Again age topic today

Yesterday sai said virat bujruk all fans feels wrong it is age shaming.

But today virat said Sai bachi and he is guardian so no one feel bad why?

Is it not same Sai calling bujruk and Virat calling bachi

If virat can said bachi to Sai then according to that sai is right to call him bujruk

Originally posted by: SonuRani

Yesterday sai said virat bujruk all fans feels wrong it is age shaming.

But today virat said Sai bachi and he is guardian so no one feel bad why?

Is it not same Sai calling bujruk and Virat calling bachi

If virat can said bachi to Sai then according to that sai is right to call him bujruk

The thought definitely came into my mind but to me the situation seemed different. Yesterday Virat was having a serious conversation when Sai brought up his age and white hair, most importantly he loves her. The person whom you love, if they keep joking about your age, it does get weird after a point especially here considering Virat asked he why did you not hug me.

Today's scene seemed more like leg pulling and Sai answered back saying she is not a bachhi. Maybe in future we might get a scene where she falls in love with him and she will indeed get mad at him if he calls her bachhi.

But from Sai point of view yesterday she was joking not serious one . She is in joking mood because she didn't understand why ajinkya that much important to Virat for her he is same as other collage friends

She is saying bujruk is in comedy way they always said like that in there buntter so why to blame sai it's Virat fault he is in serious mood.

Originally posted by: Rdigest

The thought definitely came into my mind but to me the situation seemed different. Yesterday Virat was having a serious conversation when Sai brought up his age and white hair, most importantly he loves her. The person whom you love, if they keep joking about your age, it does get weird after a point especially here considering Virat asked he why did you not hug me.

Today's scene seemed more like leg pulling and Sai answered back saying she is not a bachhi. Maybe in future we might get a scene where she falls in love with him and she will indeed get mad at him if he calls her bachhi.

We know it was serious because we knew Virat was feeling insecure because of the whole surprise by Sai's friends and the hug.. But did Sai know that ?

As from my point of view..both are wrong.. If Sai gives the feeling to Virat that he is buzurg she doesn't match him and will chose a younger one..Virat gives her a feeling that she is too young to be his wife ...a bacchi who does not match him..with his overbearing ex always there to solidify that belief..

For me more problematic was Virat's hardly there response to PP's nonsense and he wants Sai to forget the vaada and deal and all without retaliating to PP's crap.

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

We know it was serious because we knew Virat was feeling insecure because of the whole surprise by Sai's friends and the hug.. But did Sai know that ?

As from my point of view..both are wrong.. If Sai gives the feeling to Virat that he is buzurg she doesn't match him and will chose a younger one..Virat gives her a feeling that she is too young to be his wife ...a bacchi who does not match him..with his overbearing ex always there to solidify that belief..

For me more problematic was Virat's hardly there response to PP's nonsense and he wants Sai to forget the vaada and deal and all without retaliating to PP's crap.

I agree Sai should get mad too, that's why I mentioned Sai did not really care much and responded in what she thought was correct. Once she falls in love I am sure she will get mad and feel hurt if Virat calls her a bachhi. So, it's the situation which made some of us feel bad for Virat yesterday and not so much for Sai since she did not get hurt, where as Virat did get hurt.

Originally posted by: SonuRani

Yesterday sai said virat bujruk all fans feels wrong it is age shaming.

But today virat said Sai bachi and he is guardian so no one feel bad why?

Is it not same Sai calling bujruk and Virat calling bachi

If virat can said bachi to Sai then according to that sai is right to call him bujruk

I guess, the emotions portrayed were totally different at both the situations were different.

The situation where Virat was addressed as Buzurg was slightly different. Cuz, it highlighted something to Virat which made him feel insecure, somewhere lose self confidence as he thought that when it comes to connecting, especially the way of connecting Virat likes, that is emotionally , by heart, he somewhere felt age is a restriction factor as well here for Sai. As it got a bit highlighted, showing something to Virat which made him upset as well. It was very emotional, yes, it may not be intentional by Sai, but the situation and topic definitely was at the time. Cuz, Virat at that time maybe desired assurity from Sai, which unfortunately he didn't get but rather this age factor point made him more ....more....confused I guess.

And regarding today, neither were serious with the topic. The concern was something else totally. And so was the topic. It was first of all a fun discussion sort of going on, and thus he came with a reply while trying to Express something that she behaves as a kid. Which happens in everyday life as well, like fun times we refer many around as kids, seeing their jovial nature, or seeing their innocence as well. So, Virat also somewhere had the prospect of innocence in here for calling her kid maybe. Who he feels is too naive to go along with friends, although we know he doesn't trust Bhajinkya only😆, but still ,I feel this was not at all that anyone pondered on. And by Sai's reaction, maybe she also got that fun reference, where she jumped into calling herself a 'woman'. It was just cool today, but emotional yesterday.

But, I guess it was a bad move in all by Viru, cuz he himself knows it is not the reality 🤣 But this bhajinya factor either makes him go emooooootional or again emotional in any kind of case😆

Hope I made sense 🤣

Virat Sai ko bachhi bachi bolta hai humesa to Sai ne buzurg bol diya kal

Originally posted by: Rdigest

I agree Sai should get mad too, that's why I mentioned Sai did not really care much and responded in what she thought was correct. Once she falls in love I am sure she will get mad and feel hurt if Virat calls her a bachhi. So, it's the situation which made some of us feel bad for Virat yesterday and not so much for Sai since she did not get hurt, where as Virat did get hurt.

I think she used to get hurt since the beginning...when he called her bacchi...called her immature and went to the extent of asking PP to guide her..

So you see just recently she brought it up to PP thankfully you will stop trying to make me like yourself.. and too many times she has brought it up that main to immature hun..aap kyu bachi ban rahi hai.. This all says she was hurt..and has still kept it in her heart...

It's just that her defense mechanism is a bit difference...Virat kind of goes in the self victimization mode.. clear from the fact how he mentioned to Sunny Sai left me once and hence..you get to see his hurt more...Sai is like a haazir jawaab..and she handles her hurt also with haazir jawab..

That certainly does not mean she is not feeling bad about it...She has too many times conveyed in direct and indirect words that she does not like being called immature/bacchi..

Yes it is right from Virat prospective he needs insurance from Sai but sai is not in that position to insure him because till now she didn't find her feelings and also she takes yesterday bujruk as comedy because she was smiling after that mirror scens

I am saying it was not Sai fault yesterday also. May be for Virat and third viewer situation is serious fir us but fir Sai it was joking, she would not intentionally hurt Virat.

It was situation issue not Sai fault she is in her usual self after he Said I started liking you she was serious yesterday that time also she said don't say this word in joking. That means before that she was not serious she is in comedy mood and usual nok jhok mood there fighting mood who will win one like.

Why everyone blaming Sai for bujruk comment she is not said intentionally. Today Sai takes it lightly like yesterday sai can also take it seriously and thinks I am always bachi to him how can she think he must like me or feel for me . Because of this type of comments she saw him as guardian and respect him. then again everyone blame her not understanding virats feelings.

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

We know it was serious because we knew Virat was feeling insecure because of the whole surprise by Sai's friends and the hug.. But did Sai know that ?

As from my point of view..both are wrong.. If Sai gives the feeling to Virat that he is buzurg she doesn't match him and will chose a younger one..Virat gives her a feeling that she is too young to be his wife ...a bacchi who does not match him..with his overbearing ex always there to solidify that belief..

For me more problematic was Virat's hardly there response to PP's nonsense and he wants Sai to forget the vaada and deal and all without retaliating to PP's crap.

Yes right both giving each other feeling they are not match and then blame eachother fir not understanding feeling