No reasons for insecurity - Page 2

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

Valid points but if girls of her age can find him attractive then why he feels Sai will not interested.

Sai is not like other girls of her age .She doesn’t have a family of her own and will a guy of her age understand her emotional needs and fight with his family to accept their relationship if needed like Virat does . Can Ajinkya do what Virat is doing for her today . She doesn’t just need a husband but a mentor , guide and to certain extent may need to support het financially too ( like Virat did when she didn’t have scholarship money ) . When will Ajinkya settle in his life to provide her this ? Does all this questions cross Virat’s mind ?

Pink : Because she plays with his insecurities in this aspect. He won't even bother if his Aai says that he's handsome. He wants Sai to say that, Sai doesn't call her handsome, she calls her weird, she's not her first preference, calls him old now and then, this is also one of the reasons he might think Sai doesn't find him handsome. He doesn't notice, how Sai was checking him out when he was dancing.

Blue : This isn't coming in his mind because he's thinking like a lover not a guardian. He's thinking about the compatibility between them. He didn't even go to the financial needs thing, because may be he knows Sai fully capable taking her financial needs or giving herself a lavish lifestyle. He's thinking about emotional needs, which may Ajinkya give...or should I say or not... let it be. He's thinking about the understanding level between them and their relationship which is unstable now

Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9

Virat is not acting as father but he is doing this as husband only , makers r showing sai do dumb that she can't differentiate b/w a fatherly love & husbandly love . Sai is not that dumb like she portray herself.

God knows how many times she had seen virat organizing birthday for orphanage.

She clearly enjoys virat's advances & attention then portray it had been a favour on an orphan🤪

They don't make any sense because there's no continuity

Originally posted by: tptwi

My heart broke for Virat today. I understood 100% where his insecurities are coming from.

He is a man completely in love. It doesn't matter what his age is, what his profession is, or how settled he is. Love overpowers all rationality and other emotions.

Even though he can see that Sai is falling in love with him through certain actions of her's, he is getting no reassurance from her. Every time he tries to do something for her, she brings up the vaada and the zimidari. And I understand where she is coming from in this regard, too, as I have written in numerous other posts. But, focusing on Virat here. He is scared of losing her. He is scared that she will never accept this relationship as real. He is scared that he is too old for her and that she will find someone she is more compatible with.. and the manifestation of that is Ajinkya. And, I understand why the age thing is bothering him. Sai's intentions are pure when joking about it, but from his perspective, he is already insecure about this, and Sai keeps on tugging at it. Bringing up an insecurity over and over again is more than enough for someone to get pushed over the edge about it.

He sees the way that Sai looks at him, and she even expressed how much she admired, respected, and was thankful to him today. Despite all of this, he is getting no verbal affirmations of this relationship from her... just like she isn't getting any verbal affirmations that clearly are allowing her to move on from the vaada just like he is. Both of them are stuck in similar positions in this way, and that is why to me, both of their insecurities are heartbreaking.

Yesterday I was telling you the exact thing .. today it happened.. Sai by touching his feet is giving the total wrong signals .. and he by bringing her father again n again.. has brought this to a different level .. she now sees him as a substitute for father .. in fact now ninad will be useful .. it’s good the harmonium track has to be set up .. relationship between ninad n Sai has to improve .. she has to get a father back for her to start fighting with virat as a wife ..

Originally posted by: msin

Yesterday I was telling you the exact thing .. today it happened.. Sai by touching his feet is giving the total wrong signals .. and he by bringing her father again n again.. has brought this to a different level .. she now sees him as a substitute for father .. in fact now ninad will be useful .. it’s good the harmonium track has to be set up .. relationship between ninad n Sai has to improve .. she has to get a father back for her to start fighting with virat as a wife ..

Yesterday, I was explaining my thoughts from Sai's perspective. I still stand by the fact that she does not see Virat as her father. Today, my post was from Virat's perspective, because her intentions are coming across the wrong way to him, which is also understandable. I think that is why all of this is so heartbreaking... because neither one of them are wrong.

You know insecurity seems childish sometimes, for instance didi's one. That insecurity is like the biggest joke of mankind 😆 Cuz, we all can sense no motive, no connection to feel that way.

But, if we see some other instances, insecurity is something which creeps up most of the times only around people who we deeply care of, who we feel deeply connected with. And in these cases, we always wish to be No.1 in that person's life. Whether it is happiness or sorrow, we want to stay with that person and somewhere the heart wishes to be their companion during sweet happiness and an extended shoulder to cry during sorrow.

And Virat is not struggling with competition, we all know he is willing to fight, fight til the last moment with anyone and everyone for Sai. But, he somewhere is upset and feels that ,even though he is ready yo fight, maybe Sai won't gladly accept him yet as the winner even if he wins. As in, he feels Sai is not willing to give him the no.1 position even if he fights for her. Maybe that is why he was insecure, and this time I genuinely felt it was so emotional. Cuz, even Sai somewhere was getting what Virat meant today, verbally. She could sense it. And Virat also doesnt know and Sai doesn't realise that already they are the no.1 of each other, in each other's life. But, the gap of verbal exchange sometimes, leads to this slight misconception over their positions in each other's life. That's it ❤️

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

I was trying to understand why is Virat so insecure and is lacking self confidence when it comes to Ajinkya ? If we look at his position , he is just 27 yr old IPS officer , well settled and we have seen how the girls go Gaga for him in the Sai’s school and in college as well . He is good looking , comes from a well respected family and is appears to be a cool officer who can dance , sing and play music . Why would he be insecure of Ajinkya who has only age on his side .

Pyaar andhaa hota hain He is just seeing himself through sais words and ignoring everything else. If he was not head over heals in love with her he would have made jokes like he did in the hospital. But at the moment he is so in love with her that anything she says will affect him be it good or bad.

Originally posted by: NoraSM

I was wondering the way they have shown physical proximity being a huge deal for these two, I was actually surprised that FL expresses her gratitude with hugs.

initially, 'Sai bacchi hai' dialogue was repetitive and irritating. And now, 'Virat Sir buzurg hai' is repetitive and irritating.

Makers ek ek character ko utha utha kar stupid bana rahe hai

Originally posted by: AninditaB

Pink : Because she plays with his insecurities in this aspect. He won't even bother if his Aai says that he's handsome. He wants Sai to say that, Sai doesn't call her handsome, she calls her weird, she's not her first preference, calls him old now and then, this is also one of the reasons he might think Sai doesn't find him handsome. He doesn't notice, how Sai was checking him out when he was dancing.

Blue : This isn't coming in his mind because he's thinking like a lover not a guardian. He's thinking about the compatibility between them. He didn't even go to the financial needs thing, because may be he knows Sai fully capable taking her financial needs or giving herself a lavish lifestyle. He's thinking about emotional needs, which may Ajinkya give...or should I say or not... let it be. He's thinking about the understanding level between them and their relationship which is unstable now

Like I had mentioned in my initial post , Sai’s emotional needs is not same as any 19 yr old and Ajinkya will not be able to satisfy her needs . I understand what you are trying to say about same mindset

Originally posted by: Shristhi2002

You know insecurity seems childish sometimes, for instance didi's one. That insecurity is like the biggest joke of mankind 😆 Cuz, we all can sense no motive, no connection to feel that way.

But, if we see some other instances, insecurity is something which creeps up most of the times only around people who we deeply care of, who we feel deeply connected with. And in these cases, we always wish to be No.1 in that person's life. Whether it is happiness or sorrow, we want to stay with that person and somewhere the heart wishes to be their companion during sweet happiness and an extended shoulder to cry during sorrow.

And Virat is not struggling with competition, we all know he is willing to fight, fight til the last moment with anyone and everyone for Sai. But, he somewhere is upset and feels that ,even though he is ready yo fight, maybe Sai won't gladly accept him yet as the winner even if he wins. As in, he feels Sai is not willing to give him the no.1 position even if he fights for her. Maybe that is why he was insecure, and this time I genuinely felt it was so emotional. Cuz, even Sai somewhere was getting what Virat meant today, verbally. She could sense it. And Virat also doesnt know and Sai doesn't realise that already they are the no.1 of each other, in each other's life. But, the gap of verbal exchange sometimes, leads to this slight misconception over their positions in each other's life. That's it ❤️