Feeling very disheartened for Pallavi, DT Note pge 23 - Page 12

Originally posted by: rs-shailu29

Pallu is much more than being freeze and allowing Mandy cross the limits

How many times she has slapped Raghu

Sunny ko bhi baksha nahi

Swapnil ko knife tak dikaya

When it comes to Mandy she is dummy

Come on ppl are u kidding me 🤣

Itna weak to nahi hai pallu

She claims to be pallu 2.0 but Mandy ke samne .0 bass

Why can’t she just had pushed him and said be in ur limits

If she doesn’t stop him he will do more

Now Raghu was there what if he really crosses his limits won’t she fight back and wait still to please him so that she can trap

I don’t know ppl here

Women has power to stop man from advancing

By calling out a member of the family

I don’t understand why ppl think women are weak

( not talking about rape her please ppl don’t bring that horror here it’s out of the topic )

Many options were there stamp on his feet and leave push him away

Call out mansi or amrutha or sanki even

🤷🏻‍♂️What are u ppl saying

She could have avoided it

So according to the show, isn’t Pallavi pretending to be in love with Mandaar? Doesn’t she have to carry on the facade?

🙏had great time debating

I end my words

Women has the power and pallu is not weak to freeze like this

So please I can’t buy this crap of freeze and it’s natural

I have faced many in my college days in bus and college hum to slap karte te bhai and rest ppl used to help us

We are enough to tackle men it’s that presence of mind and careful is needed

Pallu should be careful henceforth

Originally posted by: rs-shailu29

Pallu is much more than being freeze and allowing Mandy cross the limits

How many times she has slapped Raghu

Sunny ko bhi baksha nahi

Swapnil ko knife tak dikaya

When it comes to Mandy she is dummy

Come on ppl are u kidding me 🤣

Itna weak to nahi hai pallu

She claims to be pallu 2.0 but Mandy ke samne .0 bass

Why can’t she just had pushed him and said be in ur limits

If she doesn’t stop him he will do more

Now Raghu was there what if he really crosses his limits won’t she fight back and wait still to please him so that she can trap

I don’t know ppl here

Women has power to stop man from advancing

By calling out a member of the family

I don’t understand why ppl think women are weak

( not talking about rape her please ppl don’t bring that horror here it’s out of the topic )

Many options were there stamp on his feet and leave push him away

Call out mansi or amrutha or sanki even

🤷🏻‍♂️What are u ppl saying

She could have avoided it

She doesnt/didn't claim to love Sunny, Swapnil or Raghav.

Sunny/Swapnil or Raghav were not psychos and Murderers so let's not equate them.

Yet again I'll ask you if Pallavi would have pushed him, stomped his feet or called a family member, what do u think Mandaar would have done?

Originally posted by: rs-shailu29

🙏had great time debating

I end my words

Women has the power and pallu is not weak to freeze like this

So please I can’t buy this crap of freeze and it’s natural

I have faced many in my college days in bus and college hum to slap karte te bhai and rest ppl used to help us

We are enough to tackle men it’s that presence of mind and careful is needed

Pallu should be careful henceforth

You should be careful of using extreme words. Debates/discussions are meant to be respectful.

Originally posted by: rs-shailu29

🙏had great time debating

I end my words

Women has the power and pallu is not weak to freeze like this

So please I can’t buy this crap of freeze and it’s natural

I have faced many in my college days in bus and college hum to slap karte te bhai and rest ppl used to help us

We are enough to tackle men it’s that presence of mind and careful is needed

Pallu should be careful henceforth

I hope u do realise that the people u claim to also were not murderers and psychos who have killed someone and pushed their own mother.

Originally posted by: rs-shailu29

Pallu is much more than being freeze and allowing Mandy cross the limits

How many times she has slapped Raghu

Sunny ko bhi baksha nahi

Swapnil ko knife tak dikaya

When it comes to Mandy she is dummy

Come on ppl are u kidding me 🤣

Itna weak to nahi hai pallu

She claims to be pallu 2.0 but Mandy ke samne .0 bass

Why can’t she just had pushed him and said be in ur limits

If she doesn’t stop him he will do more

Now Raghu was there what if he really crosses his limits won’t she fight back and wait still to please him so that she can trap

I don’t know ppl here

Women has power to stop man from advancing

By calling out a member of the family

I don’t understand why ppl think women are weak

( not talking about rape her please ppl don’t bring that horror here it’s out of the topic )

Many options were there stamp on his feet and leave push him away

Call out mansi or amrutha or sanki even

🤷🏻‍♂️What are u ppl saying

She could have avoided it

Because Mandaar is Psychopath who can kill her or anyone else out of anger if she triggers him .

Raghav , Sunny , Swapnil are/were not psychopaths.

She freezes because she didn’t understand how to react in that moment without putting herself or any family member in danger, also She is pretending to be in love with him and can’t drop it too by acting impulsively. It was momentary freeze .

She’s not weak , but she’s a human who has confessed that she’s feeling mentally tortured by Mandaar and needs help from her husband. She has no idea how to deal with psychopaths , that’s why she’s asking Raghav to help her. Cut her some slack

Thank you for this post. FL bashing is to be expected with ITV but I have been really shocked at the level of hatred for Pallu.

I would like to add that this pleating scene did not come out of nowhere. Mandar has been repeatedly pushing his boundaries with her, escalating bit by bit until the disgusting scene we saw today. Even when he fed her the ladoo which from anyone else would be no big deal her body language was screaming that she was not comfortable. These repeated violations are a way for predators to assert control over their victims mentally. No matter how strong someone may be it affects the psyche, drills home the idea that they are powerless.

And then on top of that she had to deal with a second creep making an advance on her after "saving" her.

Thank you again, this was really needed.

Originally posted by: Couch.Potato

Because Mandaar is Psychopath who can kill her or anyone else out of anger if she triggers him .

Raghav , Sunny , Swapnil are/were not psychopaths.

She freezes because she didn’t understand how to react in that moment without putting herself or any family member in danger, also She is pretending to be in love with him and can’t drop it too by acting impulsively. It was momentary freeze .

She’s not weak , but she’s a human who has confessed that she’s feeling mentally tortured by Mandaar and needs help from her husband. She has no idea how to deal with psychopaths , that’s why she’s asking Raghav to help her. Cut her some slack

Sorry I don’t agree

U can’t justify this freezing

He is psycho he has memory loss

🤷🏻‍♂️Seriously

What if he molest her

U say she is victim come on

If she can’t stop him right away he will do more

Vaishali, let me share an anecdote with you.

A friend of mine always told me that when there are many people saying the same thing over and over again, it is time to introspect and see whether there is a flaw in your own reasoning. I've always lived by this principle coz not all times you are correct.

So when majority of the forum members (I'm glad that I saw so many people call out the blatant bashing and victim blaming done by few members today) are calling out the victim blaming, few who are sticking to their own views of blaming the victim, it is shocking to me.

When people say she preferred to freeze, women are strong enough to wield any untoward advance, agar real life main aisa possible hota, there wouldn't be so many crimes against women.

I really hope no one encounters such a situation in life coz it is a very difficult situation to be in and it is easy for people to say that it could have been avoided by stamping the feet or slapping the person, in real life the situation can be too dangerous.

Originally posted by: rs-shailu29

Sorry I don’t agree

U can’t justify this freezing

He is psycho he has memory loss

🤷🏻‍♂️Seriously

What if he molest her

U say she is victim come on

If she can’t stop him right away he will do more

Ok leave all the questions I have asked you aside.

Let's assume, she gets molested next so you are saying she won't be a victim still?

She was asking to get molested because she didn't retaliate today?