Mithai মিঠাই Discussion Thread #3 “Aamar Bhindeshi Taara” - Page 86

Originally posted by: mishti_unicorn

@bold: It's not even about being sadistic anymore, It's about wishing for the right thing to happen.

I'm really proud of all of us for standing up for what's right even after it being difficult to watch❤️🤗

You know, a lot of people think all the manhandling and misbehaviour shown in a lot of other shows is right, because the central theme is romance and anyway they'll fall in love, so all this is okay.

But I disagree with both these sets of people. We want to see them together, yes. But not at the cost of one (Often the female) compromising and putting up with slander and whatnot.

You're right Mishti.. Max no. of fans in every FDs finds manhandling romantic .. The FL who is from a poor middle class family suffers the wrath of the high class filthy rich ML 🙄 And after enduring all the torture one day the FL is considered as the true love of his life by ML 😐 And then they live happily ever after 🤐

FL is happy

Fans are happy

Originally posted by: CrazyLtlBitch

You're right Mishti.. Max no. of fans in every FDs finds manhandling romantic .. The FL who is from a poor middle class family suffers the wrath of the high class filthy rich ML 🙄 And after enduring all the torture one day the FL is considered as the true love of his life by ML 😐 And then they live happily ever after 🤐

FL is happy

Fans are happy

I know we are not allowed to talk about other shows but,

one faithful day I stumbled upon this clip of a famous hindi show based on child marriage (you might've guessed it) and I saw comments about how the little girl child and the male lead, whose apparently 20 or so years older than the girl should indulge in some intimacy 🤢

From what I could deduce from their talks, they were teenagers and thus, this was hella alarming for me

We are being fed crap in the name of daily shows for so many years that even our thinking is becoming like that..... the ITV industry needs to go through a major revolution 😔

Originally posted by: CrazyLtlBitch

Just another filler episode 🙄

Nothing really happened.. Sree asked Sid to come along to Jonai but he said whatever happened was for good..

Sid said Mithai has her own dreams n if she ever needs any help, he would always be there..

Nanda asked what if Parvati Aunty married her off to someone else?? Sid replied if Mithai wants to marry someone else, he has got nothing to say..

Later Rajib tells him to let out his feelings instead of suppressing them..

Sid had flashbacks of Parvati Aunty saying Arati had chosen Mithai as her DiL, Arati-Mithai hallucination scene n Mithai touching his feet..

Sid took out Arati's photo n asked if he took the wrong decision

Paravati Aunty decides if Sid wants to take Mithai back, he would have to accept her as his lawfully wedded wife or else she won't let her go back ever..

Sid was singing while thinking about Mithai (but not in Adrit's voice) 😔

Sree n Nipa were listening from outside..

Sid was going to terrace n saw them standing outside..

Mithai calls Sree n she put it on speaker..

SidMit started fighting over phone 🤦🏻‍♀️

Later Parvati Aunty scolded Mithai for talking to them secretly..

Just watched the episode and boy do I look up to Parboti aunty. What a strong woman!

She literally said "If Sid comes he has to take her back as his wife and if not I'll get Mit married again or else she can live alone and follow her dreams"❤️

Originally posted by: mishti_unicorn

Just watched the episode and boy do I look up to Parboti aunty. What a strong woman!

She literally said "If Sid comes he has to take her back as his wife and if not I'll get Mit married again or else she can live alone and follow her dreams"❤️

Beauty with brains, I like it 😆🤣

Originally posted by: Artemis7

I know we are not allowed to talk about other shows but,

one faithful day I stumbled upon this clip of a famous hindi show based on child marriage (you might've guessed it) and I saw comments about how the little girl child and the male lead, whose apparently 20 or so years older than the girl should indulge in some intimacy 🤢

From what I could deduce from their talks, they were teenagers and thus, this was hella alarming for me

We are being fed crap in the name of daily shows for so many years that even our thinking is becoming like that..... the ITV industry needs to go through a major revolution 😔

@bold: Eeeeeks!🤢

@green: That's not coming anytime soon. TRP is the name of the game and good shows never get good TRPs. People want to watch that same old rotten bullcrap. They want to see a woman being "loved" (read: exploited) by a huge joint family and being romanced by the same guy who would've tortured her to no end just a few episodes before. They want to see her give up on her dreams and live the life of an unpaid domestic help, in the name of "love" from some closed-off brattish tycoon. Eeyuck🤢 (this is the closest I could find to a puking emoji!)

Originally posted by: Artemis7

New epi out! Mithai in her Jonai home 😆

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P.S. - I'm in a dilemma of whom should I tag, so these are random tags 🤣

Shukriya for the tag🤗

I am really fed up of the halla party interference. Sree and ratul both have really great double standards. No one is allowed to ask them about their marriage. Kintu sid-mit marriage ta question o ora kore, answer o ora deye🤔

R last 2-3 episodes e amar rajib nanda ke dekhlei maarte ichhe kore.. You can actually play a drinking game with the amount of times they say "biye bondhon"😆

I am happy to see Sid trying to act unaffected. Let him navigate life without mithai for some days.

Can parboti aunty take away mithai's phone too? I want zero contact with the modak family for her. No halla party, no dadai er sudden sorir kharap, no phone conversations - continue life as it was before marriage.

And one very important question - what's the status of the police case? Ota ki investigation stopped?

What do you guys think can be the triggering point when Sid will go to jonia chute chute for mit?

Bcaz according to current situation, even though Sid miss mithai he will not express it..... neither another marriage talk did the work......

Why I don't know I feel that this tym mit er sorir kharap can become the cause?

But cvs are always up with surprises......

Originally posted by: reshamc

Shukriya for the tag🤗

I am really fed up of the halla party interference. Sree and ratul both have really great double standards. No one is allowed to ask them about their marriage. Kintu sid-mit marriage ta question o ora kore, answer o ora deye🤔

R last 2-3 episodes e amar rajib nanda ke dekhlei maarte ichhe kore.. You can actually play a drinking game with the amount of times they say "biye bondhon"😆

I am happy to see Sid trying to act unaffected. Let him navigate life without mithai for some days.

@bold: You stole my mann ki baat🤗❤️

This whole hoo-ha around marriage is sooo maddening. I was actually kind of happy when Sid in today's or tmrw's episode (its all so confusing because all the episodes are the same nowadays😆) says that he has evaluated himself in the "relationship" but every time he has reached the conclusion that eventually he will feel suffocated. I'm so glad to see that atleast one person in that family could take a decision for himself, without letting the family's emotions or loker kotha smother the picture.

Mithai on the other hand went back home and said "Dadu thamma koto koshto peyche"🤓

What about all the suffering you've been relieved from Mithai?

Another thing that I didn't like was Mithai outright insulting her mother in front of the Modaks'. She said "mithai er ma ki na, majhe majhe poka nore boshe." Mithai's mom has enough reason to be angry given all that she has been put through in that house. Mithai may have lost her sense of self-respect, but it is only natural for a mother to react that way. To belittle it calling it "mathar poka", that too for a family that doesn't care two pence for her, is stupidity.

My scathing rants don't seem to stop nowadays. Sorry about that😛

Originally posted by: mishti_unicorn

@bold: Eeeeeks!🤢

@green: That's not coming anytime soon. TRP is the name of the game and good shows never get good TRPs. People want to watch that same old rotten bullcrap. They want to see a woman being "loved" (read: exploited) by a huge joint family and being romanced by the same guy who would've tortured her to no end just a few episodes before. They want to see her give up on her dreams and live the life of an unpaid domestic help, in the name of "love" from some closed-off brattish tycoon. Eeyuck🤢 (this is the closest I could find to a puking emoji!)

Seriously Well Said Mishti. This is actual truth..

Bold- And for the female lead that torture will become a way of showing love. 😡