Importance of saying 'No' - Page 17

Originally posted by: Wanderbug

Totally agree. I just gee so irritated that Pallavi still feels obligated to Deshmukhs. When have they been nice to her except kaka and aai. What they did for her when mandar was missing n raghav was not in picture was just give n take. She was the earning member n they were simply not killing the egg laying murgi so to speak. The day things went south these deshmukhs turned 180 quicker than owl’s head. Why should Pallavi feel any responsibility for them is beyond me.

Coming to saying no part. Yes. Absolutely. The most firm no should come from pallavi. Even if pallavi doesn't know the truth about Mandar. He has been just fine these past years without her n would be fine there after. What would she do? Play governess for him and deshmukhs the whole life? Why just because they kept their widowed dil at home which they should have done anyways? Be nice to ur Dils even when she is a widow! Isn’t that the only decent and human thing to do? So how are Deshmukhs so special? Exception being aai. She is a gem.

To some extent I do get her obligations.....but after a time....she has got to stop. Her care for aayi , kaku and even Sanki is fine. Its bcz they cared for her nd she probably feels indebted on top of actually caring foe them . But there should a limit to all this. Do everything in a limit. I dnt understand why she lets these people walk all over.

@ Bold : 👏. Couldnt hv said it better. The most stern No should be hers. She is being forced to be a babysitter for Mandar and she is readily doin it.

Originally posted by: meghumonu

Tanya she has already set the lines by stating multiple times that Raghav is her husband and Mandar is ex. Also in today's episode she explicitly said "Who will gift me mobile except Raghav . He is my Husband". Especially she gave power to the word husband but the creep still ignored it. And if Pallavi tries to be strict with him . He will physically assault her for revenge.

Exact same case happened in West Bengal in 2018 when a widow girl was raped by a creep . She said no multiple times and threatened to lodge complaint but the creep instead of getting intimidated raped her. The creeps like Mandar are psychopath . For them a woman is a prey nothing more.

I agree sayoni that she is clear on that and states it openly my thing is about drawing a line. You may tell a person that I don't like this but if you don't draw a line and ke keeps doing that same exact thing then your saying won't matter. Like if she tells him please do not msg me at night that would be drawing a line. She can help him in the morning also aisa kya hai ki mandaar ko sab raat main puchna hai.

I hope you get my diff.

Baaki Mandaar is a creep and it's true ki creeps ko cheezin samajh nahi aati.

But still there is diff bw saying things and actually drawing a line that I'm not comf at this point hence do not repeat it.

Originally posted by: OceanicHeart.

I agree sayoni that she is clear on that and states it openly my thing is about drawing a line. You may tell a person that I don't like this but if you don't draw a line and ke keeps doing that same exact thing then your saying won't matter. Like if she tells him please do not msg me at night that would be drawing a line. She can help him in the morning also aisa kya hai ki mandaar ko sab raat main puchna hai.

I hope you get my diff.

Baaki Mandaar is a creep and it's true ki creeps ko cheezin samajh nahi aati.

But still there is diff bw saying things and actually drawing a line that I'm not comf at this point hence do not repeat it.

She needs to draw the line and after that the creep will show his real face in the show she is strong enough to fend herself from this creep and bonus Raghav is there. But in reality like the widow girl I mentioned has no one to back them up and when they draw the line they gets assaulted . 😡

Originally posted by: meghumonu

She needs to draw the line and after that the creep will show his real face in the show she is strong enough to fend herself from this creep and bonus Raghav is there. But in reality like the widow girl I mentioned has no one to back them up and when they draw the line they gets assaulted . 😡

Creeps dont need reasons dear.

Rapists are mentally sick. Even if one does nothing......they will commit the heinous act any way. Whether a girl is fyting back or not is insignificant to them.

Originally posted by: meghumonu

She needs to draw the line and after that the creep will show his real face in the show she is strong enough to fend herself from this creep and bonus Raghav is there. But in reality like the widow girl I mentioned has no one to back them up and when they draw the line they gets assaulted . 😡

Yes I want pallavi only to get herself out of this mess, our heroine doesn't need RR as the knight in shining armour. Obviously he is always behind her. But I hope siku shows how she fights from the situation rather than RR ultimately saving her like in all ITV & Bollywood ...

Originally posted by: DaffodilsNew

Creeps dont need reasons dear.

Rapists are mentally sick. Even if one does nothing......they will commit the heinous act any way. Whether a girl is fyting back or not is insignificant to them.

Exactly they don't need a reason !

Originally posted by: DaffodilsNew

Creeps dont need reasons dear.

Rapists are mentally sick. Even if one does nothing......they will commit the heinous act any way. Whether a girl is fyting back or not is insignificant to them.

Then what is the point in victim bashing? 😡

Originally posted by: OceanicHeart.

Yes I want pallavi only to get herself out of this mess, our heroine doesn't need RR as the knight in shining armour. Obviously he is always behind her. But I hope siku shows how she fights from the situation rather than RR ultimately saving her like in all ITV & Bollywood ...

This will also show the message clearly that having a man to back you up is okay but the battle is ultimately yours to win. 👍🏼

Originally posted by: meghumonu

This will also show the message clearly that having a man to back you up is okay but the battle is ultimately yours to win. 👍🏼

Yes same this is what I want too 👍🏼

Originally posted by: OceanicHeart.

Yes same this is what I want too 👍🏼

After all we women are capable of winning battles on our own!! Giving birth is the most painful experience a human can ever have and we women are doing from the inception of this world!! If women can give birth they can do anything!!