Will Sai remove the ring given by Virat? - Page 4

Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

Sadly she didn't

https://twitter.com/sairatlove/status/1441797549908656129?s=20

Umm sorry but it kind of makes me happy ⭐️

Originally posted by: Kumuda-123

Sadly she didn't

https://twitter.com/sairatlove/status/1441797549908656129?s=20

Ring wala baad mein shoot hoga??

Originally posted by: MSgayatri

can we assume that they are shooting for different things??

Ring wala baad mein shoot hoga??

It'd be good if she left a letter with something that shows her how she feels....but not sure if its really useful given that she has clearly said she thinks he only does taras/ehsaan/obligation/zimmedari on her n is still in love with pp. Virat refuses to understand WHY she feels this way n brushes it off as stubbornness n childishness, but not seeing her hurt/love/insecurity. So letter mein kya likhegi jo naya hai.... when she told devi my aabaa wouldn't want me to be with a man who has no love or respect for me, I was nodding in agreement. Virat thinks he loves her but Sai doesn't see it- but I dont see it either! i only see his ego n toxicity now. Even his hurt has evaoprated, now he is just angry. Thats it.

Love is what you really see in adversity. Love would be him being considerate to her feelings even when he is mad AF at her. Love is NOT crossing certain lines even when maybe you really really want to slap the person hard or shake sense into them. Love is not letting the person down in front of a 3rd person even when you yourself may want to scream and be sarcastic with them. I dont see that kind of love/respect from Virats end for Sai. Virat i want to see is the one who told off his family members when they tried to stop Sais college admission. Or the way he told pp, pp's family that he knows Said intentions would never be malicious when they threw a tantrum about that gift. Or who told pp off saying Sai understands me. Thats the kind of Virat I want to see. The one who is clear, righteous, and speaks up for his wife.

If Sai doesn't remove ring, then great, she is showing that something still connects her to him.

If she does remove it, I'd understand, but I'd want virat to find it after accident so he understands her mental space of having no hopes left from him/this marriage....i dont want it to be something that makes him think shes doing it deliberately. Taking that ring off if Sai does it, will be something that's the hardest thing for her. She definitely values it because virat gave it to her. And so if she takes off the ring, i want virat to understand why- rather than it being another point of contention where Virat thinks she's "nakchadi and cruel" because shes not. She cares for him more than anyone n shes put her self respect n pride aside for his sake many times. He just doesn't see it. Calling pp back when pp left, adjusting n apnaaoing the CN peeps, going to save his job despite his rude n crass behavior with her, coming to take care of him at home after GSW because hes injured despite the venom that pp n CN gang spewed at her - all of these are only some instances of her love, regard, care for him and her placing his word /his wish over her own self respect/pride/dignity. She may fight tooth n nail, be brash, but ultimately she does listen to him n value his opinion. She has never deliberately crossed him unless its been something fundamentally against her principles.

They are following KD to the letter. So no memory loss track. Sai would be once again back in the mad house within a week without getting the main issue between her and mad man addressed and the vicious cycle will start after a brief pause.

That's why she won't remove the ring as it would signal a clean break from mad man and his family.

Originally posted by: Nja91

It'd be good if she left a letter with something that shows her how she feels....but not sure if its really useful given that she has clearly said she thinks he only does taras/ehsaan/obligation/zimmedari on her n is still in love with pp. Virat refuses to understand WHY she feels this way n brushes it off as stubbornness n childishness, but not seeing her hurt/love/insecurity. So letter mein kya likhegi jo naya hai.... when she told devi my aabaa wouldn't want me to be with a man who has no love or respect for me, I was nodding in agreement. Virat thinks he loves her but Sai doesn't see it- but I dont see it either! i only see his ego n toxicity now. Even his hurt has evaoprated, now he is just angry. Thats it.

Love is what you really see in adversity. Love would be him being considerate to her feelings even when he is mad AF at her. Love is NOT crossing certain lines even when maybe you really really want to slap the person hard or shake sense into them. Love is not letting the person down in front of a 3rd person even when you yourself may want to scream and be sarcastic with them. I dont see that kind of love/respect from Virats end for Sai. Virat i want to see is the one who told off his family members when they tried to stop Sais college admission. Or the way he told pp, pp's family that he knows Said intentions would never be malicious when they threw a tantrum about that gift. Or who told pp off saying Sai understands me. Thats the kind of Virat I want to see. The one who is clear, righteous, and speaks up for his wife.

If Sai doesn't remove ring, then great, she is showing that something still connects her to him.

If she does remove it, I'd understand, but I'd want virat to find it after accident so he understands her mental space of having no hopes left from him/this marriage....i dont want it to be something that makes him think shes doing it deliberately. Taking that ring off if Sai does it, will be something that's the hardest thing for her. She definitely values it because virat gave it to her. And so if she takes off the ring, i want virat to understand why- rather than it being another point of contention where Virat thinks she's "nakchadi and cruel" because shes not. She cares for him more than anyone n shes put her self respect n pride aside for his sake many times. He just doesn't see it. Calling pp back when pp left, adjusting n apnaaoing the CN peeps, going to save his job despite his rude n crass behavior with her, coming to take care of him at home after GSW because hes injured despite the venom that pp n CN gang spewed at her - all of these are only some instances of her love, regard, care for him and her placing his word /his wish over her own self respect/pride/dignity. She may fight tooth n nail, be brash, but ultimately she does listen to him n value his opinion. She has never deliberately crossed him unless its been something fundamentally against her principles.

@bold THIS.. THIS says it all...This is why most of the FD gave up on Sairat because they did not see all this at all in Virat's love for Sai..All what is visible now is vengeance and a big Fat EGO!!

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

@bold THIS.. THIS says it all...This is why most of the FD gave up on Sairat because they did not see all this at all in Virat's love for Sai..All what is visible not is vengeance and a big Fat EGO!!

Honestly he can be "mean" or "rude" to her in private all he wants... Coz we all take liberties with those we are closes too..but theres a certain decorum he needs to uphold for the woman he claims to love in public. Virat has failed at that.

In our lives we all take certain liberty with our loved ones in private- we will go overboard n say unacceptable things but we will forget all that animosity in public n stand by them. Hum unko luch bhi bolsakte hai but koi aur nahi. Aur kisi gair ke saamne the loved one's izzat matters more than personal feud.

Virat has done that before- when he was pissed at Sai for fake death drama but in front of family, college he didnt let her down but now we see none of it. This is the time when Sai most needs that support/reassurance from him....

He can be gussa about Sai's pp jaap but when pp demeans Sai in his presence he does not nip it in the bud and ask her to STFU and GTFO. So what is Sai supposed to feel?! i thought he started to when he told pp off for bringing up Sai sleeping on floor but he diluted his own words later in that very conversation by eventually siding with pp..I really dont see his love in his actions right now. And In the past I did. In the way he celebrated Sais birthday or in his expeessions before anniversary kaand....But is it really love if it disappears just coz he doesn't think Sai reciprocates his feelings. His behavior to Sai makes it seem like Sai was just his rebound n because Sai hurt him/rejected him he has now decided to move on n also get angry/punish her for her "brashness" n discipline her because hes her guardian. Until he felt rejected it was this very brashness that he appreciated n loved as the simple straightforwardness, righteousness n he could see the real Sai..but the minute he feels rejected he no longer sees Sai as Sai. Now all he sees is her "crossing limits" and "being nakchadi" . It was so easy for him to consider abandoning her n apply for a transfer without caring 2 hoots about how Sai would stay in CN in his absence given that everyone knows its a deal marriage- just coz he perceived that she rejected him he took a step like that n he didnt care how Sai would perceive it.

Just wanted to say I miss your posts a lot, but I can totally understand why you wouldn’t want to write them 🥺

Originally posted by: archanan14

Just wanted to say I miss your posts a lot, but I can totally understand why you wouldn’t want to write them 🥺

Aww. So sweet n flattering to see people mention that they look forward to posts! I am still posting. But last 2 epi really had nothing to review ! Lol. Hopefully they will give us some progress in story....

Originally posted by: Nja91

Honestly he can be "mean" or "rude" to her in private all he wants... Coz we all take liberties with those we are closes too..but theres a certain decorum he needs to uphold for the woman he claims to love in public. Virat has failed at that.

In our lives we all take certain liberty with our loved ones in private- we will go overboard n say unacceptable things but we will forget all that animosity in public n stand by them. Hum unko luch bhi bolsakte hai but koi aur nahi. Aur kisi gair ke saamne the loved one's izzat matters more than personal feud.

Virat has done that before- when he was pissed at Sai for fake death drama but in front of family, college he didnt let her down but now we see none of it. This is the time when Sai most needs that support/reassurance from him....

He can be gussa about Sai's pp jaap but when pp demeans Sai in his presence he does not nip it in the bud and ask her to STFU and GTFO. So what is Sai supposed to feel?! i thought he started to when he told pp off for bringing up Sai sleeping on floor but he diluted his own words later in that very conversation by eventually siding with pp..I really dont see his love in his actions right now. And In the past I did. In the way he celebrated Sais birthday or in his expeessions before anniversary kaand....But is it really love if it disappears just coz he doesn't think Sai reciprocates his feelings. His behavior to Sai makes it seem like Sai was just his rebound n because Sai hurt him/rejected him he has now decided to move on n also get angry/punish her for her "brashness" n discipline her because hes her guardian. Until he felt rejected it was this very brashness that he appreciated n loved as the simple straightforwardness, righteousness n he could see the real Sai..but the minute he feels rejected he no longer sees Sai as Sai. Now all he sees is her "crossing limits" and "being nakchadi" . It was so easy for him to consider abandoning her n apply for a transfer without caring 2 hoots about how Sai would stay in CN in his absence given that everyone knows its a deal marriage- just coz he perceived that she rejected him he took a step like that n he didnt care how Sai would perceive it.

I have maintained since the ousting episodes that what he has for Sai is not love...Because in the worst times, in the worst phase of their relationship, he lets people instigate him, demean Sai, disrespect her , abuse her, harass her and he also joins the bandwagon..He gets abusive and physical with her.. Yes you get angry at your partners and you want to pull their hair out or yours..But you do not let anyone, let alone your ex interfere or insult your person...He did it for Sai during fake death, but he was in good relationship with her, he was not angry at her...When he is angry at her, when they are not at their best phase, he lets anybody and everybody crumple Sai and her self respect...along with doing it himself...Today he said Sai did not deserve the love and pampering she got from her Aaba..Saying it for the man who was his mentor and who is no more because he wanted him to live...Saying it for his daughter who is now an orphan , who never had anybody else to call her own..😭