The kind of love you relate to - Page 4

Originally posted by: Dorae

@ bold, this one I have learned after 5 years of my married life.

We had an arranged marriage and we just got to know each other before 10 days of our marriage. We are the exact opposite to each other and after marriage, we were so busy in our professional life we didn't even look into our personal life which led to fighting every single day. Even we decided to get divorced, we were ready with our packed bags. 😆

Like how they show on ITV, the very next day I got to know I'm pregnant and from then my life has turned a U-turn and we started to know each other and we started adjusting with each other and finally, we fell in love with each other. 😆

My life has turned into Gaura with a mix of Devta.

Whoaaa

Rollercoster relationship then?

But I am happy for uu!!!!🖤

Originally posted by: raindropsroses

Damnnnn! You guys are ShiViiii ❤️ 🧿

Awwwwwwwwwwwwn ❤️❤️🧿

With only one difference.

My hubby is not so short tempered

Thats me...

He has a temper all right but mine is bigger🤷🏻‍♀️

Originally posted by: ValleyOfPeace

I relate to them three too.

Me and hubby have the Shivi relationship but not the insecurities. He and I are usually fighters. And we have had it since we were kids too. He is my maami’s nephew so knew him since then.

Mami ki behan ka beta ❤️😆

Me and my husband also fight like Tom and Jerry and love to pull each other's leg and we also have a kid but still . Definitely not as soft as gaura but not as intense as shivi too 😆

Originally posted by: ValleyOfPeace

With only one difference.

My hubby is not so short tempered

Thats me...

He has a temper all right but mine is bigger🤷🏻‍♀️

See Saksh, there are ups and downs to every relationship. But humein hi girte giraate rishte ko sambalna hai ❤️

Pyaar hota h ,par hamesha ek sa nhi hota

Problems, anger , misunderstanding, jhagda devta ki tarah chalte rhta h ,ekdam se to koi understanding ya adjust nhi kr lete h

Gaura are too perfect, real life me bhot hi km dekhne ko milege

And shivi story is also unique type

Devta ki common story lgti h 😅

Originally posted by: raindropsroses

See Saksh, there are ups and downs to every relationship. But humein hi girte giraate rishte ko sambalna hai ❤️

I know that... but her overall pyaar ki paribhasha is sometimes OTT for me, as discussed yesterday 🤣🤣

Currently I relate mostly to GauRa’s love as there is understanding, conversation and sacrifice. But it didn’t start out that way. We started out as ShVi minus the hatred and DevTa as well. As we had an arranged marriage, it was new for both of us and were living alone 8000 miles away from the family. So there were initial adjustment issues, hiccups, fights but gradually things started to fall in place and started understanding each other much better, here we are still together after so many years. Marriage is not easy, it requires attention, love, care and nurturing.

Originally posted by: deeps07

Sadly I have to say mine is more like rishitha dev here.😆

I will refuse anything I dnt like.. just that I do it without making a scene..

..my husband is somewhat relatable to dev too when it comes to his family I feel like a nobody. I might as well be invisible to him 😆..if any relative frm his side taunts me or make judgement on me,I can be sure that he won't be supporting me.. ..and like rishitha I too give it back to him when things are favourable on my side..a we r well alone.😆..only difference ours was arranged marrg..

I would say dhara gombis relation is the idol one..their kind of mutual understanding and support for each other is a blessing in any situations..

Then I wish a gaura romance for u🌸🌸

With years men mellow down. Most of them.

Mine had the giving side prob at first too

Now he can distinguish situations more than Me and he steers me well

Neither I guess. 🤔

I'm not married yet. But my fiancé and I met in college, dated for 6 months before deciding to be exclusive.

He has a temper like Shiva. I have a ridiculous amount of patience. That usually balances things out. We've fought only a handful of times in 6 years. 😆

Your regular boring story...😅

One thing I relate to is that dialogue by Aditi in Yeh jawani hai deewani.

"Kuch logon ke saath rehne se hi sab thik ho jaata hai."

Originally posted by: akki27

This is a intersting topic

So from my personal experience I think I relate most to shivi and devta, I have a mix of both. I had an arrange marriage that too pretty early (I was in college that time) , we had lots of miscommunications, fights even ugly public fights during initial days of marriage 😆 and even today we fight like cat and mouse running here and there and shouting.

And today's door scene is just so me, I had blocked my husband so many times when we have arguments and he wants to go out but I want to talk. And the way Ravi try to seek shiva's attention, I also does same 

But otherwise I m hot headed like rishita not mean but yes in general way..

So yes I relate to both shivi and devta in mix way

Gaura kind of comfort and understanding is soo beautiful, I hope I have this kind as time passes

❤️

This sounds like me 😆