Public humiliation DT Note Pg 10 - Page 8

Originally posted by: Athiraachu

All your points about sai reacting in public is true...and i guess...all the above said points have been discussed about sai numerous times in those respective episodes...i have myself read many times..

Wrong timing i would say for this post...when people are emotionally attached to a character and i felt so bad for poor sai...whatever her stubbornness and impulsiveness or her way of reacting & questioning..no woman should hear or experience it from her husband...

I am a neutral viewer...and without being personal i would say..your post conveys like it's all sai's fault all this happened today with her...if you would have addressed sai's condition and virat's inhumane and rouge behavior...it wouldn't be conveyed wrongly..

Don't take it in a wrong way...your points are valid and sai and virat both need to grow leaps and bounds in a relationship...

The post was not about Sai’s accident or Virat’s behavior. It was about Sai and her ways to deal with problems .

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

@Bold Like I mentioned earlier , I am responsible for my words not for how people understand that . I know I should add disclaimer like I always do when talking about certain characters but again people are free to interpret the way they want .

The post was not about Sai’s accident or Virat’s behavior. It was about Sai and her ways to deal with problems .

Yes...i understand and what i feel as i said..wrong timing may be...it turned into a bitter interaction here...people are emotionally attached to a character..so sometimes react badly as if it's a real person...

Originally posted by: Athiraachu

Yes...i understand and what i feel as i said..wrong timing may be...it turned into a bitter interaction here...people are emotionally attached to a character..so sometimes react badly as if it's a real person...

This show in summary is how Sai goes thru humiliation from family and Pakhi everyday and her navigating thru all this.

Irrespective of how much Sai reveals publicly, Pakhi has all the information as she is standing outside the room listening to everything. Now that Virat has stopped sharing/ clarifying things with her, she is kind of following him/ listening to him and has all the information (e.g. where he went to sleep on couch, Virat bringing street food for Sai and feeding her ).

So if Sai or Virat doesn't reveal, Pakhi will tell their bedroom conversations outside. So until Sai and Virat move on real marriage, start trusting each other and Pakhi is put in check, their secrets will always be out atleast in front of family. Therefore none of this will happen.

In today's episode, problem is not Virat questioning Sai and Ajinkya. He can question them but even after receiving the replies, he went on to assault Ajinkya and continued to suspect Sai. Even after knowing Pakhi planned for this to happen, when they were on the streets, he did not stop his questions.

Until he saw her lifeless, he was in a different mode.

Originally posted by: ranijain

This show in summary is how Sai goes thru humiliation from family and Pakhi everyday and her navigating thru all this.

Irrespective of how much Sai reveals publicly, Pakhi has all the information as she is standing outside the room listening to everything. Now that Virat has stopped sharing/ clarifying things with her, she is kind of following him/ listening to him and has all the information (e.g. where he went to sleep on couch, Virat bringing street food for Sai and feeding her ).

So if Sai or Virat doesn't reveal, Pakhi will tell their bedroom conversations outside. So until Sai and Virat move on real marriage, start trusting each other and Pakhi is put in check, their secrets will always be out atleast in front of family. Therefore none of this will happen.

In today's episode, problem is not Virat questioning Sai and Ajinkya. He can question them but even after receiving the replies, he went on to assault Ajinkya and continued to suspect Sai. Even after knowing Pakhi planned for this to happen, when they were on the streets, he did not stop his questions.

Until he saw her lifeless, he was in a different mode.

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

Agree assaulting Ajinkya was not right hence I mentioned in my post that I feel bad for an innocent guy as he went through a lot and I had also mentioned that both Virat and Sai need to learn from this incident not to fight like cats and dog in public .

Raising Questions on a basis of Doubt publicly

And raising questions after Knowing it totally are two different things..

Have the family been clear about Pakhi's intention towards Virat, Kaku wouldn't allow or push Pakhi near Virat in the name of Devar bhabi or Friends.

Sai knew Virat was wrong and had something with Pakhi. Can you deny that??

Still goes on holding hands, allowing her inside his bedroom middle of the night, letting their bedroom secrets out.

Pakhi needs to be Stopped. She is a blot and a threat to their relationship.. and only family's intervention can stop her. Because she doesn't listen to Sai or Virat. Humiliates Sai for how she treats her husband or gets treated by him. Who you think can Stop her ? And that is why Family knowing her intention behind letting out their bedroom secrets should be revealed.

Whereas, Ajinkya is just a normal Freind. Neither there is any base of doubt..

I don't understand how r both the situation same.

And not only Ajinkya even Sai was Innocent today.

But you can't say the same for Virat and Pakhi the other day when Sai Questioned them..

What Virat did today was totally 'POT CALLING KETTLE BLACK'

Since he and Pakhi has underlying lies which is whitewashed with friendship tag, Virat thinks every girl and boy has that.

Also, you mentioned Virat has clearly told Sai about Pakhi and still Sai returned to him without self respect. To answer that, Sai returned because She Never considered herself as his 'Wife' because Virat Chavan CLEARLY ASKED HER NOT TO. But you cannot have two laddoo in your hand. Either let go of Sai or do whatever it takes to Throw Pakhi away from your and Sai's relationship.

Had the family knew about Pakhi and Virat's relationship people would have understood easily Why Ajinkya was sent to Sai's room. Something's should be called out in public. You cannot just let your Sister In Law eye your husband and always loitering around him and Taunting you.

There's a HUGE DIFFERENCE

Originally posted by: Jalebiness

Raising Questions on a basis of Doubt publicly

And raising questions after Knowing it totally are two different things..

Have the family been clear about Pakhi's intention towards Virat, Kaku wouldn't allow or push Pakhi near Virat in the name of Devar bhabi or Friends.

Sai knew Virat was wrong and had something with Pakhi. Can you deny that??

Still goes on holding hands, allowing her inside his bedroom middle of the night, letting their bedroom secrets out.

Pakhi needs to be Stopped. She is a blot and a threat to their relationship.. and only family's intervention can stop her. Because she doesn't listen to Sai or Virat. Humiliates Sai for how she treats her husband or gets treated by him. Who you think can Stop her ? And that is why Family knowing her intention behind letting out their bedroom secrets should be revealed.

Whereas, Ajinkya is just a normal Freind. Neither there is any base of doubt..

I don't understand how r both the situation same.

And not only Ajinkya even Sai was Innocent today.

But you can't say the same for Virat and Pakhi the other day when Sai Questioned them..

What Virat did today was totally 'POT CALLING KETTLE BLACK'

Since he and Pakhi has underlying lies which is whitewashed with friendship tag, Virat thinks every girl and boy has that.

Also, you mentioned Virat has clearly told Sai about Pakhi and still Sai returned to him without self respect. To answer that, Sai returned because She Never considered herself as his 'Wife' because Virat Chavan CLEARLY ASKED HER NOT TO. But you cannot have two laddoo in your hand. Either let go of Sai or do whatever it takes to Throw Pakhi away from your and Sai's relationship.

Had the family knew about Pakhi and Virat's relationship people would have understood easily Why Ajinkya was sent to Sai's room. Something's should be called out in public. You cannot just let your Sister In Law eye your husband and always loitering around him and Taunting you.

There's a HUGE DIFFERENCE

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

@Bold both the points are contradicting each other. If she never considered him as her husband , she shouldn’t be worried if his SIL is eyeing him . If she feels she being taunted by family members and haven’t received any support , care and concern from her deal husband and other family members then she should walk out of the marriage .

Walk and go where ?? She was willing to go out but Virat stopped her. Remember?

This is deal marriage said by Virat and he didn't even clear her in front of Pakhi that Pakhi means nothing to him and this marriage is real for him. So on what basis will Sai think that he loves her ?

And why will it not effect Sai? If she is just a Deal wife also she can't let Virat sleep away with anyone while she is asked to behave a certain way🤪

Anyway I rest my case. At first I thought you r in for a discussion but you are completely against Sai.

There's no logic here. They r legally married even if they don't consider it, they aren't divorced, how can any one of them let the other go around and have affairs.

Virat has allowed Pakhi to enter his room every now and then, whereas Sai never crossed that limit with anyone.

If Pakhi and Virat was so much Saint, he wouldn't have been shut that day and speak about what's going on between them. And if you think it's his personal life and he has the right to not share it with anyone then he doesn't even have the right to ask Sai, what was going on between Sai and Ajinkya.

Also, Keeping Past is another thing if it's just a Past. But when the Past is always outside your bedroom listening what you do, where you sleep, taunting you, trying to get closer to you, it's no more "past", its present and if you can't handle to keep that person away from you or atleast taunt Sai then let your relationship out and let the family handle it, IF AT ALL VIRAT WANTS PAKHI TO BE AWAY THAT IS. Or else he can keep enjoying both the ladies attention while keeping both of them just for him.

P.S : Not going to reply after this. Reply whatever you like. The more I discuss about this, the more I start hating Virat.

Whole thread is dedicated to bashing Sai to trivialise Virat's villanious acts & then summing up at the end and include Virat at the end for formality that to see change in both Virat & Sai as always. Lmao!

Comparing these so-called washing dirty laundy in public to Virat's barbaric acts is beyond ridiculous to defend the toxic insufferable abusive man-child Virat. A dhabba on the name of IPS.

Honestly i get headache even watching 2sec clip of this show and its toxic characters….all of them are toxic(yes even the mahaan devi sai) and can be only redeemed when they scrap off this show for good.