Manhandle!! - Page 3

Its not about genders..in my opinion its not about a man versus woman or I understand Pallu because I am a woman..but I am also an earning member of my family..I also get where Raghav is coming from..its survival of the fittest in this world.

You start of with ideals and morals that you learn from books and values..they are a needed foundation but life and world is not ideal...u learn that pretty fast!!

All i m saying is if one uses harsh words other uses harsh actions..both deserve each other!!

Check out one of my responses here..I would have walked out..simple!!

And its a marriage, chalo shaadi chhodo..u too must have fought with siblings, parents, friends in real life...u do know what happens!! When we get hurt, we get mad and when we get angry we retaliate with words that are by no means true or meant!!

Pallavi is reacting in her way, Raghav in his way!!

He seems self-destructive, on the edge!! His pain is overflowing. If the words are hurting Pallavi, her actions are killing Raghav!! Everytime he looks at her he sees her clothes, a constant reminder that he is not taking care of his Pallu, not keeping her happy, notpampering or spoiling her like he has always desperately wanted to. Everytime he sees her eating the food..usske gale se khana nahin utarta..how can he eat good food when his love is barely feeding herself. I bet the food tastes like ashes..his house feels like ruins and his whole life's hard work, an empty waste!!

This ⬆️ 👏👏👏👏

But I wanna know what did you mean by Daal mein kuchh kala hai ???

Originally posted by: AnushkhaA

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Ahhh... I would think you should reconsider that.. 😅😅😅 considering she practically hit him with a broom in front of everyone. Agreed that was dor comic relief... still I don't think it was a very prudent thing to do. She let her so called family trample all over him many a times... yes she stopped Vijay Deshmukh when it went out of limits... but before that she didn't bother. I don't think anyone has ever got slapped so many times as Raghav has.. from Vijay, from Sharda... from Pallavi herself. Okay... Pallavi I understand. He deserved that. But the rest.. i don't think so.

And as far as respect goes. What others think is of least consequence.. to Raghav I mean. From his perspective. But what Pallavi thinks is important. And I am not saying that Raghav hasn't ever insulted her or not... but basically the entire plot line circling around Raghav and Pallavi's relationship is damn f**ked up if you look closely.

Rest I agree with you. The man shouldn't keep speaking whatever comes to his mouth in front of anyone.

I won't argue on the broom incident coz I didn't find it hilarious specially when the servants were watching. I've always loved our show keeping their fights private instead of it being an aangan or bazaar business (barring few odd instances).

She has always supported Raghav before D family despite the circumstances of their relationship at that point in time. Before the redemption, things weren't as polarizing as they are today. So a comparison to the past may not be correct.

Again slaps should never be an answer. I don't even agree with the slaps given by Raghav or Amma to Keerti but that's like digressing from the main topic.

Yes both are right and both are wrong. Actually more than their perspectives they aren't able to sit and explain to the other the issues to arrive at a common ground.

Unfortunately instead of taking the difficult path of communication, the makers are taking the easy route of NDEs to drive across the point. This is a stupid way to address the issues. It looks to be a bandaid solution atm.

On topic, while I still feel he's at a bigger fault, I am glad to hear Raghav's perspective coz I was definitely judging him harshly due to my own prejudices. Tomorrow is another day and I may react differently 🤣 (feeling like a ping pong rn).

Originally posted by: eveline

This, actually almost every single one of my posts, is dedicated to MHRW99..meri kamini BTS dost! ❤️ Honestly if she was not around, you guys would have been spared numerous tortures 🤣!!

Lately I have been feeling like a child, jisske mummy daddy ladne mein itne busy hain ke kissine homework kiya..yeh tak nahin puchcha!! We all feel like anaaths, orphans !! I promise its getting harder!! Newton's law totally taking over...action and reaction are equal and opposite!! The more I try to make u guys laugh, the more Raghav and Pallavi sponsor water works!! Paaglo..ab rulaoge kya!!

Opening...Pallu ..sigh..if only you caress your hubby with such love and emotion..india-pakistan mein shanti ki lehar daud jaati!!

And then enters Dev D or Talli Taandav or Bewada Barood, whatever you like to call him!! I just read that The Alcoholic Beverages Association of Hyderabad is going to honor Raghav as their most valued customer. Ek akela banda saari daaru industry ko single handedly sponsor kar raha hai!! And within a few months..The Saving Liver Association of Doctors will honor him for being their biggest patient...samaaj seva!!

And what he says next is the living proof..that the 1000s of pages and hours we have spent here making fools of ourselves, khaaing family ki gaaliyan, and trying to prove to ourselves and the world that we are not paagals.. is not wasted...they are listening!! Seriously, forum waasio..if only we had made some copyrights on our discussions..sicku jail mein chakki peesing and peesing!!

So Raghav becomes our official spokesperson and Pallavi becomes officially speechless!! Aaj main bolunga..khaak bolega...bolega toh tab jab do minute khada reh paaega..I just realized that its really hard to fight with someone when u are lying down..or falling down!! Hows the Josh?? Leta hai Sir!! 😆

And he says it all!! He could have said plenty and plenty more!! Statutory Warning..It gets serious from here...Its written in bold so the ones not interested can take a bypass..

Words vs actions..what is more hurtful!? Today the forum is an uproar about Raghav's words and tomorrow it will be worse. As hard as it is to believe..I love them both!! So if you can please spare me your graciousness and patience and trust..I will just say a few things:

Yes, he uses harsh words..he always has!! And we all know that!! But Pallavi uses harsher actions!! Today and for the last few episodes I see a man who is drinking himself to oblivion. He seems self-destructive, on the edge!! His pain is overflowing. If the words are hurting Pallavi, her actions are killing Raghav!! Everytime he looks at her he sees her clothes, a constant reminder that he is not taking care of his Pallu, not keeping her happy, not pampering or spoiling her like he has always desperately wanted to. Everytime he sees her eating the food..usske gale se khana nahin utarta..how can he eat good food when his love is barely feeding herself. I bet the food tastes like ashes..his house feels like ruins and his whole life's hard work, an empty waste!!

One word that has stuck with me through these episodes..Raghav Rao is a loser!! And he said it himself!! In essence Pallavi's actions are negating his life's hardwork, his struggles, sacrifices and success!! She is killing the man's honor, pride and dignity!! And if you have men in your lives..be it father or husband or in any role..u do know what it means to them..right??!!

In spite of everything, he did not call her employer cause he can't hurt her..simple!! And loving Pallavi has been the hardest thing in his life..it has torn him apart, shredded his esteem, broken his confidence to bits, tested his patience to the limit and made him an object of ridicule in the eyes of near and dear one...if he says that loving her has been a mistake..is he wrong in this context and scenario?? I know we have quite a few married friends here..just ask them about fights in a marriage..contrary to belief..the fights are massive and ugly!! These words are meant to hurt!!

Pallavi is not wrong, never was but I feel that the way she is going about this is not right!! And Raghav is wrong..whatever the justification, the reason, the whole world does the same argument.. does not change one simple fact..what is wrong is wrong!! But in her place if my man is suffering like this..if he is in so much pain..if my marriage is at a point of no return..I would reconsider my stand!! There are better and less confrontational ways of handling this..but again..she is a puppet in the cvs hands and a fictional character ..main bhi kahaan phasi!!

Coming back to the dynamic duo..Raghav is back to his daily jaap..Don't touch me..Pallu ne toh kabhi nahin kaha par yeh chui mui ki kami puri karke rahega...role reversal!! Me thinks daal mein something black!! Or is it beacuse if she touches you, you will lose yourself..you won't be able to stay angry with her or you will melt or you will happily surrender your hathiyaar..hmm!! 😈

What had me hooting with laughter was his word..manhandle!! Wohi toh problem hai..yeh man hai jo kissi se handle nahin hota!! And Pallavi..bechari aaj kal Saatvik Ahaar pe hain..iss piye huye pahaad ko kya kar legi!! Actually not a bad idea..Pallu try n assault the guy..I still remember his reaction when he woke up without his clothes..haay woh bhi kya din they smuggling toh kya, office jaana hi chhod dega...

And he passes out again..and my mind goes...ab Pallu kahaan soyegi?? Pura bed hathiya liya..maybe she should sleep on him like he did a few months back..🤣..!! Insaaf ki pukaar..tit for tat and Pallu letofy on that!!

Farhaad should get the Paramvir Chakra for the bravest employee..kya idea hai..poke the boss in the eye to make sure he is not dead!! May be I should try that with my boss....just checking whether u r human or not!! And Raghav's hat na..was epic!! Kahaan banda was hoping for a red saree wali mrignayani and kahaan samne khada tha suit wala bhoot!! And his very first thought...Pallu!! Ab bolo..jitna gussa aaya tha is idiot par..sab utar gaya..isski daaru ki tarah!!

And the way he runs..honestly..iss ko olympics mein bhejo!! Ek aur medal pakka..of course finishing line pe Pallavi khada hona mangta.. bronze mila toh chumma, silver mila toh rain sequence aur gold mila toh..waah kya intelligent log hai!! Iss mamle mein never have to finish my sentence!! 🤣

So the guy is now drinking in the day too..Pallu darling ..Hyderabad ka Don, pee pee ke ban jayega Hum Aapke Hain Kaun??

And he doesnt want her congratulations ?? Theek Pallavi..give him your strangulations!!

500 crores..200 crores..seriously?? I would have finished this..truly..but I m still counting the zeroes..ek..do..teen..chaar..kal ka din emosional atyachaar..panch chhe saat ..tissue box ab rakhna saath..aanth nau dus..meri bakwaas hui bus!!

P.S..I know I might have offended a few friends by stating my pov but maaf kar do yaar..just being my crazy, moohfatt self!!

And this is really important... friends you respond with so much appreciation and love on many of my posts but due to the fact that I don't follow India time and certain responsibilities and limitations, I am.unable to respond, but trust me I read each and every word. Thanks a ton ..words are not enough 🤗

I just loved what u have written..and agree with u..

U know at the beginning of the track, I felt pallavi's intentions were to stop him from doing unlawful activities and felt she is absolutely right, but yesterday's episode it looked like wants to change him , not his unlawful ways of doing business which I am completely against...

Raghab rao though flawed is a gem of a person, always giving and forgiving, he has supported and stood by her throughout her stay at d house for her aai baba ka beta...he took all the insults VD kept throwing at him just for her and still paid hospital bills, promised to take care of him and the d family for pallavi's happiness yet still she wants him to change, why ? just because he is not the way she wants him to be is beyond my comprehension...

Where is the love she claims to have for him when she cannot accept him the way he is ..Yes as wide nothing wrong him in asking to stop doing things which land his family and him in trouble..but there is no need for raghav 2.O... Raghav 1.O with little change the way he does his business is what is needed...

Pallavi seeing him gulp alcohol and still just thinking I need to be strict so that he changes , at this pace he will damage his liver,.when the man himself will not be, what will she do by changing him..

She has to find some other ways of dealing with him, because clearly her way is pushing him to self destruction and doing nothing good to him...he is not able to understand her POV, by just proving or trying to prove his ideology wrong, she is actually pushing him to take wrong steps which will lead to disaster and then blame him, and let him rot him guilt ..not done ..he doesn't deserve this...

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Hey eve! I have a pretty bad suggestion 😆

Change your title from manhandle to handle your man... seems more suitable 🤣🤣🤣

Daal mein kaala..🤣 Arrey yaar that was for Raghav's don't touch me statement that he keeps on repeating each night. I don't think he is saying it because he is angry, he is saying it for different reasons..the reasons are written on the post!!

Originally posted by: eveline

Its not about genders..in my opinion its not about a man versus woman or I understand Pallu because I am a woman..but I am also an earning member of my family..I also get where Raghav is coming from..its survival of the fittest in this world.

You start of with ideals and morals that you learn from books and values..they are a needed foundation but life and world is not ideal...u learn that pretty fast!!

All i m saying is if one uses harsh words other uses harsh actions..both deserve each other!!

I am also an earning member of my house but not the sole provider. Plus again, my ideology with respect to money is more aligned with Pallavi (it was with R earlier but due to circumstances my thought process has changed now). It's not just the gender aspect that makes me more biased to P.

Like I said in my subsequent posts that I can let everything he said to date slide coz I've seen worse fights in my house due to anger issues and alcohol. My beef here is only with her being asked to leave. That struck a chord badly with me. She was thrown out of the D house and she never ever forgot that. That's a line he should not have crossed coz he has a happy home today because of Pallavi.

I was really happy when the makers didn't let R throw his money being used by her on her face (as per promo) and she alone decided to not use it but the precap is not sitting well with me. Again, the gender comes in the picture here because it is so easy for a man to ask his wife to leave his house. It should not be. I'm sure the man is going to repent and cry and we'll shed more tears than him but still.

My thoughts are all over the place but I hope I was able to put forth some of them coherently.

Both Pallavi and Raghav do not know how to handle each other. When raghav is hurt, angry, in pain, he drowns in alcohol. And Pallavi uses her strict and harsh techniques.

I think raghav speaks the truth when drunk, ghrte is no filter, and when he said today loving Pallavi was his biggest mistake, I think in context that the love is punishing, hurting, killing him from inside, thats why falling in love its a mistake, otherwise he would have been in this much of pain. Love gives Pain.

Pallavi wants Raghav to stop his illegal business, now of course it's off track, but her actions are not fruitful, cause instead of teaching him, its hurting him. He loves her too much to see her in any difficulty.

His longing for her, he needs her, he wants her, hence the dream. He is suppressing all his pain in alcohol.

They way he ran to get her in the morning, I did not seem to stop her, but likely to apologize for last night. But she was also hurt, hence left in rickshaw. But she doesn't know, when she leaves him such, he is a mess, he can take it, it hurts him, hence again suppressing his pain with alcohol.

Both do not know how to handle each other nor understand each other. This is writers flaw for me, cause the essence of track is lost now. It was right vs wrong, not ego vs money.

One thing I am very firm on..no compromises on self respect or dignity..be it Pallavi's or Raghav's!! If tomorrow he asks her to leave..I would love Pallavi to walk out on him and let him stew in his own acids!!

There are some boundaries no one should cross..but I m talking about today and it seems the forum is hell bent on reacting about tomorrow 🤣