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Posted: 4 years ago
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I reallyyy liked the episode todayyy. Finally coming to the point of the promos. I feel like this is such a mature plot, that this distance and issues can actually be recognised and addressed. That too with a counselor. It would really really be something if they can pull it off.

Alsoo, I liked the way they handled today's episode as well. Focusing on what Dev and Sona were feeling separately, Ishwari asking about leaving (even though I feel no sympathy for her for that), jatin and sona flashback scene, and the shubh and dev scene. The dev-sona pin scene also felt so intense - after a long time. Only thing I feel a bit odd is natasha advising marriage counseling. I don't know I just felt a bit wierd for an average friend to get so personal (although I don't know maybe they have grown closer now). Still it felt like a little out of context.

Anywayyyy can't wait to see the track move forward. For once I would like them to not just patch up and fast forward to romance or intimacy but rather actually address their distance, misunderstanding and it's causes (no less caused by Ishwari).

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Yes. They have reached to the main plot of the show finally.

They should show everything properly... what caused the issue and how they can solve it. They shouldn't rush it and show it as the female lead's responsibility to fix the marriage.

If they are talking about counselling and all... hope they do justice to it. The makers should walk the talk.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: CottonWorld

Yes. They have reached to the main plot of the show finally.

They should show everything properly... what caused the issue and how they can solve it. They shouldn't rush it and show it as the female lead's responsibility to fix the marriage.

If they are talking about counselling and all... hope they do justice to it. The makers should walk the talk.

And that’s why I like this show, they are so real. You can relate to the story. No over the top drama and dhoom tana na background score 😂😂 I’m fine with if they are going slow, it’s just that they show this track properly. Love this show. ❤️

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And that’s why I like this show, they are so real. You can relate to the story. No over the top drama and dhoom tana na background score 😂😂 I’m fine with if they are going slow, it’s just that they show this track properly. Love this show. ❤️


I don't see the maa beta bond to be very realistic tbh. They have dramatised this bond.

Yes...men are attached to their mothers but not to THIS extent. No matter what the circumstances one faces in life.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: CottonWorld


I don't see the maa beta bond to be very realistic tbh. They have dramatised this bond.

Yes...men are attached to their mothers but not to THIS extent. No matter what the circumstances one faces in life.


That's generally true, but Dev's circumstances included extreme poverty as a child, and he was burdened with consistent guilt and manipulation under the guise of love. I feel like his inability to say no makes sense in this situation.

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Originally posted by: CottonWorld


I don't see the maa beta bond to be very realistic tbh. They have dramatised this bond.

Yes...men are attached to their mothers but not to THIS extent. No matter what the circumstances one faces in life.

I have seen many, you’ll find many such bonds in almost every second middle class house in north India. I agree the maa part is little extra they are showing but it’s the truth which society needs to change. One of my sisters friend ( who is so so good by nature,soft spoken) but she faced the same issue, she went into depression and used to call my sister every now and then. Her husband was one degree higher and if his mom asked him to sleep with her, he would follow that(friend used to sleep alone,waiting whole night). Mom son duo used to cook together and eat together (hiding from the wife). Always used to talk alone. Once she called my sis and said that I’m coming to your place,my sis agreed too but honestly I got scared and told my sis to stop her from coming.(there were so many questions in my mind, is she running away, if she is depressed she can do anything my sis will be trapped into all this mess, why she is not going to her own home but when I grew up I felt bad that I stopped my sis). Good part is what I heard last was she started working (my sister kept on talking with her and convinced her to start going out and work so that she won’t feel depressed). They were about to divorce but then started living separately and she was happy in her life.

My purpose to write this whole story is that such people do exist in society and they need to change. 🙂

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: CottonWorld


I don't see the maa beta bond to be very realistic tbh. They have dramatised this bond.

Yes...men are attached to their mothers but not to THIS extent. No matter what the circumstances one faces in life.

I know they have little exaggerated the maa beta bond. But I have seen (still seeing) a mother son bond like this. Though the difference is the son still have his father, but his mother is so manipulative towards him that they face the similar kind of situation in their real life. So Dev Ishwari bond always reminds me of them and I can relate it totally.!

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: YASHO1997

I reallyyy liked the episode todayyy. Finally coming to the point of the promos. I feel like this is such a mature plot, that this distance and issues can actually be recognised and addressed. That too with a counselor. It would really really be something if they can pull it off.

Alsoo, I liked the way they handled today's episode as well. Focusing on what Dev and Sona were feeling separately, Ishwari asking about leaving (even though I feel no sympathy for her for that), jatin and sona flashback scene, and the shubh and dev scene. The dev-sona pin scene also felt so intense - after a long time. Only thing I feel a bit odd is natasha advising marriage counseling. I don't know I just felt a bit wierd for an average friend to get so personal (although I don't know maybe they have grown closer now). Still it felt like a little out of context.

Anywayyyy can't wait to see the track move forward. For once I would like them to not just patch up and fast forward to romance or intimacy but rather actually address their distance, misunderstanding and it's causes (no less caused by Ishwari).

Yes finally they are coming on point, the marriage thing. I am loving the concept that they are showing marriage counseling part. Hope they do justice because till now no show have shown anything that deep and knowledgeable about counseling part.

I too felt Natasha was getting too personal. I mean Sona didn't asked her advice for that and neither she is a best friend of Sona (like Jatin). So yes that part gave me odd feeling, may be something related to future track they want to show ?

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Posted: 4 years ago
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That's generally true, but Dev's circumstances included extreme poverty as a child, and he was burdened with consistent guilt and manipulation under the guise of love. I feel like his inability to say no makes sense in this situation.


But he is completely capable of denying everything his wife proposes. So he doesn't have this complete ability of saying no. He is selective about it... about the people whom he can't say no to...no matter what.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: them2d


That's generally true, but Dev's circumstances included extreme poverty as a child, and he was burdened with consistent guilt and manipulation under the guise of love. I feel like his inability to say no makes sense in this situation.


Ppl who went through poverty, are more humble n understanding. Here he is ruthless to poor people in this s3 and insensitive towards his family except mother. Definitely his poverty is not responsible for his behaviour.


Also, I don't think dev went through much difficulties. He cries as if he went through lot of problem is another thing. But in reality esh n neha went through lot of problem. However difficult it was, esh gave him good education n gave good life. And neha was one took care of ria n toddler niki. If dev had got neha life of feeding and potty cleaning life, how much more he would have cried😆. I feel since esh struggled n gave good life n raised dev as Prince(that's why he don't know to fold even karcheif), he grown up as lil brat. He is become insensitive towards others. All he wants others to abide him.

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