Members topic: Emotional help - Page 6

Originally posted by: FingerFetish

Just follow my example in life. Then you get to wake up to these kind of sweet messages 😍

Haila. how did I miss this? Did you steal his/her kidney or something? 😂

Originally posted by: Haila_tu

Keyword:"24"......All the good ones are taken. So now everyone's getting desperate, its either this or arranged marriage.🤣

Out of line...maybe...but I see right through the "Brag"...

@bold: oh wow you can see the non existents too😍

If not love then arranged is perfectly fine respect and understanding >>>>>love

Originally posted by: cutejodikangal

Haila. how did I miss this? Did you steal his/her kidney or something? 😂

She needs to post a tutorial on how to get messages like these ❤️

Originally posted by: FingerFetish

Just follow my example in life. Then you get to wake up to these kind of sweet messages 😍

I feel its a she

Originally posted by: bollyqueen0

She needs to post a tutorial on how to get messages like these ❤️

Originally posted by: Thatgirl16

I feel its a she

No, it’s a he. He made multiple fake accounts and said the same thing + more insults. 😆

Originally posted by: FingerFetish

I was in your boat once upon a time during my halkat jawani. I felt like I couldn’t befriend any guy because they always ended up confessing. Similar to you, I‘d also feel guilty thinking that I unintentionally sent mixed signals or led them on. I’m just super friendly with everyone and have always had more guy mates than girls (I get along with them more).

I’ve lost two of my closest friendships because feelings got in the way and I distanced myself in response. I hated myself, thinking that I was to blame. I used to call them my brothers, and told them that they’re family to me. I wanted to establish a barrier from day one. But that doesn’t always work.

Now I look back and tell myself that it wasn’t my fault. From day one, I made my feelings and intentions very clear (I called them BROTHER FFS). I set boundaries and all my mates were aware of how I felt. So long as you’ve maintained that and made your intentions clear, then it’s not your problem if they catch feelings.

Don’t blame yourself. Just take it as a compliment and respect that you must be an amazing person for everyone to fall for you. I’d thank them graciously and move on. Otherwise if you aren’t friends with a guy and they randomly hit on you, and you’re not interested then just ignore them.

I had a guy once threaten to slap me but oh well

Thanks it does clear my head a lot. Yeah even I feel I'm an amazing person😎☺️

Originally posted by: Thatgirl16

@bold: oh wow you can see the non existents too😍

If not love then arranged is perfectly fine respect and understanding >>>>>love

Something about this whole thing still confuses me. So your essentially telling us your being stalked ?? Is that true lol ?

Originally posted by: Maroonporsche

Something about this whole thing still confuses me. So your essentially telling us your being stalked ?? Is that true lol ?

Not stalked... It's an intense way of people confessing their feelings for me. Its a big deal for me because I'm shit messed about emotions.

Originally posted by: Thatgirl16

Not stalked... It's an intense way of people confessing their feelings for me. Its a big deal for me because I'm shit messed about emotions.

An you’ve told them you have no interest right ?

They talk to you everyday with these proposals??