Mehendi hai rachne wali discussion thread no 66 - Page 22

Originally posted by: hapc

MHRW normalizes violence with their slap fests imo. I was the minority that didn’t find jhadu pitayi funny and I don’t like this as well. Maybe I’m extra sensitive about DV as a topic but I don’t like them making a joke out of this. Husband or wife, no one should be beating their s/o( or anyone really)

Well MHRW has made it a habit to make joke of / ignore serious crimes and topics. They completely ignored the trauma of Keerti and Amma in that scandal. They made fun of RRs fear of bombs atleast 3 times. Haven't bomb blasts killed thousands of innocent people around the world? Will a survivor of serial bomb blasts in Mumbai find that bomb scene funny?

This is what happens when showbiz people lack creativity and sensitivity.

Originally posted by: inlieu

I'm now curious to see how Amma raised Keerti. Was she abusive before or is this a new thing?

I'm still angry about what I saw Amma do and say in yesterday's episode. Finally Keerti said outright what we've been discussing about her frustration with her family's attitude towards her. No wonder people like Sunny see her as an easy target because of her emotional mess. Her reaction and decision to follow him are so wrong but she clearly hasn't received the right guidance from her family.

Amma's parenting skills need to be addressed on this show. It's faaaaaar from perfect. We've seen how it messed Raghav up and now seeing the effect on Keerti. 😔

Honestly I believe that Amma is a good mil and not really a good mother. The way she treated Raghav initially, Keerthu right now and the get married to Pallavi. I also don’t get how she’s okay with his smuggling now. Was the problem only his short temper and rudeness? I also didn’t like her talk about how Raghav is her favorite. While it is true I felt bad for Keerthi. Even Raghav is very controlling when it comes to Keerthi. Maybe that’s why she sees something in Sunny.

Originally posted by: Jiarao

I am in that minority too. I never liked any of the slapping scenes. The one time I sure enjoyed it was when RR hit Keerti first time and later felt ashamed of myself.

Well MHRW has made it a habit to make joke of / ignore serious crimes and topics. They completely ignored the trauma of Keerti and Amma in that scandal. They made fun of RRs fear of bombs atleast 3 times. Haven't bomb blasts killed thousands of innocent people around the world? Will a survivor of 26/11 find that bomb scene funny?

This is what happens when showbiz people lack creativity and sensitivity.

I don’t like how they let Sulo and Amrutha walk away after the scandal. They even whitewashed Amrutha but did not make het genuinely apologize to Keerthi and Amma. Was it because Keerthi is negative now? It still doesn’t make it ok. In fact Raghav should have gotten them arrested despite the fact that they are family.

I didn’t look at the bomb scene that way but not that you say it it makes sense. There are surely better ways of adding humor.

Originally posted by: Chahat_A_Doshi

Whatever happened to letting her learn her lesson on her own

Why force her and ruin one more person's life the man she'd be made to marry What's his fault

Disown her let her live the life she wants

This is Keerti's teenage rebellion phase she never had one she also had to grow up before her time

After all this why she doesn't go for a court marriage or temple one

Now Sunny flips says he wants her family to be there

These two are so inconsistent

Let her fall be there to help her heal but you can't stop her from running in case she fallls karke

Yeah I remember she wanted Keerti to learn it the hard way. I can't say for sure but she may have changed her stance after learning about Sunny being involved with Mandaar.

Forcing her to marry someone else isn't the solution to getting her out of Sunny's circle of influence. Ugh...

Originally posted by: inlieu

I'm now curious to see how Amma raised Keerti. Was she abusive before or is this a new thing?

I'm still angry about what I saw Amma do and say in yesterday's episode. Finally Keerti said outright what we've been discussing about her frustration with her family's attitude towards her. No wonder people like Sunny see her as an easy target because of her emotional mess. Her reaction and decision to follow him are so wrong but she clearly hasn't received the right guidance from her family.

Amma's parenting skills need to be addressed on this show. It's faaaaaar from perfect. We've seen how it messed Raghav up and now seeing the effect on Keerti. 😔

Amma and Raghav are the one's to be blamed for Keertis situation. At the moment I feel like reading Raghav his list of crimes and tell him he is not that much better man than Sunny.

Parenting skills of Amma? She has never done any parenting just blaming and slapping and imposing her decisions on her children.

Originally posted by: Jiarao

Amma did say she disciplined her children by beating fifteen years ago and will do the same if Keerti doesn't leave Sunny.

Amma and Raghav are the one's to be blamed for Keertis situation. At the moment I feel like reading Raghav his list of crimes and tell him he is not that much better man than Sunny.

Parenting skills of Amma? She has never done any parenting just blaming and slapping and imposing her decisions on her children.

Yep. Since I don’t see the show, I want to know how much Raghav has changed. Has he gotten over his anger and impulsiveness or is working on it? Is he more polite now? I didn’t like him almost slapping Pallavi today.

I don’t count his treatment of Pallavi because he was the one who had wronged her initially and now she is family. If they had ruined Sanki and Sunny, it would have been nice to see their dynamics with Raghav because then he would have seen his own flaws.

@bold: feel the same. Just couldn’t word it as well as you

Originally posted by: inlieu

Yeah I remember she wanted Keerti to learn it the hard way. I can't say for sure but she may have changed her stance after learning about Sunny being involved with Mandaar.

Forcing her to marry someone else isn't the solution to getting her out of Sunny's circle of influence. Ugh...

Honestly, it is very hard for someone on the outside to help a victim of manipulation in an abusive relationship. Instead of making Keerthi seem evil they could have made her a victim and shown how hard it is to see past manipulation and hopefully shown her get out of the relationship and heal. I would have liked to see her struggle to leave and Amma and Raghav helping her instead of making a marriage profile because that definitely won’t work.

Originally posted by: Chahat_A_Doshi

Whatever happened to letting her learn her lesson on her own

Why force her and ruin one more person's life the man she'd be made to marry What's his fault

Disown her let her live the life she wants

This is Keerti's teenage rebellion phase she never had one she also had to grow up before her time

After all this why she doesn't go for a court marriage or temple one

Now Sunny flips says he wants her family to be there

These two are so inconsistent

Let her fall be there to help her heal but you can't stop her from running in case she fallls karke

sunny flipping- mje lg ra h ved ne use gyaan dia hoga.. knraghav disown kr dega uski marzi k bina ki to.. something like that (i know its absurd and i m trying to find sense here like grasping at straws)

now coming to Jaya flipping….actually for this I have a valid point

Jaya stated that while she was drunk and when Sunny’s evil side wasn’t fully revealed…

at that time they thought sunny is mannerless, rude, male chauvinist and gold digger… so letting kirti learn from her own mistakes make sense

but later on when jaya found out that he was a criminal who drunk drive, did accident and let the person die and even take kirti a fall for him ..running from the country and asked kirti to lie, steal.. scheming with Mandar to separate Raghav-Pallavi and all this ..

so I think that is why she changed her stance …she was ready to let kirti learn from her mistakes but she cannot let her fall in a pit after knowing everything.. and that guy is turning kirti in a worst kind of person… things he is making her do will make her regret her actions in future and may be at that time she is beyond redemption…

Originally posted by: hapc

Yep. Since I don’t see the show, I want to know how much Raghav has changed. Has he gotten over his anger and impulsiveness or is working on it? Is he more polite now? I didn’t like him almost slapping Pallavi today.

I don’t count his treatment of Pallavi because he was the one who had wronged her initially and now she is family. If they had ruined Sanki and Sunny, it would have been nice to see their dynamics with Raghav because then he would have seen his own flaws.

@bold: feel the same. Just couldn’t word it as well as you

Originally posted by: nikkiGarg

i think Raghav ni jalane dega hath use…

I hope he gets to know that this is kirti ka kand?? Atkeadt this much writers plusses and if aai will get up and stop whatever then who is stopping from Mandy going to jail?? Did not get this aspect? I want RR to fig Mandy ka motives and put him.in hell and also expose sunkir