Sher aya sher aya

I remembered this story of sher aya sher aya . Until today Pakhi kept ranting about getting insulted when it never happened but today when she really got misunderstood no one believed her . I never thought I will say this but I felt terrible for Pakhi today . She was not at fault and it was an accident but she was blamed for something she never intended to do . Yes she never helped Sai but I felt it was too sudden for her to react and with Virat coming her focus was shifted . I didn’t feel like she any ill intentions today . She hasn’t moved on and is unable to move on so she is hurt seeing the celebrations. She stayed in her room without spoiling the function . I didn’t find her wrong today . Yes she could have been more sympathetic towards Sai but it was an accident at the end of the day .

I am disappointed with two people today . One Virat for manhandling Pakhi . She is his brother’s wife and he has no right to behave like this in her husband’s absence .

Second is Sai . She is the one with high moral compass yet she didn’t reveal the entire incident about her forcefully pulling Pakhi but made it feel like it wasn’t an accident.

Pakhi is such a fool not to move on . If she had given her marriage a chance she would have her husband by her side and maybe he would have stood by her in such situation .

I agree that virat should not have held her hand. She is his bhabhi and elder in relationship. Period.

You're right! Today was the only time when I felt Pakhi didi didnt do something intentionally nd Virat overreacted bit since she kinda deserved it for all the shit she pulled in the past I dont feel too bad for her!

First thing is first. A lot of people have a problem with Virat grabbing Pakhi's arm today. And many people are complaining that it was inappropriate given their history and that is why he should not have touched her. But, like you have said, the problem is 100% that he has no right to manhandle ANYONE. He did it out of rage, not because of any comfort or affection he shares with her- both of those emotions are nonexistent in his mind towards Pakhi, and he made that VERY clear today.

Other than the manhandling, I felt that Virat's rage was 100% justified. Yes, it was an accident. But, like Virat himself said, the bigger issue was that Pakhi doesn't care about Sai at all. She stood there instead of helping her up. Instead apologizing or even getting the first aid box, she created a tamasha as usual. She started bashing Sai and victimizing herself- doing her daily drama, and then having the audacity to call Sai a drama queen when Sai was the one who kept trying to end all of it and just get back to the party. I am not saying that Sai is not stubborn and she should not have forced Pakhi so much. But, I stand by what I have been saying for the past few days in that her intentions were 100% pure just like Virat told the entire family. He was right to expose her, because it's high time that she is held accountable for her actions.

All in all, how hard would it have been for her to apologize, help Sai up, and move on? But no...Pakhi will never change.

Agree except for handholding everything was conveyed well!

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

I remembered this story of sher aya sher aya . Until today Pakhi kept ranting about getting insulted when it never happened but today when she really got misunderstood no one believed her . I never thought I will say this but I felt terrible for Pakhi today . She was not at fault and it was an accident but she was blamed for something she never intended to do . Yes she never helped Sai but I felt it was too sudden for her to react and with Virat coming her focus was shifted . I didn’t feel like she any ill intentions today . She hasn’t moved on and is unable to move on so she is hurt seeing the celebrations. She stayed in her room without spoiling the function . I didn’t find her wrong today . Yes she could have been more sympathetic towards Sai but it was an accident at the end of the day .

I am disappointed with two people today . One Virat for manhandling Pakhi . She is his brother’s wife and he has no right to behave like this in her husband’s absence .

Second is Sai . She is the one with high moral compass yet she didn’t reveal the entire incident about her forcefully pulling Pakhi but made it feel like it wasn’t an accident.

Pakhi is such a fool not to move on . If she had given her marriage a chance she would have her husband by her side and maybe he would have stood by her in such situation .

totally agree! It was definitely a sher aya situation today. I know there is no justification for Viru’s bad behavior or even Sai who should’ve also spoken up but I think all the built up anger towards Pakhi’s behaviors was added up today and it just came out in the wrong timing. Again, totally agree Virat should not be treating her the way he did.

AND main point!! I just do not get why Pakhi can’t move on? What is it about Virat that she’s still in love with? He’s insulted her, ignored her, manhandled her (as of today) and in the past few weeks there hasn’t been any interaction between the two that Pakhi is still holding on to everything. I just don’t understand!! Like you said, if she had given her marriage a chance she would have a supportive and loving husband by her side.

Also, who in the right mind gets married to someone’s brother thinking she would have a chance with her Devar. I mean did she think the family or Samrat would never find out? Did she get married to have an EMA? Again, I’m trying to grasp the thought process lol.

Sorry about the rant, went off track.

Originally posted by: tptwi

First thing is first. A lot of people have a problem with Virat grabbing Pakhi's arm today. And many people are complaining that it was inappropriate given their history and that is why he should not have touched her. But, like you have said, the problem is 100% that he has no right to manhandle ANYONE. He did it out of rage, not because of any comfort or affection he shares with her- both of those emotions are nonexistent in his mind towards Pakhi, and he made that VERY clear today.

Other than the manhandling, I felt that Virat's rage was 100% justified. Yes, it was an accident. But, like Virat himself said, the bigger issue was that Pakhi doesn't care about Sai at all. She stood there instead of helping her up. Instead apologizing or even getting the first aid box, she created a tamasha as usual. She started bashing Sai and victimizing herself- doing her daily drama, and then having the audacity to call Sai a drama queen when Sai was the one who kept trying to end all of it and just get back to the party. I am not saying that Sai is not stubborn and she should not have forced Pakhi so much. But, I stand by what I have been saying for the past few days in that her intentions were 100% pure just like Virat told the entire family. He was right to expose her, because it's high time that she is held accountable for her actions.

All in all, how hard would it have been for her to apologize, help Sai up, and move on? But no...Pakhi will never change.

Yes she should have apologized but I understand why she didn’t though I don’t support her actions . Initially , Pakhi was shocked and later with the way she was blamed for the accident she didn’t feel like doing it .Sai was wrong in saying this is a birthday gift from Pakhi when she knew it was an accident

Originally posted by: armulover

totally agree! It was definitely a sher aya situation today. I know there is no justification for Viru’s bad behavior or even Sai who should’ve also spoken up but I think all the built up anger towards Pakhi’s behaviors was added up today and it just came out in the wrong timing. Again, totally agree Virat should not be treating her the way he did.

AND main point!! I just do not get why Pakhi can’t move on? What is it about Virat that she’s still in love with? He’s insulted her, ignored her, manhandled her (as of today) and in the past few weeks there hasn’t been any interaction between the two that Pakhi is still holding on to everything. I just don’t understand!! Like you said, if she had given her marriage a chance she would have a supportive and loving husband by her side.

Also, who in the right mind gets married to someone’s brother thinking she would have a chance with her Devar. I mean did she think the family or Samrat would never find out? Did she get married to have an EMA? Again, I’m trying to grasp the thought process lol.

Sorry about the rant, went off track.

I feel Pakhi lacks self respect, how can she still pine for the guy who has clearly rejected her , ignored her and have clearly said he is in love with someone . I blame her completely.

I won't feel bad for a gunda who shows his gunda giri in 364 days but get beaten 1 day accidentally. She is the one who always twists what sai says , give it to another meaning in front of elders thus adding fire and corner sai. She also twist virat's words and action.. even today she did it ..

Pakhi didn't do it intentionally but she should have said a sorry and also bring first aid box when virat asked to.. like a normal human being. If she did then virat wouldn't have accused her. Here she was busy in blaming sai and accusing her for doing nautanki.

Initial days I used to blame equally virat for turning pakhi's life mess and bitter from the happy go lucky pakhi in first week...But then realized pakhi is always bitter person from inside who looked positive in initial episode because of the positive environment around her.. so yeah..

Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

I wouldn’t have any problem If Virat had just held her hand . I trust Virat and I know that he doesn’t have any feelings for her . There is nothing wrong in holding your SIL hand even if she is an ex when there is no ill intentions . I supported him when he held her hand to stop her from reveling the truth but today it was manhandling which is not acceptable.

Yes she should have apologized but I understand why she didn’t though I don’t support her actions . Initially , Pakhi was shocked and later with the way she was blamed for the accident she didn’t feel like doing it .Sai was wrong in saying this is a birthday gift from Pakhi when she knew it was an accident

I defended Virat too after the surprise hand holding scene, because I knew his intentions were pure. But, still, there are 10000s of other ways the makers could have kept Pakhi from talking. Showing Virat grabbing Pakhi's hand after multiple times of avoiding her touch and visibly being uncomfortable around her was just not great to see. Yes, maybe he was caught up in the moment and excited for Sai's birthday, so it was an impulse to grab her hand to make her shut up, but given their history and Pakhi's horny expressions in response, it really spoiled the mood. Anyways, that is a different conversation that we don't need to have here. I agree with you that the manhandling today was unacceptable no matter how angry he was at her.

And even before Sai fell, Pakhi was bashing Sai from the start. She started her tamasha right when Sai entered the room, even before Sai started forcing her to come down. I agree that Sai falling was not Pakhi fault this time, but she still crossed her limit in insulting Sai yet again. Ok, so she was shocked when Sai fell. She could have brought the first aid box when Virat asked or showed even a little bit of concern towards Sai. Instead, she said Sai was lighting a fire in Virat's heart, etc. etc....Again, Virat's main problem was her lack of concern, which he clearly told her and the rest of the family. I don't think that Sai was wrong in saying that this was her birthday gift from Pakhi- how much is she supposed to tolerate? Despite all of Pakhi's hatred towards her, she still wanted to include her in her birthday. She barely said anything in response to her for all her taunts today...in fact she just wanted to move on from it all even when the family was fighting about it.