I am glad virat is speaking up

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Posted: 4 years ago
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There are many things .. Sai is very very insensitive.. first virat is not old .. he’s in the prime of his life .. less than 30 .. abd a young IPS officer .. she’s aram se calling him old .. . Teasing way I know .. but she has to see it is now hurting him

It’s good he mentioned she hugging her friends .. and touching his feet .. Sai has to start under standing these points .. she cannot be forever stuck in the same train .. I know suicide track is an extreme .. but one big jolt is needed . It may come as a fight .. with bad words spoken against each other .. just as Sai’s outburst against pakhi was needed for virat to understand her deep issues ..


Some harsh words are needed from virat for Sai to understand how he feels


She’s thick headed if she is not understanding why her husband cares so much for her


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Posted: 4 years ago
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Sai was insensitive today again calling him old.. if it’s just one time it can be ignored as a joke and now not so.. that too showing him the mirror.. he is not 40.. just 28.

Her monologue about Pakhi was also off. He has explained already that he is not committed anymore.. why are we again running in circles here.. She should start understanding his actions.. otherwise why would someone go to such length to make things special for her. Today she mentioned leaving him again.. again spinning jalebis 😤

Virat must also make an effort in explaining his two day love story, the vaada and how everything was a mistake from his end..

I felt bad for Virat.. he almost proposed and still got rejected😭

They should have open communication in these matters..

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Posted: 4 years ago
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When sai is not insensitive to virat ? D fight after amay track virat said sai is blind to d person's suffering who do things 4 her as she don't care to see how her action effects d other person.


Sai hold a grudge against virat for not being d first woman in his life that d reason she is sticking on one point varna she is not that dumb to see what happening around she very well know virat is doing things as a husband she is just acting dumb.


Sai is d person who is fueling virat's insecurities in order to have fun , she enjoys virat getting jealous as virat said he will not be effected .


D day virat will be unavailable for her she will realise his worth .

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Posted: 4 years ago
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My heart broke for him today.. Even though writers were inconsistent about the whole HUG argument, Neil made the turmoil of Virat so visible.. Will come back with detailed one later..

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Originally posted by: asmi_joya

My heart broke for him today.. Even though writers were inconsistent about the whole HUG argument, Neil made the turmoil of Virat so visible.. Will come back with detailed one later..

Yes pls do ..

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Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9

When sai is not insensitive to virat ? D fight after amay track virat said sai is blind to d person's suffering who do things 4 her as she don't care to see how her action effects d other person.


Sai hold a grudge against virat for not being d first woman in his life that d reason she is sticking on one point varna she is not that dumb to see what happening around she very well know virat is doing things as a husband she is just acting dumb.


Sai is d person who is fueling virat's insecurities in order to have fun , she enjoys virat getting jealous as virat said he will not be effected .


D day virat will be unavailable for her she will realise his worth .


Not exactly.. Sai’s pride is hurt .. because virat did not chose her first .. she was already there in his life .. when he made the pakhi reference.. if you revisit the GC interactions.. especially when Sai overheard him talking to pakhi in her house he’s in a black T-shirt ..


Did u remember when virat saves her from jagtap marriage .. the smile in her eyes .. she had registered he has come to save her ..

then she constantly brings pakhi word between them .. when Kamal sir was alive .. it was not a friend getting to know each other .. Sai was a woman there .. who had registered that the man she wanted likes some other woman ..

After her fathers death it’s a different story altogether with newer complications..


So in a way she will make him grovel … and grovel ..


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I agree that Sai’s pride was hurt. She started fo feel possessive or was jealous to know that he might have some girl in his life and she wanted to know who it was always. She has always been curious to know who Pakhi was.

During the marriage proposal, when she asked him what about Pakhi, she wanted to know who she was to him and wanted to confirm before agreeing to marry him.

As you have said, she got hurt that he had someone else in his life already, her doubts got clarified that day. She was hurt that he might not have had anything for her whereas she had unknowingly developed something for him. The unknown feelings made her stop him right when he was about to leave GC, made her grow angry when he met her at the hospital, made her get upset that he wasn’t there during her discharge. She didn’t even know what was happening to her at that time, that she was expecting these from Virat and wanted him around her. At home when UM told her that Virat was the one who saved her life, rushed her to the hospital and also gave her blood, she became happy and started fo question herself as how can she think of Virat that way. Hence, when he had said he had someone else and also said that he can’t give that position to anyone else in his life, she got very hurt, was kind of heartbroken.

Even if he had said that Pakhi was his past or something, it would have ended up her getting hurt and she might have asked how he would be able to move on. But she didn’t expect him saying that he can never be her husband and that the marriage wasn’t an actual marriage. That was an insensitive proposal to anyone, let alone a girl who had lost her Dad, her whole world and who had tried to end her life.

She has always wanted to hear from him after their marriage whenever she asks him a few things for him to tell her that he needs her, wants her in his life and doesn’t want her to leave him and even now that is what she wants to hear. I don’t agree to the last line of yours, if she is convinced that Virat needs her, considers this as a real marriage and loves her, she will be more than happy to stay back with him, will be able to open her locked heart. He need not even tell her that he has feelings for her, but if he cancels the deal part and makes it clear that it is a real marriage, she will think of it and stay back.

I think we both had a discussion in another thread and I had shared as how she was hurt that he didn’t even look at her as a prospective wife and looked at her only as a responsibility, that really hurt her. It wouldn’t have hurt her if she never had any feelings for him, because one can only be happy and thankful that someone is taking their responsibility but her issue has been that he could see her only as his responsibility and he never felt anything for her which she was feeling for him. Anyway whether she had feelings for him or not, the whole proposal was wrong.

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Originally posted by: laksh

I agree that Sai’s pride was hurt. She started fo feel possessive or was jealous to know that he might have some girl in his life and she wanted to know who it was always. She has always been curious to know who Pakhi was.

During the marriage proposal, when she asked him what about Pakhi, she wanted to know who she was to him and wanted to confirm before agreeing to marry him.

As you have said, she got hurt that he had someone else in his life already, her doubts got clarified that day. She was hurt that he might not have had anything for her whereas she had unknowingly developed something for him. The unknown feelings made her stop him right when he was about to leave GC, made her grow angry when he met her at the hospital, made her get upset that he wasn’t there during her discharge. She didn’t even know what was happening to her at that time, that she was expecting these from Virat and wanted him around her. At home when UM told her that Virat was the one who saved her life, rushed her to the hospital and also gave her blood, she became happy and started fo question herself as how can she think of Virat that way. Hence, when he had said he had someone else and also said that he can’t give that position to anyone else in his life, she got very hurt, was kind of heartbroken.

Even if he had said that Pakhi was his past or something, it would have ended up her getting hurt and she might have asked how he would be able to move on. But she didn’t expect him saying that he can never be her husband and that the marriage wasn’t an actual marriage. That was an insensitive proposal to anyone, let alone a girl who had lost her Dad, her whole world and who had tried to end her life.

She has always wanted to hear from him after their marriage whenever she asks him a few things for him to tell her that he needs her, wants her in his life and doesn’t want her to leave him and even now that is what she wants to hear. I don’t agree to the last line of yours, if she is convinced that Virat needs her, considers this as a real marriage and loves her, she will be more than happy to stay back with him, will be able to open her locked heart. He need not even tell her that he has feelings for her, but if he cancels the deal part and makes it clear that it is a real marriage, she will think of it and stay back.

I think we both had a discussion in another thread and I had shared as how she was hurt that he didn’t even look at her as a prospective wife and looked at her only as a responsibility, that really hurt her. It wouldn’t have hurt her if she never had any feelings for him, because one can only be happy and thankful that someone is taking their responsibility but her issue has been that he could see her only as his responsibility and he never felt anything for her which she was feeling for him. Anyway whether she had feelings for him or not, the whole proposal was wrong.


Oh yes they both have a very complicated relationship.. now pakhi is no where in the loop .. it is just both of them who are refusing to dig deep and see from where the miscommunication has started ..

Sai has to introspect .. when did she exactly fall for virat .. it is not a recent development.. because she had walled up her heart long ago .. and her suicide may have been a unconscious way of stopping virat .. which will become clearer in the next 2 weeks .. we call pakhi possessive.. Sai is way more possessive.. and strange are the ways a woman thinks and acts ..

One of the most beautiful Sai pakhi virat interaction was in the first week after chipkali act in Usha maushi room .. Sai is coming back with virat .. she tells pakhi clearly why are you after my husband .. so in her anger .. she forgets the mahatma syndrome I have come in between pakhi n virat ..


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Posted: 4 years ago
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I have also previously mentioned, the whole age and buddha thing is going to trigger his jealousy. Sai is being insensitive there.. Sai's habit of not letting him complete was bothering me today. ANd Virat's question on touching feet was also irrelevant because he was so ecstatic when she touched his feet..

Also agree Virat has not control on his words when he is upset/angry...like today he just because she celebrated few moments with her friends, which all members who are open minded in his family were find with, he told BK that he doesnt know what is between them and if she would want to be Ajinkya's wife, if there is more between them.. That was crass...And this is just the start..

Sai is stuck there because she has been rejected and has been rejected really bad.. Imagine the man you are marrying, vows to not give you the haq...the moment he sees his ex, while performing his pheras with you. If you have seen the first time he mentioned about or koi ummeed mat rakhna, doctor banne k baad chale jana, all she said was aap dubara soch lijiye..The very first time she accepted this to be a deal was , when he kept talking about it while performing the rituals .. Not just that he came back to clarify his marriage to the same woman, called her mistake and the other woman his pyaari cheez..

One might think that with the current things the girls needs to forget it, but unfortunately he has craved it on her heart and he will have to delete it. The fear of rejection makes Virat to not come with the exact words, the exact communication and Sai wants just that... They both are so stuck there..smiley19

The whole ring thing bothered me like crazy..Is she going to give him back now or later , not sure..And the rings is so atrocious looking that they did not even pan the camera on it...Sai cannot keep wearing that ring..

Neil's portrayal when he was feeling bad about her words on the ring was so so heart touching.. You could feel the pain, one gets, the pain that you feel in the chest because of keeping it in for a long long time..He was really good today. Barring the few dialogues, I really liked the episode today..

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: asmi_joya

I have also previously mentioned, the whole age and buddha thing is going to trigger his jealousy. Sai is being insensitive there.. Sai's habit of not letting him complete was bothering me today. ANd Virat's question on touching feet was also irrelevant because he was so ecstatic when she touched his feet..

Also agree Virat has not control on his words when he is upset/angry...like today he just because she celebrated few moments with her friends, which all members who are open minded in his family were find with, he told BK that he doesnt know what is between them and if she would want to be Ajinkya's wife, if there is more between them.. That was crass...And this is just the start..

Sai is stuck there because she has been rejected and has been rejected really bad.. Imagine the man you are marrying, vows to not give you the haq...the moment he sees his ex, while performing his pheras with you. If you have seen the first time he mentioned about or koi ummeed mat rakhna, doctor banne k baad chale jana, all she said was aap dubara soch lijiye..The very first time she accepted this to be a deal was , when he kept talking about it while performing the rituals .. Not just that he came back to clarify his marriage to the same woman, called her mistake and the other woman his pyaari cheez..

One might think that with the current things the girls needs to forget it, but unfortunately he has craved it on her heart and he will have to delete it. The fear of rejection makes Virat to not come with the exact words, the exact communication and Sai wants just that... They both are so stuck there..smiley19

The whole ring thing bothered me like crazy..Is she going to give him back now or later , not sure..And the rings is so atrocious looking that they did not even pan the camera on it...Sai cannot keep wearing that ring..

Neil's portrayal when he was feeling bad about her words on the ring was so so heart touching.. You could feel the pain, one gets, the pain that you feel in the chest because of keeping it in for a long long time..He was really good today. Barring the few dialogues, I really liked the episode today..

even I liked the episodes .. when they are good with each other nothing really happens much .. today I felt the story moved with his words .. of she being special..and if she leaves he won’t meet her again


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