Raghav cannot do anything now - Page 7

Originally posted by: Sunaina7

I really loved all the scenes today. There was so much pain and it all felt so real. Nothing OTT acting but still you can feel the emotions that both of them were going through

yeah, after a long time there's an episode that I can watch more than once!

Originally posted by: DivyaaaV

I do wish they went through his abandonment issues

Thank you for writing this, it opened up a new perspective

But I don’t think ITV is really about emotions at the end, it’s really just using scenarios to create drama unfortunately

I don’t think we will get such a nuanced track, where we see why he is like this

I’m not sure about the confession situation though, I mean I feel like if they hadn’t confessed, Raghav’s abandonment issues would only hurt him more right?

He’d think she left him because she doesn’t love him, which would break him more? Not sure at this point

His abandonment issues are a topic they touched upon from early on in the show. I wish they would revisit that because it's one of the things that made Raghav's story so compelling and gained viewers' sympathy. For his journey towards true happiness to be complete, this must be addressed, even if it takes a while and even if he has trials by fire from time to time.

Yes it would hurt him more but it would make the actions of both of them seem far more logical.

One thing that bothers me about all this is how their journey since the confession seems a bit tainted by all the things done in parallel by Mandaar, i.e. I will always wonder if they confessed in such a 'hurry' because they felt insecure about the validity of the marriage, or if he gave her the ring because he wanted a visible sign of her being engaged. We saw what he did before and during the wedding photoshoot. Sure, they'd talked about doing one but the timing and the way he removed the bangles wasn't purely for the even itself but also to prove a point to Mandaar. So on and so forth. It just leaves a bad taste for me that none of this feels like a 'pure moment'.

Originally posted by: inlieu

Yes it would hurt him more but it would make the actions of both of them seem far more logical.

One thing that bothers me about all this is how their journey since the confession seems a bit tainted by all the things done in parallel by Mandaar, i.e. I will always wonder if they confessed in such a 'hurry' because they felt insecure about the validity of the marriage, or if he gave her the ring because he wanted a visible sign of her being engaged. We saw what he did before and during the wedding photoshoot. Sure, they'd talked about doing one but the timing and the way he removed the bangles wasn't purely for the even itself but also to prove a point to Mandaar. So on and so forth. It just leaves a bad taste for me that none of this feels like a 'pure moment'.

I think one thing I’ve noticed is no matter how progressive we would like the show to be

it won’t at times

like I know it’s a more progressive snow in general

But as you mentioned above, I would love to make that connection that the confession might have been rushed due to insecurity but I just don’t because I know they won’t go into it

we won’t get to see that angle, so I try not to think about it because it makes me doubt if both really feel for each other

I respect what you said completely however it is a valid point!

I hope you understood what I meant haha, I’m 18 and I have very modern views but I try to curb them for ITV shows since they just ruin the experience for me if I think too much

Originally posted by: Sunaina7

but why will he use physical molestation on her. It will only push her away which mandar surely don't want. He is playing mind games. He know that pallavi willingly will not come to him.That's why he is trying to bring crack in raghvi relationship because with force and legal things he can't convince her. He knows that

This person is not mandar. All this is part of big conspiracy. I don't know telgu. That what I get to know from serial mhrw inspired from. He actually did that after he got to know Pallavi is going to leave him soon n going to consult new doctor for him. She also start doubting him as well as Raghav n our RR is Pallavi strength. So to weaken her he started melodrama how much he love her want her starting to touch her. Making her emotional. Pallavi loves only RR. All information I got from different blogs.

Originally posted by: fria319

I think him not confessing would've aligned more with his hesitancy of not being able to tell Pallavi about the challenge, being open about his insecurities (whatever they were) etc.

I don't think he ever had real issues of her not loving him. This is why he never pushed her to confess (until she brought it up) or asked her to start a romantic relationship with him. He was a-okay with his one-sided love (from his POV). So I don't think it would break him more. Regardless, he's kind of in the same position because he doesn't fully believe her love for him. Even in the kitchen scene, when he asked her, "what happens when Mandar remembers his love for you" she replied with "i'll remind you of your love" she didn't say "I'll remind you of my love for you" so either way, he's not sure if her love for him can with stand Mandar's plotting. Tbh, I always wondered why they got her to answer his question that way. It seemed odd to me but maybe I misunderstood?

I think it's more a case of "it's too good to be true" from Raghav's perspective. He's felt betrayed by his fate so many times and has struggled so much over the years that he's afraid this is a beautiful dream that he'll wake up from any moment.

Kaise mujhe tum mil gayi... qismat pe aye na yaqeen..

Doesn't get any clearer than that.

Also, this:

Badlegi rituein ada... par main rahoonga sada

He is sure of what he feels and he knows it won't change, but he also believes destiny is fickle and can play cruel games with him at any point. I remember his comment in the pool scene about people thinking they have the steering wheel of their lives in their hands but it's actually someone else who controls things (and he points upwards).

One more thing that we don't discuss much, but the effect of what Sunny has done to Keerti to drive a wedge has hurt Raghav a lot, even though he doesn't talk about it. He seems to have almost resigned to his fate of never having the love and respect of his sister. Here too, an external influence took away his chance at reconciling with her after so many years. Yes, we can argue that Keerti has other issues too but from Raghav's perspective, Keerti's words and behavior are a constant assault on his heart and mind, and no matter how much he loves her and is protective of her, she appears to be slipping through his fingers and he can't do anything about it.

Surely the parallels with what Mandaar is doing with Pallavi can be seen here too? I know people say that Keerti is related to him by blood so she can't really go too far away and he can never lose her forever the way he could Pallavi. I disagree, because the Rao family dynamics aren't typical. They are so messed up that yes, there's a strong possibility he'd lose Keerti forever and I don't doubt that would break him. That look he gave Keerti at the dining table said it all.

Ugh... It's hurting me just writing all this. 😔

Originally posted by: ketty84

This person is not mandar. All this is part of big conspiracy. I don't know telgu. That what I get to know from serial mhrw inspired from. He actually did that after he got to know Pallavi is going to leave him soon n going to consult new doctor for him. She also start doubting him as well as Raghav n our RR is Pallavi strength. So to weaken her he started melodrama how much he love her want her starting to touch her. Making her emotional. Pallavi loves only RR.

The show doesn’t follow the telugu format, the characters are just inspired from there

But if this isn’t Mandar I want them to show Pallavi still giving it back to d-family

she needs to break this blind love she has for them, real or fake Mandar

But in the Telugu show, Mandar actually saves Pallavi from getting raped by Sulochana’s brother

and Sulochana’s brother comes back with plastic surgery as Mandar

here it could also be possible that Mandar saved pallavi from danger as well, so if he is fake then molestation can happen maybe

Originally posted by: DivyaaaV

Yeah I see what you are saying

I thought that dialogue was weird too, but I guess she wanted to say his love for her has changed her so much that she can’t imagine life without him or smth, I think that was the intended effect?

I know we all had lots of ideas for how this track could be better haha

I’m at least glad that Raghav is going to stop trying to change Pallavi’s views on Mandar, it was making him emotionally weak

@bold, yes and I hope this allows him to focus more on observing Mandaar, maybe collecting evidence, and waiting for the right moment to strike.

Right now, Raghav is the cheetah waiting in the tall grass, while Mandaar is with a herd of buffalos. If Raghav starts running too soon, it would alert Mandaar and his allies and they can outrun him and tire him out, but if he waits for the right moment, he can nab Mandaar.

Finally got time to see the episode..

It was a good episode.

The story is moving

Today mandar was not having more screen space.. Thank god....

The joke of the decade is that Tum har gyi Raghav Rao and mah Challenge jeeth gyi from Mandy ..

He thinking that he won and flying high and the more higher he flies the more pain he is going to get

Iam al ready to see Mandy suffering. 😈🥳

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When Pallavi comes back to RR mansion.. I can see the future how RaghVi is going be away from each other 🤣

I really love Amma today she just gave facts that Raghav need to get....

Yup now Pallavi should get out of it on her own..

She is gonna regret ..

Today also Pallavi said I have trust on humanity so I am going to D house.

She will realize her mistake

That phone convo both are broken...

And I really loved how they both had their open conversation ...

That where RaghVi is unique....

Now let pallavi come out

Mandar is going to expose himself with his cheap tactics..

..

Iam ready with popcorn to see the drama.

BTW that Sanki budd scene I really felt sukoon seeing it 😈😈😈

Originally posted by: DivyaaaV

Yes exactly

Pallavi’s selflessness for d-family, her promise to baba, it’s all going to bite her back

Raghav should just keep his arms open for her, be strong so he can hold her when she falls and trust his love

@bold, and this is the best thing he can do. In fact, only he can do this for her. They both know it.

Originally posted by: DivyaaaV

I know it’s a far cry

but do you all think Keerthi might turn positive again?

The way she asked “what Mandar is planning to do” with that drug thing made me wonder

she doesn’t want anything bad to happen to her brother right

And I’m sure Sunny doesn’t care about Raghav tbh, he’s with Keerthi for money anyway

So maybe seeing Mandar/Ved/Sunny hurt pallavi but that too Raghav might make her change? Have a change of opinion?

Idk what I’m saying haha, hats off to the makers for keeping us guessing tho!

What do you think?

I can assure you 100% that kirti will not change positive. Sandeep Sir has a very bad track record of this. Once his character turns fully negative especially family members they remain negative till the end of show and sometimes they even escape without getting even a simple punishment

I can give you an example

Yeh hai mohabbatein was too handled by sandeep Sir.In that show just like Raghav(Raman )- Pallavi (Ishita) Sunny( Parmeet) kirti (Simmi) situation was there. Simmi too was shown supportive towards ishita in initial episodes like kirti is shown towards pallavi in beginning but gets brainwashed by her husband just like sunny.

Her hate reaches to a point where she herself gives drugs to her real brother raman to make him mentally unstable. And she also emotionally abuses raghav and ishita daughter sometimes physically too. But she didn't get any punishment or redemption in any tracks of show. She almost got Scot free and lived her life to the fullest

I haven't watched Khkt so can't say about that show.But have heard that there too the family members were utterly selfish not caring about hero/heroines emotions