Is this love? In which planet? - Page 7

Originally posted by: Simmi988

I’m not saying he is making best decisions

but he is in a difficult situation with no support whatsoever

Pakhi, Kaku etc may taunt Sai but Samrat, Pulkit and Devi support her openly

who does that for Virat? Please don’t say Pakhi. She supports him one minute and then taunts him. Her support is not genuine

Kaku was supporting him despite he locked up Sai.. in fact, except Pulkit and Samrat everybody supported him, there are plenty of ways to approach conflict in a civilized manner.. he isn’t choosing any of those. Instead he goes out of control and then comes to his senses and says sorry.

He has his mom n dad.. he can go approach them n speak, which he never does.

He did not even do good by his brother and tell him the truth that Pakhi hasn’t moved on.. she was begging him to accept him just the other day in the cafe.

I would never say that Sai is flawless or doesn’t make any mistakes, it doesn’t mean that she can be mentally harassed, abused etc.

Mental harassment is happening both ways and so I’ll not comment on that

As for help, it’s not always easy to seek it. That’s why someone like Samrat or Shivani should talk to him instead of lecturing him nonstop and supporting Sai without understanding Virat

Originally posted by: Simmi988

That was insensitive

If I support Sai, I’m a genuine person. If I support Virat, I am naive or arrogant

actually i see that in Sai. She is always right. Anyone who support her is good, everyone else if pathetic

Virat is being nothing but abusive at this moment and it’s hard to believe anyone would support such behavior regardless of how much they like a character. Yes Sai doesn’t believe him and refuses to show him her feelings but does that justify for him to be as harmful as he’s being right now?? Does it give him the right to mistreat, insult and mentally harass her. It doesn’t so Virat shouldn’t be supported right now is all I’m saying. It’s hard for me to understand how you can turn blind eye to his behavior. He has done everything in the book to qualify as an abusive spouse. If she decides to file a complaint against him na he stands no chance. Sai can be hard to live, she can be annoying, impulsive but none of that gives him the right to abuse her both mentally and physically.

Originally posted by: Simmi988

Mental harassment is happening both ways and so I’ll not comment on that

As for help, it’s not always easy to seek it. That’s why someone like Samrat or Shivani should talk to him instead of lecturing him nonstop and supporting Sai without understanding Virat

I wouldn’t want Samrat to help him in anyways after Virat not being true after the cafe incident. Shivani is useless.

Sunny must come through as usual.

I wished Sai never stopped his transfer, a break from each other would have done good for both and all these manhandling, locking up incidents could have been avoided.

As I mentioned in another post, I’m not saying Virat is making the best decisions

All I’m am trying to say is he is also a victim of circumstances. I’m sure he did not ask for such a life when he graduated and became an IPS officer an year ago. Look at sunny who is same age as Virat. His life is simple n happy. Virat doesn’t have a peaceful moment

I’m not saying it’s because of Sai. Virat did not ask for an obsessive lover like Paki either

all I am saying is things are not easy for him either. He needs support and help but no one is doing that

can’t someone like Samrat just give him a hug and let him cry? He needs to an outlet

Don’t you agree?

Originally posted by: Simmi988

What should Virat do to convince Sai? Talking is obvynot helping as she is hell bent on misunderstanding him

Let Sai see that he has no ties with Pakhi firstly, let Sai believe that she can depend on her guardian to take her stand.

The day this happens I will definitely describe the next stages but as we can see this is something that is never going to happen, why waste time and energy into writing down how Virat should convince, because he doesn't wanna convince.

The accident track previously showed how easy it is to manao Sai, he just needs to come clear with his emotions, but his ego can't handle that.

Pakhi is beyond Virat’s control. She is obsessed and will not stop no matter what Virat does

and if she forgets him for a moment, Sai will say something to bring her back into the convo

in Sai’s own words: uska astitva mit sakta hai but she will not get over Pakhi

Originally posted by: Simmi988

Pakhi is beyond Virat’s control. She is obsessed and will not stop no matter what Virat does

and if she forgets him for a moment, Sai will say something to bring her back into the convo

in Sai’s own words: uska astitva mit sakta hai but she will not get over Pakhi

How about stop speaking to Pakhi. Stop giving her any kind of importance? How about revealing the truth to Samrat and let him decide on his marriage?
How about call her Vahini and put an end to this whole ugly mess?

Until he cuts all the ties, she will remain tethered to him and haunt him and his marriage.

Originally posted by: Simmi988

Pakhi is beyond Virat’s control. She is obsessed and will not stop no matter what Virat does

and if she forgets him for a moment, Sai will say something to bring her back into the convo

in Sai’s own words: uska astitva mit sakta hai but she will not get over Pakhi

Also what Sai said was that Pakhi will never get out from their relationship, not that she won't get over her. It is Virat who has initially brought her in the middle of it, so it is Virat who can throw her out too.

When Virat backed her or atleast gave a slightest hint that she is his wife she did exercise her rights as his wife too. But the efforts has to be both sided and vocal, we can't expect them to understand evrything mentally.

Pakhi needs to go, and only Virat can do that. Period.

Virat needs to take a stand against Pakhi whether or not Sai accepts his love. Pakhi behaviour is downright cruel and nasty. And Pakhi was mean even towards Devi today ...yet he kept quiet. Forget Sai, what has Devi done to him??