Sayonara!❤ - Page 2

Originally posted by: Optimist_d

"LIFE IS TOO SHORT TO WASTE TIME HATING ANYONE"

I was reading something and I have come across this. This made me realize how much time I'm wasting by hating a fictional character. I dont hate anyone in my real life as much as I hate her. But why should I even waste my feelings for a fictional character? I used to get relived of my stress when I watch SaiRat. Yes, I have no problem with the drama they used to show but always showing an abuser to be as a victim is not something that I can take.

When I read a novel or watch a movie, if there is any negative character, I always get intrigued to know how they get punished. Be it in books or movies or series, u do get connected and want the bad ones to face karma for their actions. Here, leave about punishment, there's not even guilt for these people.

Let's start with the ghar ke mukhya, Bhavani Nagesh Chavan. The lady who doesnt even love her own daughter but expects everyone to love her, more than their wife/mother/whoever it is! By showing no punishment to her, they have normalized hate crimes. Yes, whatever she did is hate crime for me. I get it that they cant send her to jail, but not even a punishment? They were partying as if she did some great thing!

Ninad is the epitome of how a husband should not be! Leave about husband, can we even call him a good human being? I doubt. Ashwini should slap divorce papers on his face!

Omkar- If, even after a warning from Virat, he has the audacity to taunt, I dont know whom to blame.

Patralekha aka Pakhi- she cheated her husband, physically and mentally tortured Sai, harasses her so called friend, but all I get to see is a sad bgm for her, wah! People say she hit a low on the day she wrote that letter. But for me, it's the silbatta day. Just for her jealously, whatever she did to Sai that day, there's no redemption, atleast in my eyes.

Now if you ask me, if my hatred for all of this is more than my love for SaiRat, then let me tell you. I love them and that's why I cant see them getting butchered. Honestly, i lost the touch during that kidnapping drama and ousting. One decided not to trust the husband and hide things from him while the other decided things without even considering a woman's safety. Yes, I did enjoy their hospital scenes, laddoo one, DevKit lunch and all, but its difficult for me to forget what they did.

I still try to understand the characters for their actions. But things are not the same. I am so addicted to the show and especially to the forum, all thanks to you guys, so it's a very tough decision for me. I have been thinking about this for the past few hours and decided that I need a break. Especially from the toxicity, the dialogues they use. It's so triggering!

Thank you so much to each one of you, my time here is nothing less than amazing!❤️ I'll miss you all for sure, take care 😊

Tussi ja rahe ho😭mat jao isiliye nhi kahungi coz I understand d reason , plz take much needed break & do comeback, I liked ur post. Forum will definitely miss u.

Stay safe , take care & may god bless u.❤️

Originally posted by: Optimist_d

"LIFE IS TOO SHORT TO WASTE TIME HATING ANYONE"

I was reading something and I have come across this. This made me realize how much time I'm wasting by hating a fictional character. I dont hate anyone in my real life as much as I hate her. But why should I even waste my feelings for a fictional character? I used to get relived of my stress when I watch SaiRat. Yes, I have no problem with the drama they used to show but always showing an abuser to be as a victim is not something that I can take.

When I read a novel or watch a movie, if there is any negative character, I always get intrigued to know how they get punished. Be it in books or movies or series, u do get connected and want the bad ones to face karma for their actions. Here, leave about punishment, there's not even guilt for these people.

Let's start with the ghar ke mukhya, Bhavani Nagesh Chavan. The lady who doesnt even love her own daughter but expects everyone to love her, more than their wife/mother/whoever it is! By showing no punishment to her, they have normalized hate crimes. Yes, whatever she did is hate crime for me. I get it that they cant send her to jail, but not even a punishment? They were partying as if she did some great thing!

Ninad is the epitome of how a husband should not be! Leave about husband, can we even call him a good human being? I doubt. Ashwini should slap divorce papers on his face!

Omkar- If, even after a warning from Virat, he has the audacity to taunt, I dont know whom to blame.

Patralekha aka Pakhi- she cheated her husband, physically and mentally tortured Sai, harasses her so called friend, but all I get to see is a sad bgm for her, wah! People say she hit a low on the day she wrote that letter. But for me, it's the silbatta day. Just for her jealously, whatever she did to Sai that day, there's no redemption, atleast in my eyes.

Now if you ask me, if my hatred for all of this is more than my love for SaiRat, then let me tell you. I love them and that's why I cant see them getting butchered. Honestly, i lost the touch during that kidnapping drama and ousting. One decided not to trust the husband and hide things from him while the other decided things without even considering a woman's safety. Yes, I did enjoy their hospital scenes, laddoo one, DevKit lunch and all, but its difficult for me to forget what they did.

I still try to understand the characters for their actions. But things are not the same. I am so addicted to the show and especially to the forum, all thanks to you guys, so it's a very tough decision for me. I have been thinking about this for the past few hours and decided that I need a break. Especially from the toxicity, the dialogues they use. It's so triggering!

Thank you so much to each one of you, my time here is nothing less than amazing!❤️ I'll miss you all for sure, take care 😊

I'll miss you so so much😭😭

I can understand how you might be feeling, but pls stay. Maybe take a short break from this positive lead🤢

But, pls ,think of coming back❤️

We all will miss you and I won't ask you to stay.

Hope to meet you in a different forum someday. 🤗🤗

Can't believe you are leaving but I understand what you are feeling. Won't force you to stay. You can always come back later if you want. Will miss you and lovely posts.

Take care ❤

As Sera has said, can meet in some other forum too in future.

Originally posted by: ShipIsSailing

As much as I would love to stop you, I won't. Because I completely agree with you. This show is very toxic and even though SaiRat are really great couple and they have brilliant chemistry, it is just not enough for me.

So...Take Care!❤️

True! Thank you dear!❤️

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

A show should entertain us and should be a stress buster . If the show is adding more stress then it’s not worth it . I hope you take a break and if you still love the show and forum you might feel like coming back

I read somewhere if we can control the urge to do something we are addicted ro for 15 days we will lose interest in it .

Yes dear, I think the stress wasnt worth back then. Will try to watch few episodes now and then decide :)

Btw, I controlled the urge for almost a month I believe!! Yayyyy!! But look at the episode I choose to comeback, phew!

So its decided, if I love anything about the show, it's NeilSha's acting and their chemistry. Let's not talk about what I hate 😆

Originally posted by: linakusharberry

even though we have not get to interact with eachother but its sad to see someone from the family leaving , but yeah can understand it , wish u goo luck and take care and hope to see u soon 🤗

Thank you so much dear!🤗 I understand how it feels when someone leave, tough decision :)

Originally posted by: Mages

I would love to stop you for the friendship and bond we share but than i totally understand you to take short break and have a fresh mind

this show has burst our brains to the maximum and i guess we all need a break infact i have taken too nowadays i am not watching the show much and its by reading siya's updates than i make my decision to watch it or not. If i do want to watch i FF all that scenes that boils my blood and just watch sairat scenes or other good scenes that spreads love and positivity

in the name of drama and trps too much toxicity and malign on relationships is not what i want to see everyday and stress myself when the whole world is already suffering from a pandemic and our personal lives too has so much issues to deal with

I agree its reality of life but here i prefer to be entertained rather than watch reality that stress my brains even further in reality things are much worst if not for censorship and broadcast rights this ghum makers might show unethical stuff too in the name of drama that brings in trps

i sign up the show for sairat and the progress in their relationship and how they go through ups n down of their relationship together as husband-wife not toxicity in their relationship

they have totally compromise with character graphs too that annoys me especially of sairat character graphs that shook me during kidnapping upto now and god knows what they made virat into its so out of character

a short break is definitely needed now even sai & sairat can't stop

already now i based on siya's updates to watch the show soon if i loose patience,i will completely stop watching the show

in a way slowly i have already detach myself already from the show that i don't watch repeatly when actually i used to watch repeatly in the earlier days

now i am here only for you guys...my friends❤

wish you good luck yaara❤ and if have time do visit us❤i totally can understand your feelings as most of us do feel the same👍🏼all the best👍🏼

You said it all and I completely agree with you! Even i thought i should be here for all of u but I back then, I couldnt control myself. It was too much for me to handle.

Thank you so much for your lovely words!🤗 Good luck to you too yaara ❤️

Originally posted by: MSgayatri

I doubt if we interacted ..... But take the break u Feel u need..... Do your detox and be back in the forum with your set of People!!! 🤗🤗

We did, if I remember correctly, u are from south🤔

Haha, I hope that the detox will work😆

Thank you dear!🤗

Originally posted by: Sairat

I understand dear and somehow it made perfect sense.

Love reading your posts.

Aww! Thank you!!❤️🤗