Originally posted by: RainbowUnicorm
We have yet not seen tomorrows episode so too soon to bash Pallavi about bangles. We dont even know what they will show .
Second, how is it okay if Raghav can get insecure or manipulated by Mandar, but its not okay for Pallavi to get manipulated?
Lastly, Pallavi thinks of Mandar not as a ex husband but as a memory loss patient , who is trying to regain his balance and as Aai Baba's son. So she is genuinely being considerate of his situation on humanitarian grounds. She is under 3 pronged attack from Kaku, Mandar and Doc Amma..and she yet doesnt know Mandar is challenging Raghav. Remember she came and asked today to Raghav if all is fine. Raghav chooses to not tell her.
Again I repeat, at this point she is a pawn between Raghav and Mandar. Raghav did an investigation on Raja/ Mandar...he didnt disclose the findings to Pallavi. He didnt let her know of Mandar challenging him.
Both Raghvi have to understand the power that Mandar holds here and work together.
Why is she helping him heal is like asking ...if you saw a accident victim on the road, a man, will we not stop to help him irrespective of how much we love or respect our husband? Why because its humanitarian.
Just food for thought, isn't it suspicious enough when a memory loss patient like Mandar constantly refers to Pallavi as his wife, constantly openly declaring to take her back, without even asking her what she wants, and even after she explicitly told him that Raghav is her husband?
As a wife, would you (the general "you") not stay away from a man who spoke like that to you/ about you? That was all said in front of her, multiple times. You could tell from her expressions that she was not only scared but uncomfortable as well with his declarations. So she knew this much even if she doesn't know about the challenge.
I think there's a difference between constructively criticizing characters and bashing them. I think mostly everyone just wants her to stand up for herself or at least understand her thought process and that's why people have been questioning Pallavi, criticizing her, etc. At least that's my take on it, but I do understand there are those who take it a bit too far - I hope they're seeing her improvement in these past few episodes. She loves Raghav too much to intentionally hurt him over this - that much I'm sure of.
But yeah, we definitely have to watch the episode to really get into it. So far, it seems like this is not something she'd even entertain - someone else putting bangles on her? No way. Especially now that she knows how insecure Raghav feels about all of this, I don't think she'd let Mandar do that. It's all a lie/bluff/manipulation on his part to mess with Raghav.
Regarding humanitarianism: He's not in a life or death or helpless situation like an accident victim. She found him, brought him to his family. That's more than enough.
Especially because this is not some stranger or patient of hers. No matter the relation now (or lack thereof), this is someone she had a past with, who has openly said he will take her back. Even she was uncomfortable with Mandar's statements. She doesn't need to take on this burden. I thought she had grown enough after being with Raghav to recognize these things but this will be a learning experience about boundaries for her.
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