Who is the real victim in this story? - Page 7

The actual actual victims are the audience.... They are super invested and fight amongst each other for the character they like... Treat them as if it's their own siblings or relatives.... An get super inconsistent writing an character depiction.... 🤣🤣

I agree that samrat is a victim of bad decision making of others..

But again,he himself made a bad choice.... He wanted to leave Patraleka was fine.... But he could have ended the marriage an gone, this jee lo apni zindagi kinda thing didi not make a lot of sense to me..... Was he ok if she had her affair with virat???

Sai knew wat she was getting into an thus, does only remind virat again and again cos he does not give her clarity and continues with the ajeeb jalebi business.

She is a victim of circumstances..... And I have not found her complaining or playing the victim.... She reminds him and the family bluntly cos they expect the bahu but do not consider her as one.... Another jalebi business.

My opinion..🙏🙏

Bezzeti toh meri hoti roz iss show ko dekh ke 😭😭😭😭😭

Toh ab batao kaun victim hai

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

Sai's love is underrated because of the fact that we hardly get her monologue and how she hides it under the garb of casualness and brashness...She is brash and she is rude and even yesterday the way she behaved in the car, I personally did not like it.. Long back when Lakshmi was in the forum we had discussed how Aaba gave her a tad bit much leverage when it comes to other people. But then thats that and she is learning.. I hardly see her getting rude to Pakhi or anyone else in the family. With Virat, well this needs to be addressed. In normal days Virat does not address these issues and pampers her a lot. He needs to get angry with her, he needs to let her know in ways that he did not like it. I liked how he did yesterday and did not let it pass..It made her realise immediately and she wanted to talk then. So that and all is necessary in this relationship. Just because he is in love and he wants that back he cannot just let go things that makes him feel bad.. Sai certainly things what she does and what she feels about him does not matter to him.. She got married into a dysfunctional family way too early, even before she could gather life or face the real problems in life... BUt honestly I do see growth in her..

About her love well I have said it too many times, she loves Virat and its visible how she melts too easily when it comes to his mistakes...All he needs to do is breakdown and show some self loathing and she is a goner.. Just other day when she forgave him for accusing her , I said how she can see him angry, she can see him controlling , she can see him even loving Pakhi, taking her sides but she cannot see her Virat Sir the way he was standing in front of her.. She is the same person who every time Virat says us baare mei baat mat karo mujhe acha nahi lagta , she agrees and never brings up again..

She is also someone who cannot deny Virat anything, it was beyond her self respect to apologise to Pakhi, she did..He wanted her to get back to the room , she came in..He wanted her try adjusting in the family doing ghar ka kaam , she did that.. He wanted her to come to Ladakh, she agreed.. He wanted her to forgive her for manhandling her, she forgave him... He wanted her to let go the mistakes of elders ..she did.. He wanted her celebrate Harini's birthday grandly she agreed.. .He wanted her to not leave the house, she stayed back, even after having confusions about the vaada he made to Pakhi.. Mind it she believes Virat Chavhan never goes back on his words... He wanted her to accompany him at Pakhi's place she agreed, she also was insulted beyond measures, she took it all in and behaved with Pakhi's parents.For whom? For herself ? or For Pakhi? or For her parents? He wanted her to try to adjust in the family again, she is trying it again..He wanted her forgive him for what happened , she did.. Why would anyone do all this, if the person is selfish, brash and rude.. Whatever she does for him is so subtle, so mircroscopic that it gets hidden..Like for instance the way she said today, that she wants the gifts from him to his family because last time they felt bad... It yet again got hidden under the garb of her not respecting Veeru..

We know Virat does not love Pakhi, we know the conversation he had with Pakhi..but does Sai know ??

1) He asked her to get trained by her .

2) Asked her to behave with her.

3) Called her his pyaari cheez.

4) Called her his pyaar then Dost.

5) Got back to call her Dost and then asking Sai to befriend her...just before holi and kidnapping.

6)And now Sai sees him sometimes getting angry and irritated with her.

7) Witnesses waada talk.

8) He tells her he is not committed to her. Nothing about the love and vaada.

9) She is always outside the door and still taunts Sai..sometimes questions Virat for breaking her heart.

What as per Sai has changed between them ??

But still in all this when she is overwhelmed by emotions, she forgets the deal , the love Virat has for Pakhi as per her.. and she gives in, that's what she also said during the whole Harini birthday confrontation, when we were all confused about the laddoo kiss and all.. She said, She had started dreaming, temproraily forgotten things and then she is snapped back to reality hearing that vaada talk...

It has happened all the time and will again happen when she wanted to go to Ladakh and was all excited, she was not just rudely awakened by Palhi but also whole family and now when Samrat is back..She will see the pain in someone else's eye yet again that she has felt all this year.. The empathy would get her back to the reality that she believes is real for her also... I always see she cannot and does not deny Virat anything when they are being good to each other...and ALONE...when didi comes into picture.. she would deny him a finger touch also ...like we saw during the Harini birthday incident when she questioned his touch on her shoulder also..She did say, he cannot have feelings for other woman and haq jatao on her.. Its just that, Virat is expressive, we keep hearing his monologues, his discussions with both Sunny and Pakhi so we understand him...With Sai, we hardly have anything to see, we have to interpret and its takes a lot to interpret

Both does a lot for each other and they also know it. She knows he has done a lot for her and even wants to return the favor. Be it by doing things for his family or even trying to get Pakhi back in his life. Same way he knows she does a lot for him and his family. These are the deep meaningful things of a husband and a wife. The world can end but they will be each other's support system and will only care for one another.

Sometimes Virat fails to understand that the sooner he will clear things out about Pakhi being nothing to him the easier it will get for them to start a new life. He fails to control his excessive emotions be it love or anger.

She fails to be nice to him sometimes or understand what he is meaning. She will understand or listen to only what she wants.

He will do big things for her even with his flaws and also small things simply for her daily happiness whereas she will do the big things and sometimes will forget that small gestures are also necessary for daily happiness. For example when someone wants to know what kind of music you like, reply to the damn thing instead of being rude. Like Veeru's big kaands ruin all the good things he does for her same way her rude and ignorant behavior ruins all the good things she does for him. Still perfect for each other. 😆

@Muguet: Loved your way of putting things!

@Asmi_joya: Sai is rude! Many times extremely arrogant. I am not denying she is good at heart etc etc. But being polite to a person is extremely important. Why hasn't she been taught abt this basic manners by the KJ I fail to understand! She is extra rude to Virat. Hiding under the garb of being a 19 year old for ever is not acceptable! I cant accept my children being rude to the point of arrogance to anyone! Even to me! How could KJ allow it? This trait of Sai, washes away all the good things she does to others! You cant get away with arrogance after say 12 years of age.

Samrat knew there were people in Chavan niwas who genuinely cared for his mother. Secondly he must have thought about his mother's reaction after she would get to meet the reality of his broke relationship hence, he came up with such a decision which would keep everybody happy.

Originally posted by: pbst

Samrat knew there were people in Chavan niwas who genuinely cared for his mother. Secondly he must have thought about his mother's reaction after she would get to meet the reality of his broke relationship hence, he came up with such a decision which would keep everybody happy.

But for a mother losing a son or him going MIA is a torture fo life. How cud he even think that his mother can digest her son going missing and still live happily? Living everyday with the hope and the fear that either u r going to hear abt him alive or dead everyday is not a joke!!!

Originally posted by: vimeo

@Muguet: Loved your way of putting things!

@Asmi_joya: Sai is rude! Many times extremely arrogant. I am not denying she is good at heart etc etc. But being polite to a person is extremely important. Why hasn't she been taught abt this basic manners by the KJ I fail to understand! She is extra rude to Virat. Hiding under the garb of being a 19 year old for ever is not acceptable! I cant accept my children being rude to the point of arrogance to anyone! Even to me! How could KJ allow it? This trait of Sai, washes away all the good things she does to others! You cant get away with arrogance after say 12 years of age.

I have never denied that..if you see my post I have specifically mentioned how she should have been not pampered so much by her Aaba..and I have never never supported her brashness in the garb of being a 19year old .

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

I have never denied that..if you see my post I have specifically mentioned how she should have been not pampered so much by her Aaba..and I have never never supported her brashness in the garb of being a 19year old .

That's what I keep saying. The cvs shud tone down her brashness /arrogance. I don't think she has been shown so arrogant in the regional shows. Either the kd one or tamil one. I hvnt watched either. Just an episode here and there and I don't understand the language as well. But they didn't look so arrogant for me in the episodes that I watched.

Originally posted by: vimeo

That's what I keep saying. The cvs shud tone down her brashness /arrogance. I don't think she has been shown so arrogant in the regional shows. Either the kd one or tamil one. I hvnt watched either. Just an episode here and there and I don't understand the language as well. But they didn't look so arrogant for me in the episodes that I watched.

Sai is a toned down version of Emon and Saranya both...Emon created more drama and was louder..and because the actor playing Rono was not good, the emotions would not reflect on his face at all.. Here Virat makes his hurt felt..

Originally posted by: vimeo

Shaanth! Shaanth!😃 its after all a show!

Sai claiming deal marriage after the accident conversation between Sairat is ridiculous for me. At the risk of repeating myself, I state again, She shudnt hv returned to CN this time if she thot the marriage was still a deal!

Exactly. If Sai feels this is a deal marraige then why did she return? It's better she left him. It's better for both of them.