Even desi Punjabis despite doing full phere (they have no choice...marriage wont be valid lol ) do loads of gora influence by having groomsmen and bridesmaids, it annoys me bringing 5-6 girls with you in matching outfits to the pandaal...even carrying flowers now a days . Most annoying part is ,while sitting in front of guru granth sahib, both groom and bride keep talking, so disrespectful...I can totally see how people get so influenced ....I still remembered my poor aunt trying to do groom and his mom dance with 2 left feet lol🤣..
Coming to the story may be aeya will be another zoobie from yaariyaan....
I honestly don’t mind taking influence from other cultures. I feel there is nothing wrong with taking stuff from other cultures. It’s how we evolve. Obviously that doesn’t mean forget who u r completely or think ur culture is beneath u. You should still be respectful n caring of your own culture. Because regardless of how much u copy others it will never be urs. Be proud of who u r n where u came from.
As a side note I always found our marriages far more interesting n eventful than theirs. Maybe I’m just old school. I used to enjoy going to marriage events the food the friends everything was always amazing.