SBs SEGMENT TODAY ~ UPDATED Pg 4 - Page 17

Originally posted by: Nja91

Its definitely not gonna be fair to say Sai is wrong. But obviously some Sai haters/Virat bhakts only see one person's pov. When the episode airs we can see if she did cross a line. If she did, we will all definitely call her out for not being careful about her choice of words but imo it does not negate that Sai is being reasonable about her doubts. She wants reassurance and security from her husband. theres definitely a reason for her insecurities and shes not being just petty or silly. Its not a figment of her imagination. She has good reason to question him as his wife. She is showing him that she is affected. For a second if he outs herself in her shoes he would realize what Sai needs to hear from him.

Theres also absolutely no comparison between ajinkya-Sai n virat-pp. So virat questioning a genuine friendship can in no way be equated to Sai questioning him about pp. Pp has in front of Sai said enough to make it apparent that she is waiting for him to acknowledge her and go back to her especially since Samrat is MIA. She has made her intentions amply clear.

And Virat by his own admission not only had feelings for pp, but went so far as to tell her he will never give a place to any woman in his life and tell his newly wedded wife not to have any expectations from him.

So it'd be utterly unfair to say Sai is wrong and Virat is always right.

I too want to watch the episode and if she speaks that then she is wrong.

@bold I agree. She shouldn’t be speaking that but she would have insecurity and questions in the position that she is in.

There is a reason why Sai is in a turmoil, why she is in a confusion. Her conflicting actions and words speaks a lot about what is happening to her. She has developed feelings for Virat, she needs him, he has become her life but there has always been an uncertainty in their relationship. Virat has been kind to her, been patient with her, does a few things that others won’t do for her, he exerts rights on her, gets close to her, calls her his wife in front of everyone, supports her and so on. All these actions of Virat is the reason why she is in confusion. If she cannot sense his changed feelings or behaviour towards her, she wouldn’t be confused at all. She would have only thought that she is his responsibility. The reason she grows angry or asks him questions is because his words and actions are also not matching with each other. She doesn’t know that he calls her his responsibility because he doesn’t want to freak her out, because he doesn’t know how she would react to it. The reason she grows angry is that she can sense him growing close up her, she is also feeling something for him but at the end she is made to think that she is only his responsibility or that he has feelings for Pakhi. He has also given her enough reasons to think that he has feelings for Pakhi by letting Pakhi know about the details of his marriage with Sai, by letting Pakhi walk into their room and exert rights on him, by letting Pakhi question on his personal life, by letting Pakhi insult or humiliate Sai. And not just that till today, he hasn’t called out Pakhi for accusing Sai to have come in between them or when she says she is waiting for him or when she claims he has cheated her by moving on. He has neither accepted that he has moved on to Pakhi nor has denied it. His silence can be interpreted as him getting upset that Pakhi misunderstands that he is moving on. It looks as if he is confused what to do. He told Sai that he has ended his commitment but didn’t clarify when she asked if he did it so that she doesn’t get hurt. If he did for the same reason, why it would mean that he has feelings for Pakhi but he still was doing it so as to not hurt Sai.

And amidst all these, she can also see him being affectionate and caring towards her. Is she supposed to understand that he has fallen for her or understand that he is falling for her but he is also having a mixed feeling about it. She would only think that he is himself not sure what he is doing.

The waada or the deal is alive in Sai only because Pakhi claims it and is accusing Virat for not keeping his promise. It is the same waada that Virat had made clear to Sai that he would never want to break. So it only makes sense that he clarifies to Sai if he thinks otherwise, if things have changed. If Pakhi had not asked those questions to Virat at the pool or had not kept accusing Virat ever since that incident in front of Sai, Sai would have forgotten and moved on with Virat. She had herself said that at the pool that this information wasn’t new to her and she had completely forgotten about it. She blamed herself to have even forgotten it.

It is not that Virat didn’t try to make her feel comfortable or try to sort out the misunderstanding but at the end he anyway couldn’t.

The confusion, the hurt and the anger in Sai is because of the conflicting relationship equation that they share now. She can see the changes, likes the progress they are making but is not sure if it is just her assumption or is actually true.

Originally posted by: Nja91

Its definitely not gonna be fair to say Sai is wrong. But obviously some Sai haters/Virat bhakts only see one person's pov. When the episode airs we can see if she did cross a line. If she did, we will all definitely call her out for not being careful about her choice of words but imo it does not negate that Sai is being reasonable about her doubts. She wants reassurance and security from her husband. theres definitely a reason for her insecurities and shes not being just petty or silly. Its not a figment of her imagination. She has good reason to question him as his wife. She is showing him that she is affected. For a second if he outs herself in her shoes he would realize what Sai needs to hear from him.

Theres also absolutely no comparison between ajinkya-Sai n virat-pp. So virat questioning a genuine friendship can in no way be equated to Sai questioning him about pp. Pp has in front of Sai said enough to make it apparent that she is waiting for him to acknowledge her and go back to her especially since Samrat is MIA. She has made her intentions amply clear.

And Virat by his own admission not only had feelings for pp, but went so far as to tell her he will never give a place to any woman in his life and tell his newly wedded wife not to have any expectations from him.

So it'd be utterly unfair to say Sai is wrong and Virat is always right.

@italic - lol Comparing nothing to something 😂, how can anyone even compare these two scinearios , AJ is really Sais friend unlike the garb of friendship used for Virat and Didi. Sai was right, they ruined the word friendship for everyone 🙄. Infact Didi is still using the same garb to have the freedom to see if she can form any kind of bond with Virat 🤣🤣.

Comparing two scenarios doesn't make sense to me.. Both demanded different reactions..

For crying out loud AJ is Sai's college mate only.. She cleared that he doesn't hold any special place in her life, she even cleared it comparing with Sunny and Virat..

Let us all wait for actual episode to air..hope it's not as stupid as the anniversary surprise.

Sai needs to explode because she deserves a clarity from her husband. It's NOT easy for any spouse accepting the past baggage of her husband. Her doubts are valid if Virat put a closure to his past then why Pakhi is still looking up to him?

Today one more dialogue that made me roll my eyes when Sai told Samrat that Pakhi didi is waiting for you why they give such shirty dialogues to the leads

She accused Virat for sailing on two boats is down right disrespectful. PERIOD..

she really needs to keep her words in checked while angry. He is the man to whom her dying father gave her responsibility .Even if he failed as a husband but he made sure that she never misses her Aaba's absence..

Originally posted by: sadiltl

If you don’t make sai mahaan then you can understand her confusion and pain better. She is a 19 year old girl with a heart of gold. She is giving by nature and she is faced with a situation where she can’t give someone away but also wants to free him! Samrats dialogues about freeing pakhi has definitely affected her.

these confrontations show how much sai is comfortable talking her mind and show her confusions clearly to virat! She doesn’t back off or hide her frustrations so does virat! Whether it is toxic or not Is a different debate. Why should they get out of it without seeing its end? If they break this marriage to move out of toxicity now, will they be able to see what they become in the end. ?!

If at the end of every confrontation if they progress in some way, it is their win only. The journey is tough but until you reach the destination you never know if the journey is for good or bad.

I think Samrat's entry has pushed Sai to her breaking point... hence, this fight will be the one in which she crosses all lines, because her pain, guilt, and fears are at an all time high. Up until this point, all she knows about the past has been from Pakhi's behavior and from the yoga retreat's words... since Virat himself has not clarified anything. But, now, she has come to understand that Samrat left the day after he got married due to Virat and Pakhi's relationship- something that could have been still vague for her, has come crashing down on her like a boulder hitting her with full force. This is an extremely hard-hitting reality to be able to confront. On top of that, now that Samrat wants to set Pakhi free, her greatest fears are coming true... because that just brings Virat and Pakhi one step closer to being able to be together in her mind. That is why she looked at Virat with such a broken expression... it was almost as if in that moment, she needed reassurance from him that he was her's and that no matter what happens with SamRakhi, SaiRat's relationship will never change. Moving forward, every time she sees Samrat's hatred for Pakhi, she will be reminded of the "reality" that is VirAkhi... before she was just living in the same house as KBA, and that was hard enough...but now, in a way, she will be living in a house in which the past has been fully reawakened and I cannot imagine how difficult that is going to be for her.

She needs verbal reassurances and clarifications from Virat more than ever before. But once again, her harsh exterior and this time unacceptable words are going to push Virat so deep into his own emotions that he will not be able to see why Sai is being impacted and suffering so much....

Originally posted by: tptwi

I think Samrat's entry has pushed Sai to her breaking point... hence, this fight will be the one in which she crosses all lines, because her pain, guilt, and fears are at an all time high. Up until this point, all she knows about the past has been from Pakhi's behavior and from the yoga retreat's words... since Virat himself has not clarified anything. But, now, she has come to understand that Samrat left the day after he got married due to Virat and Pakhi's relationship- something that could have been still vague for her, has come crashing down on her like a boulder hitting her with full force. This is an extremely hard-hitting reality to be able to confront. On top of that, now that Samrat wants to set Pakhi free, her greatest fears are coming true... because that just brings Virat and Pakhi one step closer to being able to be together in her mind. That is why she looked at Virat with such a broken expression... it was almost as if in that moment, she needed reassurance from him that he was her's and that no matter what happens with SamRakhi, SaiRat's relationship will never change. Moving forward, every time she sees Samrat's hatred for Pakhi, she will be reminded of the "reality" that is VirAkhi... before she was just living in the same house as KBA, and that was hard enough...but now, in a way, she will be living in a house in which the past has been fully reawakened and I cannot imagine how difficult that is going to be for her.

She needs verbal reassurances and clarifications from Virat more than ever before. But once again, her harsh exterior and this time unacceptable words are going to push Virat so deep into his own emotions that he will not be able to see why Sai is being impacted and suffering so much....

Agree to every point you mentioned👏

@bold this is what confuses me he is a 27-28 year old (forgive me if it's not the correct age 😂) and Sai is 19-20 year old who according to Virat himself is childish , immature and many more things because she hasn't seen much in life which is false by the way 🙄. So what is the difference between Virat and Sai handling this issue on hand considering the age gap? Virat used to talk about his and didis maturity in handling issues life throws at them just because they had few more birthdays than Sai . Where did all the maturity vanish now when it's the right time to show their maturity , since both of them are acting alike , hurting eachother constantly , blaming and going back to normal as though nothing happened. I am hoping this is the last lap in their Marathon of who can insult eachother better and who can hide their feelings better😂

Originally posted by: vimeo

Like I have always.maintained Sai is extremely arrogant. Why the hell she keeps harping on deal marriage and then accuse him of two timing? If its a deal marriage she has no right to accuse him! And if she always felt Virat was like this, why is she sticking with him. What's her agenda? Sai's arrogance is taken to the next level. I dont think after this Virat should ever go behind her and apologize. He shud just hand her a divorce and walk out. Not worth at all!

I have agreed on Si being wrong today..Not the other day, but today she was wrong no doubts about that. But I disagree to your statement that she is arrogant. I would think that way, when the show started but I have come to realise that she is anything but that.. But then the whole problem is she is too loud and rude that leads to her being brash and it is taken as being arrogant. She is not "ghamandi", had she been that she would never feel insecure to Pakhi in the first place. Infact her insecurity brings out the worst in her.. Her defence has always been her brashness and stubbornness, like in case of Virat it has been extreme need for wallowing in self pity.. They both in anger lose their semblance, Sai with words, Virat with both words and actions.. He is also rude and insensitive towards her, but then its hidden because he choses to say it with calm tone ,disappointment written on his face and Sai comes with a very loud and direct verbal attack....What Sai needs to learn is to put across her emotions, she need not be rude and angry, it would probably get conveyed if speaks it in a calmer tone. With age and experience one learns that.. Just because she is wrong today , she has been wrong all the time, when she questioned Virat on his relationship with Pakhi is something that I would disagree with.. But thats futile since you seem to have maintained on her being arrogant. SHe was wrong today, Period! No justification there..

I wont say anything about Virat's vaada. That was plain stupidity. I didn't support his actions during the Ajinkya/accident track. I am in complete agreement that no girl deserves that kind of treatment. It was extremely sad. My stand has always been she should have walked out of the marriage long back.

However, Sai has to learn to convey her feelings and thoughts without being so rude. U may be right that she comes out as arrogant but she isnt and its just rudeness. But for an onlooker it does look as arrogance. Her rudeness increases by an order of magnitude with Virat. Its her upbringing that's the problem here. She is a pampered kid and I don't adore KJ as a great father in that regard. He is supposed to have instilled such good values in her, why did he instill rudeness in her or rather why didn't he make her understand the importance of speaking right, treating people with respect in her? Speaking and putting things in the right way is as important as being right itself!

Originally posted by: vimeo

I wont say anything about Virat's vaada. That was plain stupidity. I didn't support his actions during the Ajinkya/accident track. I am in complete agreement that no girl deserves that kind of treatment. It was extremely sad. My stand has always been she should have walked out of the marriage long back.

However, Sai has to learn to convey her feelings and thoughts without being so rude. U may be right that she comes out as arrogant but she isnt and its just rudeness. But for an onlooker it does look as arrogance. Her rudeness increases by an order of magnitude with Virat. Its her upbringing that's the problem here. She is a pampered kid and I don't adore KJ as a great father in that regard. He is supposed to have instilled such good values in her, why did he instill rudeness in her or rather why didn't he make her understand the importance of speaking right, treating people with respect in her? Speaking and putting things in the right way is as important as being right itself!

I dont question that..I mean your questions on Sai's behaviour..But I think she was pampered and KJ did what he could , with her being his only child and family.. I dont blame him, she was his only family and he instilled many good really qualities in her...Every parent goes wrong in some way or the other...They do raise child with some flaws...In this case she was not just his child but his world. RIght now Sai's behaviour , or for that matter her behaviour after marriage has a lot to do with how she has been treated by everyone around...She has bottled up emotions long back..

She should have walked away long back and I have always maintained, Virat is a difficult man to leave with, considering how diplomatic he is.. in general..But then there wont have been this show... Also Sai has gotten too attached to without even realising it.. The way she forgives him after the whole accident or for that matter, the way she did not talk about him throwing out when he was wallowing in self pity after coming back from hospital is the testimony in itself.. SHe even today said he has to chose one and she wants to be chosen..Unfortunately she has just one family.. In the world of rights and wrong, even when the family is wrong one tends to forgive them , yearn to be with them.. She is emotionally attached to him beyond our perceiving and thinks he is not and that makes her this rattled and brash even more.. Its all coming out now because she is seeing Samrat suffering and is also reminiscing hers in the process...

Her way of talking well, I have seen young people with even good parents talk and behave this way and they do learn with age and experience. Just another day I was going around so many teenager issues, where I came across how they are so brash in terms of snapping out on everyone around specially their moms, who are the closest to them.. That too when these women are nurtured have the much required love from their parents.. This one has not had a free, relaxed moment after the time she was brought back by Virat from the clutches of Jagtap on the same day her Father died..That was the last moment of unfiltered happiness for her.. SInce then she has been expected to adjust, behave, accept someone past, accept overbearing ex and all sorts of nonsense..

Agree with you on the teenager behaviour part. But she ought to have been reprimanded. My grouse is that she has behaved in a similar way earlier as well in front of her father and kj instead of reprimanding her, apologised on her behalf to Virat at least a couple of times. That's the part I never like abt KJ. Not once did he reprimand her.

Originally posted by: vimeo

Agree with you on the teenager behaviour part. But she ought to have been reprimanded. My grouse is that she has behaved in a similar way earlier as well in front of her father and kj instead of reprimanding her, apologised on her behalf to Virat at least a couple of times. That's the part I never like abt KJ. Not once did he reprimand her.

I agree there..Thats where KJ went wrong...Long back I had a discussion with Lakshmi on how she cannot behave the way with her father's senior the way she did... She was not reprimanded even then.. And now with him not there its on her to learn it..because that's not Virat's responsibility !!