Excellent decisions - Page 11

Originally posted by: DaffodilsNew

You are not understanding my point at all.

If you think Raghav broke Pallavi's trust .....so did Pallavi. Pallavi didnt trust that Raghav would never do something like dt widout some solid reasons for it. She broke his trust too......just that he doesnt say it. He takes all the blame on himself. Pallavi talks a lot abt trust but she herself doesnt trust Raghav wholeheartedly. She has also has trust issues. She still thinks Raghav would such things widout reason.....which is DISTRUST only.

Yes people need to work on marriage but its never easy for some people to communicate and I believe you dont change people but you learn to understand them better. Marriage doesnt mean one has to change one's whole personna for dt. I wouldnt do it and neither would I expect my spouse to do it. You have to learn to understand each other......learn to communicate widout words sometimes.

You're good to have your views and I shared mine. For me they do trust each other but their actions contradicting. They will realize their mistakes and learn to communicate.

Originally posted by: Nonpareil

Heard he got business award . Time waste gone n already he got award . He can go on world tour n enjoy life 😆

Sahi......Raghav should go on a world tour.

Hopefully jab tak wapas aayega......Mandar ke so called lost memory bhi wapas aa gyi hogi😆

Originally posted by: inlieu

I love this post. You're absolutely right. He doesn't lie so why hasn't it registered? Because she's convinced he's overreacting.

Anger...... is everyone's enemy. .....not just Raghav's .

See Pallavi in her anger missed this fact dt Raghav is always honest.

I so want this to happen. Somehow Raghav should remove himself from all this mess and let Nightingale Mother theresa cure Mandar. I feel Mandar will get all his memory back the moment pallavi stops thinking about Raghav.. then she can comeback and if Mandar acts suicidal even after that they can admit him in an asylum… there is only so much some one can help..

Originally posted by: gayatherry88

You're good to have your views and I shared mine. For me they do trust each other but their actions contradicting. They will realize their mistakes and learn to communicate.

Yes ofcourse you can have your opinion and views .

I was just trying to explain mine. Sorry if that came of as offensive. Didnt mean to.

Yes hopefully they will realise it soon.

Originally posted by: DaffodilsNew

Yes ofcourse you can have your opinion and views .

I was just trying to explain mine. Sorry if that came of as offensive. Didnt mean to.

Yes hopefully they will realise it soon.

I am not taking it as offensive and you don't have to be sorry👍

Originally posted by: dlavanya

I so want this to happen. Somehow Raghav should remove himself from all this mess and let Nightingale Mother theresa cure Mandar. I feel Mandar will get all his memory back the moment pallavi stops thinking about Raghav.. then she can comeback and if Raghav acts suicidal even after that they can admit him in an asylum… there is only so much some one can help..

Raghav ko asylum😲

You meant Mandar I think😆

Lets see how much is too much for Miss humanitarian Pallavi .

Originally posted by: fria319

I think they both need to work on different things. Raghav needs to work on his communication, he shouldn't feel like he has to hide how he's feeling to appease Pallavi. And he needs to be more forthright about what he's thinking and what is happening to him. He can't just deal with everything alone. And Pallavi needs to learn more about how to read behavioral cues and actually place her husband and her new family as a priority over others. Because that's what you do when you're married - you talk things out, you're honest with your feelings, you put your spouse above others. Idk, maybe they both need a marriage 101 class lol. They never got premarital counseling but its definitely needed for them.

Unless Raghav's stops fearing that destiny will play a cruel hand again, he will not want to express his displeasure with Pallavi or with what's happening. He will always try to appease her and stay away from discussing topics that might create a conflict. Not healthy for a relationship but like we used to say about Ayi, to an extent Pallavi has yet to give him that sense of security that he can discuss issues without fear or backlash or abandonment. It's not entire something she can fix but she can try to understand where he's coming from. Half the time he doesn't even realize the root cause so I highly doubt he'd be able to articulate it and explain it to her himself.

Pallavi on the other hand needs to stop fearing that by thinking of her own happiness she will be judged as anything less than righteous. So what if people talk? Despite everything that happened with D-fam their opinions and feelings still matter so much to her that she risks sabotaging her own new and happier relations.

Originally posted by: fria319

I think they both need to work on different things. Raghav needs to work on his communication, he shouldn't feel like he has to hide how he's feeling to appease Pallavi. And he needs to be more forthright about what he's thinking and what is happening to him. He can't just deal with everything alone. And Pallavi needs to learn more about how to read behavioral cues and actually place her husband and her new family as a priority over others. Because that's what you do when you're married - you talk things out, you're honest with your feelings, you put your spouse above others. Idk, maybe they both need a marriage 101 class lol. They never got premarital counseling but its definitely needed for them.

Yeah he needs to communicate more instead keeping inside him and pallavi needs to get over with her past to live peaceful present and future. She feels very obligated with d family and she also feels more guilty that she moved on so she is trying to make mandar better so that everyone can move on. She already kept raghav as priority before everyone but her past is coming back so she needs to done with once for all. She got into mess now and she will come out by herself with the support of raghav. Yes it's going to be painful but they need to thrive this storm to have a peace.

Hehe.. yeah.. it was Mandar..

if Raghav doesn’t keep away from mess then we will have to send him to Asylum.