she wanted to take transfer to GC.

Gossip - informal talk about other people and their private lives, that is often unkind or not true

1 It is true

2 Telling Samrat is not talking about other people, it involves him and she told Virat that she is saying this to HIM because She CARES about Samrat

She already has spoken about it with Pulkit, Virat and Shivani and I think Sunny too, it didn’t involve life of these people, how come telling Samrat about HIS wife is chugli but telling everyone else about relationship between Samrat and Pakhi is not? I am sorry I don’t understand this

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

That was there, she might have wanted but she never had any such monologues. You can check in the episodes as well. We assumed she him wanted to stop back but Sai never said to anyone, not even herself that she wants Virat stop her.

I am taking your words for it as I cant really watch it again, so I have edited the post

Originally posted by: NoraSM

@Bold

Gossip - informal talk about other people and their private lives, that is often unkind or not true

1 It is true

2 Telling Samrat is not talking about other people, it involves him and she told Virat that she is saying this to HIM because She CARES about Samrat

She already has spoken about it with Pulkit, Virat and Shivani and I think Sunny too, it didn’t involve life of these people, how come telling Samrat about HIS wife is chugli but telling everyone else about relationship between Samrat and Pakhi is not? I am sorry I don’t understand this

She told Virat only when he talked about her insulting Pakhi because she denied to take a gift that she did not want to take. He got into that conversation and taunted her on not respecting someone's good will and she told clearly the will is not good here at all..

She told Shivani and Sunny because they were telling her Virat loves her and to think about that. She also told Shivani only when she was being forced to attend the puja and Virat was fighting for the same with her infront of the Shibani..She did not tell her when they were talking before Virat's entry.

She told Pulkit because Pulkit wants to know the reason of her leaving the house and also because she considers him her own and only person who would understand her situation and not just see her as someone who should think of becoming a wife to Virat because they think he loves her. And she has all the rights to atleast talk to one person about her feelings...about it all...I think everyone deserves that. She cant keep having the third woman in her life and her bedroom all the time and not talk about it to anyone when asked the reason for wanting to leave her college that she got on merit, because of hard work to leave for some random one...

She never gathered these people you mentioned around her to do the so called "chugli" . She talks about it when she is triggered. Again to Samrat she has clearly told he is smart enough to understand..Now its on Samrat whether he understands or not. She has given enough to Samrat when she informed about Virat keeping his boundaries and not answering when Samrat asked about pakhi keeping hers..

Originally posted by: NoraSM

@Bold

She already has spoken about it with Pulkit, Virat and Shivani and I think Sunny too, Telling Samrat about HIS wife is chugli but telling everyone else about relationship between Samrat and Pakhi is not? I am sorry I don’t understand this

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

She told Virat only when he talked about her insulting Pakhi because she denied to take a gift that she did not want to take. He got into that conversation and taunted her on not respecting someone's good will and she told clearly the will is not good here at all..

She told Shivani and Sunny because they were telling her Virat loves her and to think about that. She also told Shivani only when she was being forced to attend the puja and Virat was fighting for the same with her infront of the Shibani..She did not tell her when they were talking before Virat's entry.

She told Pulkit because Pulkit wants to know the reason of her leaving the house and also because she considers him her own and only person who would understand her situation and not just see her as someone who should think of becoming a wife to Virat because they think he loves her. And she has all the rights to atleast talk to one person about her feelings...about it all...I think everyone deserves that. She cant keep having the third woman in her life and her bedroom all the time and not talk about it to anyone when asked the reason for wanting to leave her college that she got on merit, because of hard work to leave for some random one...

She never gathered these people you mentioned around her to do the so called "chugli" . She talks about it when she is triggered. Again to Samrat she has clearly told he is smart enough to understand..Now its on Samrat whether he understands or not. She has given enough to Samrat when she informed about Virat keeping his boundaries and not answering when Samrat asked about pakhi keeping hers..

The definition is clear, its not a lie therefore not gossip, I never said she was gossiping, I said telling truth to Samrat is not gossip because it involves him and she claimed that she cares about him.

Originally posted by: NoraSM

The definition is clear, its not a lie therefore not gossip, I never said she was gossiping, I said telling truth to Samrat is not gossip because it involves him and she claimed that she cares about him.

I mentioned she has given him enough hints already and now it is for him to understand. Knowing what Pakhi did a year back and also seeing her all lost while she performs a Puja with him and still going after Sai for little of little things, he does not understand then that his issue. Sai has given him enough hints.