My rant on current situation. - Page 3

Originally posted by: joliefemme

She's not trying to change the man. She wants him to conduct his business legally for their safe future.

Yes, I agree both should adjust and meet midway.

She started her journey by not going to the police. The Pallavi we know would go to the police so she compromised her ethics for them and now it's his turn.

She's not asking him to give up all his wealth but even with less than what they have they can survive well. I also understand Raghav's perspective and I'm glad they didn't make him the villian in this situation. He will take time but he will come around, I'm sure of that. She will also understand him better and meet him mid way

Wahi to. I want them to grow together towards a middle ground where both are comfortable and can call it truce..

Originally posted by: SruthySudeep

Thanks for the tag dear

Here pallu is not asking Raghav to give up his money or business or change .. she is asking him to just do the business legally... So that nobody dares to point him or his work ..

As a wife she just wants his safety.. she doesn't want to lose him . Every other day some or the other hungama goes on . Sometimes sunny blames him or sometimes Laxmi... And that fear he has in his face that's what she wants him to change .

She is also understanding from his point of view also .. she is not judging him or tagging him .. she as a dutiful wife is just want to make him understand that in the want of money he is loosing alot in his life .. that's it. I don't see anything wrong in that .. .

Sorry if you don't like the post. Sachi .. I don't intend to hurt anyone . Dil SE positivity hi spread karna chahti hu. And as I always say tomatoes and chappals always welcome 🤗

No issues dear. Even i m saying that they don't have to keep it completely black or completely white. Life s full of situations where we always choose a grey path that s middle ground. ,👍👍..

N here too we want that. Pallavi just wamts her husband to be fair n just that's all.

In d heat of the momment she blamed him for Abhishek's death but inside she also knows he s not responsible for Abhishek's death..👍👍👍

Originally posted by: inlieu

@bold.. THIS

Just by a couple of sentence they showed the depth of trust and understanding between them and drove home the point that this comes from knowing each other for a while and understanding one another through good times and bad.

Raghav and Pallavi haven't actually been married that long so they will begin to understand things better. As you said, it needs time but she wants results too quickly. He can't change his habits overnight. For that matter, has she changed her habits? No, because it takes time and some habits never change. Anyway let's see how this goes. I agree with you that going slow and helping him see things practically when he's cooled down, is the best way. By refusing his 'dirty' money and hurting his pride as per the precap, she is only antagonizing him further instead of getting through to him.

The same how they pushed Keerthi... Is now happening

Originally posted by: inlieu

Pallavi's intention is to stop him from doing things that can harm him and his family and that's fine.

For a change though, she's making the same mistake that Raghav does, sahi iraada, ghalat tareeka.

She might mean well but she's coming off as heavy handed and unwilling to understand. Her actions aren't matching her words, and Raghav's words in the study scene showed him for the first time calling her out on her conditions.

In the precap scene, I get both their points of view but if her actions are going to be viewed by Raghav as insults to his pride it won't help.

It's looking more like a clash of egos than philosophies to me, but we'll see how it plays out tomorrow.

There's a very strong reason for having Farhad say what he did. While the viewers may be divided over Raghav's or Pallavi's actions, most people have seen and accepted Farhad to be an upright man who acts as Raghav's moral compass. His words added a LOT of weight to the matter under discussion today. I think it was a master stroke showing his perspective, especially considering the fact that Farhad technically is also Raghav's partner in crime, not just his secretary. Farhad knows Raghav more than anyone else does, so his take on the matter is important.

I wonder if there's more to it than meets the eye, because of the way Farhad said that this time Raghav wasn't wrong. He wouldn't have said that lightly considering he understands where Pallavi stands.

@ bold..

See this s where people mistake pallavi because raghav has always been shown as an egoistic man who carries his pride with him. Pallavi s shown as a submissive lighthearted girl.

Suddenly she going out all guns blazing will not be taken well by d fandom. That's where we fail to connect with pallavi. 😒😒😒

If they show her trying to show him d mirror in a calmer way it goes with her character but here she s all out for blood. N to put him down. That s what s not going down well with viewers. .

Let's see how it plays out.

I hope in their tussle someone else s not benefitted. 🤞🤞

Let's wait for the track to play out.

Originally posted by: MHRW99

Just that here pallavi has to give more time to Raghav … here CVS need to slow down … immediately she going to her old self and not touching your money and blah blah was not needed now

Iron is hot now .. let it cool down and I feel raghav will understand better if she is softer rather than taking harsh steps … he gets more aggressive I feel with extreme decision..

That s what s not sitting well with people. We have seen her calmly explaining stuff to people. But when it comes to Raghav she s all out for blood or to kill. Like the world ll end in a day or something. That s where fandom gets aggressive. We do understand her but makers always put her in d line of fire. Poor thing. I feel bad for shivangi. 😒🙄

Originally posted by: Shivi.forever

No issues dear. Even i m saying that they don't have to keep it completely black or completely white. Life s full of situations where we always choose a grey path that s middle ground. ,👍👍..

N here too we want that. Pallavi just wamts her husband to be fair n just that's all.

In d heat of the momment she blamed him for Abhishek's death but inside she also knows he s not responsible for Abhishek's death..👍👍👍

Yeah but heat of the moment doesn't cut it. She knows how he suffered when he was blamed for the deaths in his family and that he still carries that burden. Accusing him of Abhishek's death is like shoving him into quicksand. Very insensitive. I just can't believe she is failing to adequately link his present activities and mindset to his past.

Originally posted by: Shivi.forever

That s what s not sitting well with people. We have seen her calmly explaining stuff to people. But when it comes to Raghav she s all out for blood or to kill. Like the world ll end in a day or something. That s where fandom gets aggressive. We do understand her but makers always put her in d line of fire. Poor thing. I feel bad for shivangi. 😒🙄

But she was like this with him since the first meeting, never submissive. He's changed since then but she hasn't. Why are people surprised? She's behaving true to her character here. Or is it that people aren't liking this aspect of her character that they forgot during the falling in love/romance track?

Even in the track with Keerti/Mandaar's accident, she was very aggressive. She does this because she knows she can. With the Ds, none of this happens. This double standard has bothered people from day 1 and still bothers them. No change there.

He has given her a LOT of time to ease into this relationship since the redemption started, but she hasn't done the same. She needs to now, otherwise she will push him into the darkness and cause more suffering. She has touched a nerve and isn't showing sensitivity to how money is connected to his trauma. She understands superficially but has yet to go into the depth and this is what many viewers want from her, that she at least genuinely tries. We're not seeing this from her. Not in this track and not in previous one too.

Originally posted by: subbuappu

The same how they pushed Keerthi... Is now happening

Yes, he's effectively starting to feel cornered by the ACP, Sunny, and now Pallavi. So his natural instinct is to lash out.

Originally posted by: Shivi.forever

That s what s not sitting well with people. We have seen her calmly explaining stuff to people. But when it comes to Raghav she s all out for blood or to kill. Like the world ll end in a day or something. That s where fandom gets aggressive. We do understand her but makers always put her in d line of fire. Poor thing. I feel bad for shivangi. 😒🙄

She doesnot deserve bashing for this … poor girl .. that’s very sad !! Some people can’t differentiate between reel and real … yesterday people were bashing Raghav saying how can he say Pallavi is with him for money .. yaar come on .. it’s a story chill maaro yaar !!! Total abuse of social media is what I would say !!!

Coming to the story nothing is right or wrong .. it’s each one pov

I feel time will heal things and they have to find a mid path .. I’m sure they will come out stronger !!

you are not alone. even I did rant on discussion thread. see 👇

Originally posted by: nikkiGarg

is it only me or anyone else also don’t want Raghav to change his ways just for the sake of Pallavi…

when Amma accepted him the way he is… Farhad has no issues who is his moral compass…

then why pallavi making a fuss about it…

Farhad had once asked Anna to stop custom duty theft..

but if Raghav stopped his only illegal activity then how can he justify being a don?

I know I may be in minority but I don’t think Pallavi should try to change Raghav… if he himself wants to leave these ways.. its a different matter altogether

because Raghav never once questioned Pallavi’s unhealthy obsession with Deshmukhs… even though that family insults him at every turn…

Her first husband almost tried to kill him and her ex fathe-in-law humiliated him and still humiliating him…

her first husband was a murderer, stalker and psycho…

she barely cared for his reputation when she left him and went to live with deshmukhs or trying to pretend that she will marry mandar.. the news would have gone out …

Pallavi wants everyone to live by her yardstick which is wrong.. her so called mayka is not dudh ka dhula…

so many criminals… sulochana has done so many things but she doesn’t want her to go to jail …

but here she didn’t send raghav to jail because she is trying to understand his perspective… I am sorry otherwise she would have sent him to jail for theft in a heartbeat when she wasn’t ready to send sulochana to jail for theft, clicking obscene pictures of Kirti and what not…

I know people will bash me but pallavi is hypocrite… there.. I said it…