Importance of saying 'No' - Page 13

Originally posted by: meghumonu

Tanya she has already set the lines by stating multiple times that Raghav is her husband and Mandar is ex. Also in today's episode she explicitly said "Who will gift me mobile except Raghav . He is my Husband". Especially she gave power to the word husband but the creep still ignored it. And if Pallavi tries to be strict with him . He will physically assault her for revenge.

Exact same case happened in West Bengal in 2018 when a widow girl was raped by a creep . She said no multiple times and threatened to lodge complaint but the creep instead of getting intimidated raped her. The creeps like Mandar are psychopath . For them a woman is a prey nothing more.

Hope you dont mind replying here

See you are not getting what we are saying. We want Pallavi to say..... I dont want to do it....bcz I dont like it or like no I am not comfortable wid this...so I wont do it. She need not take Raghav's name or her marriage's name everytime.

She has every ryt to expressively say no to things she doesnt want to say.I especially want her to be her own strong self .

Again sorry if you felt I was intruding .

Originally posted by: meghumonu

Tanya she has already set the lines by stating multiple times that Raghav is her husband and Mandar is ex. Also in today's episode she explicitly said "Who will gift me mobile except Raghav . He is my Husband". Especially she gave power to the word husband but the creep still ignored it. And if Pallavi tries to be strict with him . He will physically assault her for revenge.

Exact same case happened in West Bengal in 2018 when a widow girl was raped by a creep . She said no multiple times and threatened to lodge complaint but the creep instead of getting intimidated raped her. The creeps like Mandar are psychopath . For them a woman is a prey nothing more.

I understand the fact that Raghav and Pallavi are husband and wife and thus a team

But another fact is also there which is this is Pallavi’s battle to fight, and Raghav is being drawn to it because he married her and Pallavi is unable to let go of the feeling of obligation towards Deshmukh family

Another thing that she needs to understand is Raghav is someone who is that afraid and lonely child, having lost the love and support of his family at a very young age

So his fear of losing is very much valid

On top of that if she keeps talking about Mandar, even on humanitarian grounds, he is bound to feel insecure and fear of losing will rear its head

So it is also on Pallavi to make sure that she clears away his insecurities

But most importantly it’s her battle to fight, even if both are a team

Originally posted by: ...EhSaas...

Watching her growth after marriage it is really sad to see what they are doing with her character in the name of huminity

No one is stopping her to help him not even her in laws and amma is supportive but girl draw some line

It is not always amma, aai and raghav job

It is your job too

Raghav knows deshmukh and Pallavi blind trust on them and she will do anything for them that's why he is more insecure not because of Mandar

Dts what I hv been meaning to say.

I hv no qualms over her helping out Mandar or her ex in laws. I totally get dt.

But I would like her to speak up , for herself....and not wid anyone's support.

Originally posted by: DaffodilsNew

Dts what I hv been meaning to say.

I hv no qualms over her helping out Mandar or her ex in laws. I totally get dt.

But I would like her to speak up , for herself....and not wid anyone's support.

Kabhi amma kabhi aayi kabhi raghav

Yeh log kab tak rahege

She is not naive like a kid

We witness her growth that's why I am not able to connect her in this track and her action not justifiable to me

Originally posted by: DaffodilsNew

Hope you dont mind replying here

See you are not getting what we are saying. We want Pallavi to say..... I dont want to do it....bcz I dont like it or like no I am not comfortable wid this...so I wont do it. She need not take Raghav's name or her marriage's name everytime.

She has every ryt to expressively say no to things she doesnt want to say.I especially want her to be her own strong self .

Again sorry if you felt I was intruding .

Yes. That I agree with you. She needs to tell them now explicitly that I will not do it. She is slowly reaching her saturation point. She will burst out slowly.

Originally posted by: Srijeeta06

I understand the fact that Raghav and Pallavi are husband and wife and thus a team

But another fact is also there which is this is Pallavi’s battle to fight, and Raghav is being drawn to it because he married her and Pallavi is unable to let go of the feeling of obligation towards Deshmukh family

Another thing that she needs to understand is Raghav is someone who is that afraid and lonely child, having lost the love and support of his family at a very young age

So his fear of losing is very much valid

On top of that if she keeps talking about Mandar, even on humanitarian grounds, he is bound to feel insecure and fear of losing will rear its head

So it is also on Pallavi to make sure that she clears away his insecurities

But most importantly it’s her battle to fight, even if both are a team

Yes , she needs to understand Raghav's fears and insecurities. She had to read in between the line becauase Raghav never shows his emotions in his face. She had to laid rest the insecurities that Raghav is suffering due to this drama.

She has to say no to Mandar straight in the face and tell him to back off explicitly!!

Originally posted by: meghumonu

Yes , she needs to understand Raghav's fears and insecurities. She had to read in between the line becauase Raghav never shows his emotions in his face. She had to laid rest the insecurities that Raghav is suffering due to this drama.

She has to say no to Mandar straight in the face and tell him to back off explicitly!!

Exactly

And unless she does that, Raghav will suffer without any fault of his.

And Pallavi’s behavior will keep bothering us even though she is doing it unintentionally

At the end of the day it is Pallavi’s battle to fight

Raghav cannot and should not fight on her behalf

Originally posted by: Srijeeta06

Exactly

And unless she does that, Raghav will suffer without any fault of his.

And Pallavi’s behavior will keep bothering us even though she is doing it unintentionally

At the end of the day it is Pallavi’s battle to fight

Raghav cannot and should not fight on her behalf

Ayee will help her in this!! I really liked how Ayee did not fall for his innocent act like Amma but immeadiately her mind gave red signals that somerhing is wrong and Pallavi cannot be allowed to be close with him. 👏

Originally posted by: meghumonu

Ayee will help her in this!! I really liked how Ayee did not fall for his innocent act like Amma but immeadiately her mind gave red signals that somerhing is wrong and Pallavi cannot be allowed to be close with him. 👏

I hope so too

But given the creep Mandar is being shown

I hope he doesn’t harm her

Because apart from her

She doesn’t have a strong apart from her

Kaka isn’t that much strong enough against others in the family

Pallavi needs to go away with the feeling of obligation

Only then she will notice the red flags

Because she doesn’t seem to pay heed to her gut feeling much

Originally posted by: meghumonu

Yes. That I agree with you. She needs to tell them now explicitly that I will not do it. She is slowly reaching her saturation point. She will burst out slowly.

Waiting for that day