Is this love? In which planet? - Page 5

Originally posted by: Sudharies

I agree. Can't expect one person to be mature all the time. All have their own low and worse phases. Not forgetting that. I'm not a biased fan to never see the reasons behind Virat's actions. I try to understand them both always. And I understand Virat as well. His biggest issue with Sai, is that she thinks she's always right and never listens to others or other's side of story. That's actually true to a certain extent. Even Sai said the other day, I've always been stubborn and rude, but you weren't like this and why are you behaving like this now. So she acknowledges that she is stubborn in nature. But when the stubbornness starts turning into hatred then that's not right. When he started out being indifferent it was fine, as he was hurt and he needed to keep distance from her, to protect his heart. But now his current behaviour shouts out hatred and anger more than indifference. And above all, when he supports Pakhi when she's been talked back and he chooses to be a mute spectator when Sai is on the receiving end, he comes across as an arrogant a-hole only. Well it's my POV, so better we agree to disagree.

Absolutely true.. as long as he was indifferent it was ok, but inflicting pain is totally wrong. I understand he is hurt.. that doesn’t give him the right to hurt her. The whole track has been a drag fest.. SaiRat will be the ultimate game no matter what we want.. I hope that they would clarify Pakhi issue and vaada crap before the confession at the least.

Originally posted by: Simmi988

Virat has clarified his past to Sai many times. He just did it again yesterday. If she doesn’t believe, what can he do

Also, Virat never teamed with Pakhi. He never talks to her alone. He has never planned anything

you all are also stuck in his past just like Sai. Whatever Virat does you will not move on

People are entitled to have opinions, and nobody is allowed to question or insult that.

Originally posted by: tptwi

love is what VIRAKHI have 🤗

It's actually makes so much sense.

Like the way she only wants him or him putting her respect above everything & crying kya iss baar bhi mera pyaar adhura reh jaayega

It's actually love .what is love of not the unconditional support they have for each other

Originally posted by: AnjuRish

From my own personal experiences in life let me try and explain how I view love

Love without respect is dangerous, it can crush the other person mercilessly sometimes literally. To respect your partner means to remember that they are not your puppet, your extension but a living breathing person with a mind desires and beliefs of their own

Love should incl respect, ability to give your partner space and agree to disagree on aspects.

Can we live without love ? Maybe yes but can we live without respect from loved ones ? Definately no

I just read unr post Lakshmi and saw couple of clips ..sai on verge of clinical depression ..I know ITV may not handle this with sensitivity.

Most may know I am a solo Sai stan ..but I feel more her and to a certain extent Sam. I have been trying to refrain from commenting since I may come across bitter since I view this from a real life angle and not as itv.

This is just a ITV so one may feel sympathy for ML , but in real life no one can live without respect

Every human has a right to live with respect but respect ka copyright sirf ek insaan ka nhi ho sakta .

Yes people like to sympathise with frictional character but whatever is shown on tv will never sympathized or tolerated in real life .

As in real life people don't tolerate nonsense

Originally posted by: Amor_fati

Absolutely true.. as long as he was indifferent it was ok, but inflicting pain is totally wrong. I understand he is hurt.. that doesn’t give him the right to hurt her. The whole track has been a drag fest.. SaiRat will be the ultimate game no matter what we want.. I hope that they would clarify Pakhi issue and vaada crap before the confession at the least.

Exactly now the least they can do is clean up the mess that is been left behind

Pain is not just physical

everyone is inflicting a lot of psychological and emotional pain in Virat too

Originally posted by: laksh

I think that taunt was for the family. I agree that there are people who support Sai too but the problem is that whoever is ruling the house or whoever’s words are final in the house, they all support Pakhi. The problem is not even that they support Pakhi, her problem is that she or Ashwini always gets put down or receives taunts. Even if Shivani or someone speaks, they get stopped by Kaku. When a person does work and they don’t get the credit for it, it feels bad. I agree that Sai goes out, but she does so much of work and goes to college. And if not for anything, they can spare her some torture right? They have never pitied that the girl wakes up so early in the morning and does all the work then goes to college. If Pakhi cooks one day, she gets all the praise. If it happens in school or college or even work, a person can get disturbed or upset because of it.

Also, even if Sai leaves, Pakhi has poked in her matters or even drags the matter, tries to instigate people against her. Such things becomes very difficult to handle for a person. Had Pakhi not done these, I am not sure how much of jealousy would have been a reason for Sai to have issues with Pakhi. Pakhi tries to show Sai in bad light in front of Virat too as she did in the room.

So I really doubt that Pakhi is a competition for Sai but Pakhi has turned their relationship so bitter because of her own jealousy that things look so bad now. If one constantly acts bitter with a person, what would they do? Some people ignore them but the nature of Sai is not that. She is a person who gives it back abs hence gives back to Pakhi. If Pakhi was nice to her, she would also be nice to her irrespective of whether Virat and Pakhi shared a past or not.

Pakhi ka issue alag hai, mai jo bol rahi hu wo alag hai Sai ki life me bahut log hai, Pakhi ka limited hai to merko samajh ata hai ki Pakhi kyo apna life bana li hai Sai ko lekin sai ko inse fark nahi padna chahiye. Ye log abuse karte hain to educated woman hone ke nate uske pas har legal method available hai

Aur Sai ko Pakhi se pahle se problem thi, shuru ke episode dekh lo, Pakhi ache se behave ki fir bhi sai usse rudely hi bat karti thi to aisa nahi hai ki wo pakhi se nice hoti agar ye sab nahi hota to

Ye nahi bol rahi ki Pakhi achi hai 😆lekin discussion Sai pe hai isliye sai ke bare me bol rahi hu

Glad you can see Virat’s emotional pain but do open your eyes how sai’s been suffering both emotionally and physically but no you want her to take everything lying down while justifying virat’s action for bearing fraction of what she has undergone.

Originally posted by: Simmi988

I don’t support everything that Virat did but I understand him and it upsets me that people always bash him and expect him to do things for Sai but not the other way around

what has Sai done for Virat? Please don’t tell me she saved Devi tai or Shivani. She did it because she was fond of them

people want Virat to do everything for Sai and not expect anything back. Virat is her husband not a parent

I can understand your frustration. I like Virat too, mostly coz Neil is playing it. So I totally get that, it can be upsetting when they're bashed.

But the track is progressing that way, Virat is shown in a bad light. His attitude towards Sai is bothersome.

No Sai hasn't done anything for him in particular. They've both been through a lot since their marriage, tried to be there for each other like a couple. Virat expects her to understand his feelings the problem is Sai doesn't even understand that he has any expectations from her. Not in a romantic way. She's still in her own assumptions, and Virat hasn't made that clear enough for her, means it's not her fault. Only if she understands that, she can either reciprocate or do something else for him in return. Sai doesn't think of him as her parent, but she considers him as her only family. And family won't behave this way with each other.

Originally posted by: Simmi988

Pain is not just physical

everyone is inflicting a lot of psychological and emotional pain in Virat too

I agree.. that doesn’t give him the license to inflict pain upon others. He needs support, a good one.. must open up to someone and get emotional support. His plan to stay away and be indifferent was ok.. but not this manhandling and locking up etc.. he is an IPS officer and must behave responsibly.