Excellent decisions - Page 3

Originally posted by: Srijeeta06

I agree

Pallavi needs to learn to prioritise in her life

It's okay to love and have responsibility as well

But if it is at the cost of something major then one really need to think twice about the pros and cons before taking any decision all of a sudden

Tomorrow if Raghav does the same will she be considerate enough to let go?

And even if she does, will it be right on his part to decide something like this?

She needs to ponder and understand these things and this can only happen when she is on her own

Agreed

You dont take major life decisions widout consulting the people who will be affected by your decisions. Arent Raghav and Amma also her family too ?? Fine I will take it she was angry on Raghav but wht abt Amma ? Was it not even important to once ask her if she was okay wid this ?

Dts what I dont like. She treats her old in laws as her parents but she doesnt even treat Amma like a MIL. She was standing just der but Pallavi didnt even look at her for approval.

Imagine If Raghav had an ex and he decided to do the same as Pallavi . Will she be okay wid it ? Wo chodo she isnt ever even okay wid Raghav taking any minor decision widout consulting her but she has every ryt to take all major decisions widout even telling him

I hope she utilises her time in D house for pondering over her decisions too and not spend all of it doing Mandar seva.

Originally posted by: DaffodilsNew

Yes yes I did notice but weird it was a dubbing. They didnt hv Shivangi saying it scene. Would hv been more impactful had her face been shown

But.....the very next moment she was all back to square one.....han I will do everything and Mandar ko aisa phir se nai hoga. So sara impact was over in a mere second.

Waise after today's episode I am 100% sure the doctor is fake. Mandar ko kuch nai hua tha and doc ne kya badi badi feki. No doctor predicts coma like she did. Any sane doc would hv adviced to see a psychiatrist.

Arey this is what I mentioned in the morning..that dialogue was added later because of backlash from everyone… had it been a proper dialogue, there has to be a shocked expression on everyone’s face…after that dialogue she had another dialogue “jitna mjse ho pa ra h mai kr ri hu” so that was just an addition to prevent backlash…

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

I want Raghav to lash at Pallavi, the way she lashes out at him when he takes decisions on his own..be it him wanting her to leave for Kolhapur or taking Kirti's blame... She questioned it because her life was also getting affected..Raghav has all the rights to question her..I really want him to see way to upset with her.. This is not her own decision to make.. This is not just her life.. But Raghav is too irrational when it comes to love..Chahe Amma ho, Kirti ho ya fir Pallavi..He is too giving...

Exactly it wasnt her decision to make when it affects others lives too. Consult toh chodo , she didnt even inform him or Amma abt it. Bcz after all its her decision......cannot be wrong . She didnt evn bother to inform them later abt it. Ab yeh jaruri nai hai btana.

Raghav wont lash out. Even if he does.....she will again bring up his trust issues and insecurities.

That is what

I liked the way Raghav behaved with Vijay Deshmukh

He didn't become mahan and was completely on point with his behaviour and attitude

It's time that Pallavi also gets the same treatment

Because today her promise to Vijay pissed me off big time

I really want Raghav to call spade a spade to her

Originally posted by: DaffodilsNew

Yes yes I did notice but weird it was a dubbing. They didnt hv Shivangi saying it scene. Would hv been more impactful had her face been shown

But.....the very next moment she was all back to square one.....han I will do everything and Mandar ko aisa phir se nai hoga. So sara impact was over in a mere second.

Waise after today's episode I am 100% sure the doctor is fake. Mandar ko kuch nai hua tha and doc ne kya badi badi feki. No doctor predicts coma like she did. Any sane doc would hv adviced to see a psychiatrist.

hmm

that's why I said the frustration is in nascent stage

And that doc amma is surely fake. Any sane person could point her dubious actions.

Why I am feeling that all this mandar+doc amma is planted by Ved

Ved couldn't harm Raghav in any way like financially or physically or even couldn't break pallavi trust on raghav. So his last resort is to make him lose emotionally and enjoy his destruction

Don't you think all this sudden mandar appearance out of nowhere and claiming pallavi as wife is suspicious especially when pallavi and police couldn't find anything about him in 2 years

Originally posted by: nikkiGarg

Arey this is what I mentioned in the morning..that dialogue was added later because of backlash from everyone… had it been a proper dialogue, there has to be a shocked expression on everyone’s face…after that dialogue she had another dialogue “jitna mjse ho pa ra h mai kr ri hu” so that was just an addition to prevent backlash…

Quite possible

Her character's irrationality has got to hv some limits. Kitna hi patience se dekhlo......she keeps breaking it.

Probably dts why the last min addition.

Coma mein aise hi koi nhi jaata

Kuch major hona zaroori hota hain

A big blow on the head

Originally posted by: DaffodilsNew

Exactly it wasnt her decision to make when it affects others lives too. Consult toh chodo , she didnt even inform him or Amma abt it. Bcz after all its her decision......cannot be wrong . She didnt evn bother to inform them later abt it. Ab yeh jaruri nai hai btana.

Raghav wont lash out. Even if he does.....she will again bring up his trust issues and insecurities.

Chitt bhi meri patt bhi meri.. That would be emotional manipulation .everytime he brings up his insecurity , she will talk about his trust...WOW.. How conveniently she said..kuch din mei aa jaungi ...

WTH is kuch din in her dictionary??

Originally posted by: DaffodilsNew

Der are two things I loved about the episode today ( other than Raghav ofcourse)

Two important decisions were made today.

1. Pallavi deciding to leave home and helping Mandar recover.

2. Pallavi promising to stay at D house for as long as Mandar need.

Dont know abt others.....but I am estactic about both the decisions. Amazing decision making power by Pallu. Now I just hv one wish...... I wish Mandar's memory loss ( oops fake memory loss) continues for a very very long time. I would love to see Pallavi sticking to her decision. Bcz there is no other way she should see how wrong she is abt Mandar.

One has to bear the consequences of one's decisions alone. This is Pallavi's decision , so whatver happens from now onwards its on her . Since she did not take into account anyone or anyone's opinion before taking the absurd decision.....this should be on her completely.

I am amazed by her today. The Father Deshmukh proved himself as the epitome of selfishness today and yet Pallavi seeing everything.....made the promise. Did she even consider that memory loss is not a bloody viral fever ? Dt it might takes months or yrs to recover??

Honestly.....evry person in today's world seeks a second opinion from another doc. Even doctors consult other doctors and seek their opinions . But no here asking another doctor is like some crime. And the doctor said he might end up in coma🤣 and everyone believed it....didnt even consider reaching out to higher centres for mental health.

The only part I liked in the episode was Raghav. He is so sincere. He is so broken and lonely. He cannot hide anything . Damn the last scene .....my heart broke for Raghav. But whatver is happening is in his best interests. He needs to step back like Amma said.

I agree completely! Just one small problem. In itv FL never does something wrong. Even if she does something wrong, she would never apologize or even realise she had.

So poor Raghav... he is just gonna suffer. Pallavi suffering is her decision so I wouldn't consider that. Deliberately plunging the dagger in your gut is your desicion. But you don't have any right to plunge it in someone else's chest.

Period.

Raghav.

So.... 🤔😒😒😒

Originally posted by: Sunaina7

hmm

that's why I said the frustration is in nascent stage

And that doc amma is surely fake. Any sane person could point her dubious actions.

Why I am feeling that all this mandar+doc amma is planted by Ved

Ved couldn't harm Raghav in any way like financially or physically or even couldn't break pallavi trust on raghav. So his last resort is to make him lose emotionally and enjoy his destruction

Don't you think all this sudden mandar appearance out of nowhere and claiming pallavi as wife is suspicious especially when pallavi and police couldn't find anything about him in 2 years

Can be Ved.

For me it doesnt matter if Mandar is fake or real. Its Pallavi's actions dt bother me more. Agar sach mein Mandar hota toh kya ?? Her actions dont get any more rational dt way.

But yeah Mandar mein kuch toh locha hai. And Doc toh fake hi hai. Mile huye hain dono. Ved ka Mandar se connection kahin bhul na jaye writers....unka koi bharosa nai😆