Ishq par Zor Nahi - EDT#27 Dil dia Gallan - Page 55

Originally posted by: kankabhor

Ahaan's insecurities in Ishqaan relationship:

I think Ahaan is more aware of how their relationship is not as strong as they might want it to be. He is aware that their relationship has to go through a lot of tests. He also brought up the fact that they got married in a hurry and their relationship has not evolved yet. He knows that they need to put extra efforts than other normal couples in this relationship not only because they are different but also because of dadi.

There are enough external forces that are waiting for one chance to break their relationship. So he doesn't want any problem that is coming from either of them. He wants Ishqi on his side always because he knows if they are together they can fight the world. But, if there is even the slightest issue between them, it can turn into separation. He is already worried about Rhea's truth causing issues between them. He very well realized no matter what, he wants Ishqi in his life. Every day, he is scared to lose Ishqi. And that's why he keeps promising Ishqi every day about how he would never leave her, how he would always trust her, how he would not do any more mistakes etc.

Generally, Ishqi is practical and Ahaan is extremely emotional but in their relationship/married life, Ishqi is being ideal. She is confident that Ahaan will always be there for her even after he gets to know Ishqi brought Savitri. That's how she talked to Maasi and Savitri when they asked her to be careful and think about her married life. She said to her maasi "Mera banda dil se achha hai". She is not thinking about the problems/MU it might create in their life. On other hand, Ahaan is being very realistic. He is aware of the surroundings, dadi, themselves, and that's why he wants to make their relationship stronger every day. He wants to prepare themselves to fight any odd. Ahaan's insecurities to lose Ishqi are very real and these would exist irrespective of Rhea.

@Ruby, To answer your question, Ahaan's outburst did not come randomly. It was after he heard dadi talking bad about Ishqi. He was more desperate and scared at that moment that dadi might ask him to chose between Ishqi and herself again. I think he understood she was with maasi just to share worry and not to get money.

But I still don't know why he did not ask maasi. Maybe he doesn't want to create a scene as things might get escalated if dadi gets to know that IShwi disappeared without even telling Ahaan.

Red: I have the same thoughts. I think it felt a little out of nowhere because they showed Ahaan trying Ishqi's phone and then cut straight to the night scene. I'm still not used to how fast-paced this show is😆

Ahaan is insecure, yes, and outright terrified of losing Ishqi. The helplessness and desperation on his face in that scene said it all. The way he clarified that he wasn't questioning her as a husband doing 'dhaunspatti' but just so he could defend her in case Daadi asks--he knows very well how Ishqi would hate it if he did the former so he needed to make sure she understood his concerns. Like we discussed earlier, Ahaan is walking on a tight rope balancing what he has with Ishqi and Daadi, the two most important women in his life. On top of that, Rhea's truth and the business scandal are heavily weighing on him, with no one to confide in. Honestly, I don't know what Ishqi is doing will have outcome she is expecting. This guy is already on the verge of a breakdown and as much as he needs to face his biggest trauma, I don't think now is the right time for it. Of course, Ishqi is unaware of everything that Ahaan is already struggling with but this grand plan of hers might backfire, ruining the image of this 'ideal' of Ishqaan she has in mind.

Blue: They still need to grow, SO MUCH.

Originally posted by: rubys07

I don't know if you guys talked about this already, but did any one of you feel like Ahaan's outburst at Ishqi for coming home late (even if it was for Daadi) was a little random? And how convincing it is that Ishqi spent SO MANY HOURS at Maasi's place just to get the money from the AC?

and that too in the AC doesn't exist anymore...

It was shown in second episode that she hides money in the AC, they lost that house 6 months ago🤣

and clueless Ahaan as always dint question her the same😆

Originally posted by: Monstuholic

meri ek friend hai, her boyfriend, soon to be fiancé is a chauvinistic pig,

Woh mujhe bolti hai, he does this and he does that, he is so sweet

And I tell her that he already repulses me, if you find these things cute, we can no longer be friends

I had a friend who used to complain to me when she fought with her bf and I didn’t like him either so I always took my friend’s side. Later she made up with her bf, made me the bad person trying to spoil her relationship so we aren’t friends anymore. So better not get involved only 😂

Originally posted by: sparklep

and that too in the AC doesn't exist anymore...

It was shown in second episode that she hides money in the AC, they lost that house 6 months ago🤣

and clueless Ahaan as always dint question her the same😆

I remember that and thought she would somehow explain that to Ahaan.

Then I realized Ahaan believed Rhea got pregnant in 7 days so no need 😳😆

Originally posted by: rubys07

Red: I have the same thoughts. I think it felt a little out of nowhere because they showed Ahaan trying Ishqi's phone and then cut straight to the night scene. I'm still not used to how fast-paced this show is😆

Ahaan is insecure, yes, and outright terrified of losing Ishqi. The helplessness and desperation on his face in that scene said it all. The way he clarified that he wasn't questioning her as a husband doing 'dhaunspatti' but just so he could defend her in case Daadi asks--he knows very well how Ishqi would hate it if he did the former so he needed to make sure she understood his concerns. Like we discussed earlier, Ahaan is walking on a tight rope balancing what he has with Ishqi and Daadi, the two most important women in his life. On top of that, Rhea's truth and the business scandal are heavily weighing on him, with no one to confide in. Honestly, I don't know what Ishqi is doing will have outcome she is expecting. This guy is already on the verge of a breakdown and as much as he needs to face his biggest trauma, I don't think now is the right time for it. Of course, Ishqi is unaware of everything that Ahaan is already struggling with but this grand plan of hers might backfire, ruining the image of this 'ideal' of Ishqaan she has in mind.

Blue: They still need to grow, SO MUCH.

Bold: ITA.

Actually I was a bit annoyed at Ishqi for not looking at the bigger picture. We have Ahaan literally dealing with stresses from left, right, center. In trying to help him with family, she is in a way opening a whole new can of worms at the worst possible time. She has no idea how bad it will be for her when it is revealed she did all this because she did not trust him with the truth at the time (again). The only saving grace is the Rhea track in parallel because then at least both were at mistake and not just one. But definitely Ishqi is being completely unrealistic and not thinking it through.

Originally posted by: esprit_00

Bold: ITA.

Actually I was a bit annoyed at Ishqi for not looking at the bigger picture. We have Ahaan literally dealing with stresses from left, right, center. In trying to help him with family, she is in a way opening a whole new can of worms at the worst possible time. She has no idea how bad it will be for her when it is revealed she did all this because she did not trust him with the truth at the time (again). The only saving grace is the Rhea track in parallel because then at least both were at mistake and not just one. But definitely Ishqi is being completely unrealistic and not thinking it through.

I think ishqi also has 2 problems at hand:

- she cannot lie when she knows the truth

- keeping Savitri’s truth hidden for a long time isn’t safe as Daadi may find out.

- her plan seems to solve Ahaan’s business issue (logic gaya tel lene).

Also she isn’t aware of Rhea ka bacha stress

Also. It’s not about trust here in ishiq’s case. She can’t tell Ahaan the truth outright. It just won’t work. I think she should have approached Karthik first.. and then Chaachi and Sonu.. phir Ahaan .

Originally posted by: Autumn_Rose

Also. It’s not about trust here in ishiq’s case. She can’t tell Ahaan the truth outright. It just won’t work. I think she should have approached Karthik first.. and then Chaachi and Sonu.. phir Ahaan .

I think without naming Savitri, Ishqi could have confided that she found a woman in distress who wanted to be with her kids but her in-laws didn't allow. And that she knows because of bla bla "recalling all facts".

I agree she doesn't know about Rhea ... and that is why these two tracks need to go in parallel - because it is the only way to understand why they were not being completely honest - hopefully this will be the trigger in finding a balance of love vs trust vs honesty in their marriage.

Originally posted by: esprit_00

I think without naming Savitri, Ishqi could have confided that she found a woman in distress who wanted to be with her kids but her in-laws didn't allow. And that she knows because of bla bla "recalling all facts".

I agree she doesn't know about Rhea ... and that is why these two tracks need to go in parallel - because it is the only way to understand why they were not being completely honest - hopefully this will be the trigger in finding a balance of love vs trust vs honesty in their marriage.

@bold.. it’s not just about her telling Ahaan.. she wants to patch them up like her life depends on it 😆

IMO, she needs to take helo from rest of the family so that the entire blame doesn’t fall on her..she should have Karthik, chaachi and.. later on Sonu too in her plan.

https://www.instagram.com/p/CNmJLh2J8tu/?utm_medium=copy_link

And you'll were talking about this earlier, right??😳