Is this love? In which planet? - Page 4

You can’t expect Virat to be the mature one all the time

he is a human. Why does everyone forget that

From my own personal experiences in life let me try and explain how I view love

Love without respect is dangerous, it can crush the other person mercilessly sometimes literally. To respect your partner means to remember that they are not your puppet, your extension but a living breathing person with a mind desires and beliefs of their own

Love should incl respect, ability to give your partner space and agree to disagree on aspects.

Can we live without love ? Maybe yes but can we live without respect from loved ones ? Definately no

I just read unr post Lakshmi and saw couple of clips ..sai on verge of clinical depression ..I know ITV may not handle this with sensitivity.

Most may know I am a solo Sai stan ..but I feel more her and to a certain extent Sam. I have been trying to refrain from commenting since I may come across bitter since I view this from a real life angle and not as itv.

This is just a ITV so one may feel sympathy for ML , but in real life no one can live without respect

Originally posted by: laksh

I agree. Sai pointed out that the family never praises her or Ashwini when they make them food. She called out their double standard behaviour that they praise only their favourite bahu. If you look at it, she didn’t scold Pakhi but was telling the family how they never have given credit to her or Ashwini.

Ashwini doesn’t have a voice, otherwise she would have also said that Kaku only praises Sonali or Pakhi but not her or Sai.

Taunt to pakhi ke liye hi tha na 😅 sai ke jo team wale hain wo hamesha usko praise karte hain, Samrat bola ki wo wapas aya pakhi ke liye aur ruka bhi pakhi ke liye lekin koi nahi bolta ki pakhi ki wajah se family khush hai, sab bolte hai ki Sai ke karan family khush hai, sai ko to hamesha hi praise kiya jata hai ki sab lucky hai ki sai jaisi DIL mili 😆 Trimurti me se ninad bhi ab praise karta hai kuch log nahi karte aur wo to negative characters hain...sonali jaise log jo fights se entertainment lete hai jo bhi ho usme....

fir sai ki life ghar tak ya khana banane tak limited nahi hai uski ek life hai apne college me jaha wo apne college ki best student hai, ek life hai apne friends ke sath jaha apne friends ki favorite hai...pakhi aur Karishma ka aisa nahi hai un log ka life ghar tak limited hai..

mere according, sai ko in logo se utna matlab nahi hona chahiye kyunki uske pas bahut kuch hai sochne ko...lekin wo virat ko apna life ka center Bana kar usme pakhi ke sath ek competition me lagi hai aur khudko neeche kar deti hai...

This is love in Ghum planet

Originally posted by: AnjuRish

From my own personal experiences in life let me try and explain how I view love

Love without respect is dangerous, it can crush the other person mercilessly sometimes literally. To respect your partner means to remember that they are not your puppet, your extension but a living breathing person with a mind desires and beliefs of their own

Love should incl respect, ability to give your partner space and agree to disagree on aspects.

Can we live without love ? Maybe yes but can we live without respect from loved ones ? Definately no

I just read unr post Lakshmi and saw couple of clips ..sai on verge of clinical depression ..I know ITV may not handle this with sensitivity.

Most may know I am a solo Sai stan ..but I feel more her and to a certain extent Sam. I have been trying to refrain from commenting since I may come across bitter since I view this from a real life angle and not as itv.

This is just a ITV so one may feel sympathy for ML , but in real life no one can live without respect

Sorry forgot to tag bbfan

He never loved Sai

He using Sai so Pakhi can move with Samrat though he is madly in love with Pakhi

Originally posted by: Simmi988

You can’t expect Virat to be the mature one all the time

he is a human. Why does everyone forget that

I agree. Can't expect one person to be mature all the time. All have their own low and worse phases. Not forgetting that. I'm not a biased fan to never see the reasons behind Virat's actions. I try to understand them both always. And I understand Virat as well. His biggest issue with Sai, is that she thinks she's always right and never listens to others or other's side of story. That's actually true to a certain extent. Even Sai said the other day, I've always been stubborn and rude, but you weren't like this and why are you behaving like this now. So she acknowledges that she is stubborn in nature. But when the stubbornness starts turning into hatred then that's not right. When he started out being indifferent it was fine, as he was hurt and he needed to keep distance from her, to protect his heart. But now his current behaviour shouts out hatred and anger more than indifference. And above all, when he supports Pakhi when she's been talked back and he chooses to be a mute spectator when Sai is on the receiving end, he comes across as an arrogant a-hole only. Well it's my POV, so better we agree to disagree.

Originally posted by: QNefertiti

Taunt to pakhi ke liye hi tha na 😅 sai ke jo team wale hain wo hamesha usko praise karte hain, Samrat bola ki wo wapas aya pakhi ke liye aur ruka bhi pakhi ke liye lekin koi nahi bolta ki pakhi ki wajah se family khush hai, sab bolte hai ki Sai ke karan family khush hai, sai ko to hamesha hi praise kiya jata hai ki sab lucky hai ki sai jaisi DIL mili 😆 Trimurti me se ninad bhi ab praise karta hai kuch log nahi karte aur wo to negative characters hain...sonali jaise log jo fights se entertainment lete hai jo bhi ho usme....

fir sai ki life ghar tak ya khana banane tak limited nahi hai uski ek life hai apne college me jaha wo apne college ki best student hai, ek life hai apne friends ke sath jaha apne friends ki favorite hai...pakhi aur Karishma ka aisa nahi hai un log ka life ghar tak limited hai..

mere according, sai ko in logo se utna matlab nahi hona chahiye kyunki uske pas bahut kuch hai sochne ko...lekin wo virat ko apna life ka center Bana kar usme pakhi ke sath ek competition me lagi hai aur khudko neeche kar deti hai...

I think that taunt was for the family. I agree that there are people who support Sai too but the problem is that whoever is ruling the house or whoever’s words are final in the house, they all support Pakhi. The problem is not even that they support Pakhi, her problem is that she or Ashwini always gets put down or receives taunts. Even if Shivani or someone speaks, they get stopped by Kaku. When a person does work and they don’t get the credit for it, it feels bad. I agree that Sai goes out, but she does so much of work and goes to college. And if not for anything, they can spare her some torture right? They have never pitied that the girl wakes up so early in the morning and does all the work then goes to college. If Pakhi cooks one day, she gets all the praise. If it happens in school or college or even work, a person can get disturbed or upset because of it.

Also, even if Sai leaves, Pakhi has poked in her matters or even drags the matter, tries to instigate people against her. Such things becomes very difficult to handle for a person. Had Pakhi not done these, I am not sure how much of jealousy would have been a reason for Sai to have issues with Pakhi. Pakhi tries to show Sai in bad light in front of Virat too as she did in the room.

So I really doubt that Pakhi is a competition for Sai but Pakhi has turned their relationship so bitter because of her own jealousy that things look so bad now. If one constantly acts bitter with a person, what would they do? Some people ignore them but the nature of Sai is not that. She is a person who gives it back abs hence gives back to Pakhi. If Pakhi was nice to her, she would also be nice to her irrespective of whether Virat and Pakhi shared a past or not.

Originally posted by: laksh

The person whom we love keeps getting insulted, getting taunted, we will shut our mouth always?

The person whom we love gets support from another person and we will find them to be wrong?

Who will feel bad or support their past and mock at the person whom they call as their love?

What nonsense.

What Pakhi spoke all the while was okay but Sai giving back was overreacting?

And he also thinks that Kaku was right in stopping Devi since she was wrong in the way she was talking to Pakhi?

What about the way Pakhi was talking to Sai? That wasn’t wrong? If Kaku could correct Devi, why couldn’t he correct Pakhi when she was poking Sai even when she was about to leave to college. Will the lady ever stop poking Sai? Will this guy who keeps calling Sai as the love of his love, ever feel bad or ever get hurt that his wife is troubled by his ex? Will he ever be able to feel Sai’s pain?

So should Sai be in the hospital or he should be proved guilty always for him to continue to act nice to Sai? I hope the makers don’t show any accident at all. I don’t want Sai to cry to him or let only him near her. He should be the last person she should let near herself. If she is affected by Pakhi, she should be affected by him too. I want her to repel both the friends. I seriously hope they change the track.

Can’t watch Sai with a guy who just cannot care for her, who doesn’t respect her, who cannot feel her pain and who will always be okay if she keeps getting insulted.

I feel the same … today’s breakfast was such a torture … I don’t want Sai to stay in this house ..pls move out for ur mental well being

I don’t support everything that Virat did but I understand him and it upsets me that people always bash him and expect him to do things for Sai but not the other way around

what has Sai done for Virat? Please don’t tell me she saved Devi tai or Shivani. She did it because she was fond of them

people want Virat to do everything for Sai and not expect anything back. Virat is her husband not a parent