Originally posted by: Nja91
If Sai has no right to "question"Virat because its a deal marriage then Virat has no right to question her either.
If Sai harps on the fact that marriage is deal then Virat also keeps harping on being a "guardian" and zimmedari.
Sai is an adult. Virat is too. Ideally they both owe each other no explanation about anything pertaining to their respective lives. But life does not work that way when 2 people are living together.
Marriage whether deal or not demands that the 2 people in that bond are honest with each other.
If Virat expects Sai to keep him in the loop about her life and her decisions, if he is affected by her then he should see that its the same for her too. She wants to know everything about him too, she wants to be in the loop too, even when she says she doesn't care because its obvious that she does. Because she would not be raising the topic if she didnt care. All of us do this in our life- where we are super affected by something but find it difficult to admit how much it affects us for many reasons.
Virat has not been 100% honest with Sai about pp despite knowing how much it affects her. She has raised the issue of pp enough times that he knows it immensely affects her. Yet he has told her only part of his story. He knows that Sai believes that he still loves pp but merely holds himself back for the sake of maryaada and honoring his marriage with Sai n Samrats marriage with pp. But his heart belongs to pp. This belief of Sai's is not some figment of imagination. It is based on what she sees. When Virat is emotional, guilty, or being righteous he has sometimes favored Sai over pp but he has also in favored pp over Sai in his words or actions by being sympathetic to pp, going out of the way to console her or allowing her to interfere in his marriage with Sai, allowing her to taunt/rebuke Sai as he watched silently.
Additionally virat has hid the truth about pp's intentions. His defense of pp time and again despite how inappropriate the woman is- has led to Sai feeling like he is lying and compromising merely for sake of social decorum n intangible maryaadas.
Sai said he was still on two boats - that is true. Sanrat said so too.
Sai did not say that he is a two timer or cheat. She is clear that Virat has not slept with pp or crossed any lines but to Sai- virat being emotionally invested in another woman, having had feelings for her as a "lover" are not things that she can look past or forget too easily.